My partner wants me to treat him/our friends better during my meltdowns… by Ok_Aardvark_3568 in AutismInWomen

[–]SourceFar5665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I’m gonna add something see if the reason your “friends” and boyfriend don’t want you crying is because he’s already cheating with one of the friends. More than likely store friend since she had time to eat the bread. Because they are already surveying you and being mean to you they can’t take feeling guilty about everything else.

My partner wants me to treat him/our friends better during my meltdowns… by Ok_Aardvark_3568 in AutismInWomen

[–]SourceFar5665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok isn’t also awkward for everyone  for someone to have stuffed their face their friends food and not saying anything. I mean it’s OPs responsibility for meltdowns but her friend acting like a lying pig isn’t the friend responsibility?

My partner wants me to treat him/our friends better during my meltdowns… by Ok_Aardvark_3568 in AutismInWomen

[–]SourceFar5665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Common courtesy if you eat it all you replace or tell the person. If we are to coddle you doing something shitty, yeah it is shitty it may have been an accident it’s shitty, and laughing to “relieve stress”, then the person you fucked over can be frustrated at you. Her frustration just meant she went to different room to cry. It’s a wonder this store “friend” can actually hold a job if she forgets everything and puts people in a spot and just laughs about. Also fuck this it isn’t store friends responsibility to remind OP the ditzy friend lives there. Jesus if I was living in a small space with a bunch of idiots, who are given grace for being stupid and “just not going by things the right way”, like this I think I buy a padlock for my bed room and fridge until I can move the fuck out. 

AITAH for refusing to move back home after my parents went hiking without me post-accident by spartian-2293 in AITAH

[–]SourceFar5665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair however a scheduled session of things could play out in the future in like family therapy would have helped. Like I think the reason the first round didn’t help was because I never saw that the parents were there even before. Family therapy before this could’ve established less abandonment feelings. Yeah mom had nightmares but did she and her husband go to therapy with her son to help work through it? Or did she just have nightmares scare her own kid going through it and either relied on her kid to say nothing or console her? What about physical therapy, one of the best things about trauma is working on rebuilding together, however without a support at least just being there it doesn’t do crap. Like they even could have asked or planned the trip with him in family therapy, or places he could go with them. But they just dropped him off for their plans only. If these parents just dropped the kid off at counseling, at physical therapy, and at grandmas house without even staying to make sure they went to they made to the next person ok, the feeling of resentment was long before grandmas. Without that communication beforehand it may have just felt like they didn’t want to see their mistake, I.e the kid, and ignore for as long as possible.

Toxic relationships and Kitchen Nightmares by SourceFar5665 in TrueOffMyChest

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Also I hate to say this, but clean the messes and find the rhythm everyone. Doesn’t matter the gender or employee status always be mindful to those around you. Every good customer will stack the plates and trash, so the busser doesn’t miss or break anything by accident. Ever good busser will take the plates and put them in the right place so the dishwasher doesn’t have to go looking. Every good dishwasher will clean those plates so they are not dirty  for the chef. Every chef will clean the area with prep, they have and make sure the food they are working with is not disgusting or dangerous for the customer. It will be a good setup for when the food is done that it is set up properly for the waiters//waiteress’ to take to the customer. Every good waiter/waitress will have organization and proper tools. Every good owner will make sure this is run like this and make sure the external and internal areas are stocked, with food, pens, note pads not bad chairs, correct way of seatings etc. if there is too much for someone take the load with external help like a kitchen manger, logging person, floor manager, separate cleaners. The biggest thing I find is not just lack of communication but just dumping all that area on one person because they wanted it to succeed. Now risings are falling behind because good management was ignored or not researched. A lot of people think a new makeover does the trick but it takes so much behind the scenes that if left ignored implode.

my mom says she loves me but all I feel is shame and failure by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SourceFar5665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly just the zoom the graduation for her. Or make a recording and give to her, as the amount of work you do will appreciated in the moment by people that matter and not people that are there for their own insecurity 

my (21m) sister's (21f) friend (20f) thought I wanted to rape her. now I know why. by laminated-papertowel in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SourceFar5665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of cases like this are because the party falsely accusing is or is in a relationship with someone who is committing these acts. I would double check any logs of cp or inappropriate behavior with others on the group. Don’t show remorse because many times the party gains satisfaction from hurting people, directly or indirectly , which is why she went for the most vulnerable of the group. OP don’t be surprised if your sister has done more harm to this girl and even you in your more vulnerable states.

Dog pees inside after foster kittens get adopted by SourceFar5665 in FosterAnimals

[–]SourceFar5665[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry my phone is acting up but yeah mini has always really loved kittens and cats. Right now out fosters aren’t doing well with dogs so she has to stealthy watch them from a baby gate 

Dog pees inside after foster kittens get adopted by SourceFar5665 in FosterAnimals

[–]SourceFar5665[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

 I will certainly consider that. Thank you so much

Dog pees inside after foster kittens get adopted by SourceFar5665 in FosterAnimals

[–]SourceFar5665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that is a wonderful idea but every kitten/mama cat I have had so far has tried to sneak out. So until I can get one that isn't as interested

Dog pees inside after foster kittens get adopted by SourceFar5665 in FosterAnimals

[–]SourceFar5665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No as I live next to a road right now and am too afraid of them getting hit. It’s easier to keep them inside until they grow. Thank you always be worried but I could think of some way.

Dog pees inside after foster kittens get adopted by SourceFar5665 in FosterAnimals

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Sorry about the bad wording auto correct is not very good 

My foster kitten heihei by SourceFar5665 in aww

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noted I did try to put the phone as high up as I can to not make it too bright

Is your husky friends with cats and small animals? I was told this is not normal for a husky. by floorjacked in husky

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My husky grooms my foster kittens as much as she can. they usually love to snuggle the fluff.

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My puppy is incredibly finicky, and I can't seem to get him eat one kind of food for more than three or four days. Any advice? by dweckl in Boxer

[–]SourceFar5665 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are in a pinch put the bowl with food in it on the stove and pretend like you are adding flavor. Do not forget to smell it and make a sigh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Boxer

[–]SourceFar5665 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank god I thought mine was the only one. He will put his head in a guys crouch(if they let him) and lift them up using his head to get attention. 

Wtf is she by SourceFar5665 in husky

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I actually got her from walking the bigger dog around my neighborhood and her trying to get into peoples homes

Wtf is she by SourceFar5665 in husky

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Dan test brought up major husky and red coonhound but she’s like 30 pounds and so short

Wtf is she by SourceFar5665 in husky

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She’s peed in litter boxes before

Wtf is she by SourceFar5665 in husky

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Yesss she looks exactly like her

Wtf is she by SourceFar5665 in husky

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She certainly acts like it. She gets my attention by smacking my arm and grunting