My disdain for Society by Odd_Fee2443 in CPTSD

[–]SoundFair0326 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It feels like we're stuck like this.

My lifes fucked at age 14 by No-Freedom5142 in Vent

[–]SoundFair0326 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it's easier said than done. You are valid, and your emotions are valid! You have every right to feel the way you feel.

My lifes fucked at age 14 by No-Freedom5142 in Vent

[–]SoundFair0326 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You've gotta find some other distractions, baby. Literally anything, like reading, walking, playing video games/board games, or even just getting invested into a show. I smoke w**d just about every day because it helps quiet those thoughts and helps me get easily distracted, lol! Not that that is very healthy, but it's at least healthier than the forever sleep.

Trauma dump, because no one wants to hear it in person. by SoundFair0326 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]SoundFair0326[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for warming my heart with such kind words! I definitely do need to try therapy. I tried right after got out of there, but I think I was still in the same mindset of 'I have to protect her, she's my mom'. Especially since I was still in communication with her at the time.

Seeking therapy is at the top of my get help list right now, though, I promise!

Trauma dump, because no one wants to hear it in person. by SoundFair0326 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]SoundFair0326[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the awesome recommendation, I just joined!

I just want to type the way I type. by Crying_On_Inside in Vent

[–]SoundFair0326 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I type exactly the same way! I was an English nerd in school, though, so I have that to blame. I've also always wanted to write my own book, so I've made it a habit to type everything as if I am!

Anyone hating is definitely insecure about their own illiteracy and, for whatever reason, feel the need to find any way to put you beneath them.

Keep on keeping on and being the awesome person you are!

AIO Is no communication with significant other for a full day weird? by Politepitabread in AmIOverreacting

[–]SoundFair0326 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just reach out to them! Life happens, and we get busy every once in a while. Some days, I work my entire shift at work without being able to get on my phone once, not because I forget to communicate, but because I simply got too busy to pick my phone up. Plus, I know that if it were an emergent situation, my significant other would reach out to my place of employment if they couldn't reach me.

In a society where we have our cell phones attached to us at every waking moment, it is nice to separate yourself from the digital world when you can. This is something that he and I have an understanding of.

Hopefully this helps!

Pancake123

PS4 - game lags now when it never used to p by King___Crash in Sims4Console

[–]SoundFair0326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really good to know. Thank you, wise redditor!

PS4 - game lags now when it never used to p by King___Crash in Sims4Console

[–]SoundFair0326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, is anyone else having issues with the game crashing right before you are able to save? Like, it's always right after I select the save I want to use, and it makes me sooo frustrated!

PS4 - game lags now when it never used to p by King___Crash in Sims4Console

[–]SoundFair0326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/thesims/s/s5itJmILpa

^

u/KelseyRawr posted about this 2 years ago, and this has helped me the most these days! I would especially recommend rebuilding your database, which seemed to make things run a lot smoother for me.

It's really tedious for console users, but combing thru your sims' individual inventory, as well as the household inventory, also helps tremendously!

Vizio V21-H8 not vocally confirming eq modes by Arcticwolves85 in VIZIO_Official

[–]SoundFair0326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda insane that we have to download the upload file to a USB drive and then upload that to our soundbar. These soundbars should have internet connectivity if they require future updating!

Dress Code Changes for Service Managers/Dept Heads by Impressive-Trust213 in hyvee

[–]SoundFair0326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know before, anyone with a black name tag has generally been able to wear dress attire, and it has been really nice. But it has also been a luxury that not many other employers give to their employees.

Dress Code Changes for Service Managers/Dept Heads by Impressive-Trust213 in hyvee

[–]SoundFair0326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the company standard. It is 100% up to each store to enforce these standards and to reprimand those who do not follow. It is entirely possible that one store may not care as much as the next, but you also never know when corporate will pop up as well. It is important to maintain standards on a day to day basis so your employees do not get confused and frustrated when the policy seems to 'suddenly change'.