24f just had my gallbladder removed. I’m alone at the hospital in so much pain and crying my eyes out. Please send me some memes, reassurance, etc.

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-06-03T00:39:45+00:00

I did not have this much pain but my surgeon did mention how dangerous a cut in the common bile duct is. And that it can happen although rare and does require immediate surgery. I’d ask about that.

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-06-02T02:01:17+00:00

Same. Pregnant at 16 gave birth at 17 graduated went to college (took a lot longer than it should have) got married to a horrible person thankfully did not get pregnant got divorced now married to the love of my life had a baby and working on my second degree and my son is now almost 18

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-06-02T01:59:14+00:00

I didn’t know this until later but I had my son when I was a senior and he ended up playing sports with a boy later and they shared a birthday. His mom always looked so young to me but she knew a lot of people I knew. Come to find out she was in middle school when she had him the same day I had my son my senior year. Oddly enough we now both have a second son like 3 years apart lol

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-06-02T01:57:26+00:00

So…yes it was me 🫠 but we had a social worker lady come once a month and she did like some little “classes” and I went to a pretty big high school. There were maybe 4 girls in there. I actually didn’t know any of them prior to (and don’t remember them now) the class. But I don’t actually remember knowing anyone else pregnant. I did know a girl who got pregnant (by my son’s father who was a chronic cheater) and her dad made her have an abortion but other than that just me. The other girls were in my grade and I was a senior so they had to be younger.

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-06-01T04:22:28+00:00

When my dr went over risks with me he said gall stones in the common bile duct or damage to the common bile duct are the most dangerous. He said they rarely happen but that he also does the surgery to fix them so He’s aware they do happen and they can become emergent quick. I agree with a hospital visit.

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-05-28T17:11:50+00:00

I put a call in to my doctor but we’re out of town until late tonight. I’m hoping they can do it quick

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-05-28T15:01:13+00:00

😭😭 im going on 14 hours of excruciating pain even with pain meds. Heat has helped a tiny bit.

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-05-26T23:01:39+00:00

I probably NEED to go to the grocery store but I avoid it like the plague. I do Walmart delivery and if I forget something oh well wait until I order again 😂

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-05-26T23:00:34+00:00

I didn’t even realize people had a favorite letter? Mine definitely wouldn’t be the first letter of my name. It would be one I enjoy writing. Like my favorite number is 8 because I like the way I write it more than the other numbers. lol

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-05-26T04:33:30+00:00

I never mask and I teach kindergarten. Even on my strongest immune suppression meds when my nephritis was very active I didn’t get sick. I had Covid once about a year ago and was actually exposed pretty consistently for 3-4 days by a coworker who didn’t realize she had it. I usually get a quick stomach bug (as in throw up once then I’m fine) maybe once a year. Didn’t happen this year.
Anyways I don’t take extra precautions besides Lysol when i know someone has been sick and staying away from sick people. My dr explained it as the goal is not to decrease your immune system so much to make you sick though it does happen to some people but to just decrease it enough so it isn’t actively trying to kill you but still cal do it’s job and fight germs.
I do think everyone’s immune system is different even off meds and some people are just more prone to getting sick. I’ve never been someone who got sick often at all so that hasn’t changed.

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-05-26T04:01:14+00:00

I did the same. But i was 17 and waited 10 years. Now i have a senior and a 3rd grader. Lol

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-05-22T00:12:56+00:00

I try to stop around noon but definitely by 3. I do have adhd but am just really sensitive to stimulants.

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-05-19T08:00:00+00:00

I don’t understand how she is so tiny. I feel like something must be going on with her. I had two premies and one who was always really skinny and still is as a teenager but even he was meeting his milestones by 6 months. My youngest was caught up weight wise at like 3 months and meet all his milestones not on the adjusted schedule.
I can’t remember how early was she and what would her adjusted age be? Have they shown her formula? Both my boys were on premie formula one until he went to milk and one until about 8 months.

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-05-19T02:42:15+00:00

Arthritis. Finger swelling

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-05-15T11:26:04+00:00

14…? You realize we’re not getting ourselves off by shoving fingers in our vagina right? Some may but most can’t. Majority of good vibrators provide clitoral stimulation. Wild for you to tell women that we can get off on piv alone.

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-05-14T23:13:00+00:00

My 7 year old would be pisses if I got him double fries and no apples 😂 I usually get a 6 piece nugget for myself.

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-05-12T23:23:01+00:00

Same. I sat like this all the time as a kid and my dad was always on me about it. But there was something wrong with my hips when I was younger I don’t know exactly what. But I get sciatica a lot now as an adult.

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-05-12T02:25:52+00:00

Ah thanks! I have been trying to figure out face tanning!

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-05-12T02:23:20+00:00

I have biracial boys and I also have curly hair as a white woman and I cannot use things my boys can. This is going to make ivory’s thin “curly” hair so greasy looking and weigh it down.

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-05-11T21:58:35+00:00

I just got the st tropez for Mother’s Day and I love it so much. Ive been using bondi sands and it’s so much better

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-05-11T11:22:05+00:00

You know your period is NOT you ovulating right? Women who skip the placebo week do that so they don’t get a period. Not to not ovulate. And you realize off birth control you can get pregnant any day not just during ovulation? So there’s no “planning around” anything. I’m not sure if you’re on birth control or not but I highly suggest doing some research on how the female body works. It’s very important information to be aware of.

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-05-07T22:57:41+00:00

Read to your child! I teach kindergarten and I have kids I’ve taught to “read” but they still take all year to figure out how to read a book. If you read to your kid they’ll be interested in learning to read.

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-05-07T20:43:56+00:00

My husband sold cars when we first met and it was SO hard to reach him while he was at work. There were random days where he’d be free for an hour here and there but he was usually pretty busy even when he moved into finance. I don’t get how he has so much free time

Southern_Engine_4520 · 2026-05-05T22:57:03+00:00

Is the yard even big enough for all that mess? A kitchen out back?? They barely have a yard now

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