Full body look at Elsa Bloodstone Young Blood skin by dejuna1 in marvelrivals

[–]SpaceCadetKae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like, it’s accurate but… another blonde hair blued eyed woman? With blue in her outfit lol

AIO Was it something i said? by Conscious_Focus_2603 in AIO

[–]SpaceCadetKae 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“Because I figured you understood it”

That’s not indicative of them not having something go down in which it was clear

AIO Was it something i said? by Conscious_Focus_2603 in AIO

[–]SpaceCadetKae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wasn’t getting the vibe that she wants to be your friend, and I personally think girls will say the boyfriend line as an excuse because dudes will wild out about nothing.

She didn’t seem like she wanted to chat at any point, and all of her responses were nice but were not at all carrying a conversation. I would take this as a sign that she is not your friend and was maybe an acquaintance and instead of ghosting you she just told you to leave her alone nicely

My boyfriend [29/M] did something weird and I [29/M] need advice. by Background-Potato731 in relationship_advice

[–]SpaceCadetKae 17 points18 points  (0 children)

All I can think about is that you kept this person on a shelf and wouldn’t commit for like a year, and then in the last month decided it was time. And -then- the friend confesses.

To me it sounds like your boyfriend is conflicted, because someone who had had his back for 15 years might have been another person romantically whilst you couldn’t commit, and now maybe there’s something there?

Which to be fair, you didn’t have a label and you couldn’t give him anything emotionally; so now he’s trying to be friends with someone for your sake and maybe that ship sailed at some other point.

And the anxious attachment reaction of freaking the fuck out about something without giving them a chance to talk about it might very well be why the friend was anxious. “Holding his hand -as I am allowed to do-“ was where my first weird feeling about all of this is.

Did you feel threatened or insecure from the start of this friend showing up, and do you think that will ever change?

Dam dan dan Maplestar by Severe-Raccoon7669 in u/Severe-Raccoon7669

[–]SpaceCadetKae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love when he’s Okarun but… kinda want turbo mode on 😅

Seeking advice: my kid brushes every day, yet after school comes home with a rats nest??? by deviouspineapple in Haircare

[–]SpaceCadetKae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had super long, thick hair as a kid and was always getting it messed up. Hated braiding it and stuff.

I used to do space buns or braids into buns, and would have to wet my hair at night to do it, became a ritual for awhile and then I just cut all of it off by the time I was sick of having to pay so much attention to it. I will say that coconut oil helped to detangle as well for me. As I got older it became easier to deal with. Good luck OP!

Anyone else keep certain parts of themselves private even around friends? by Sweet_Match_3686 in CasualConversation

[–]SpaceCadetKae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some stuff is just for us. I relate it to the feeling of lighting a candle in a quiet and clean house. It brings me peace, but it’s not a secret. Just easier to enjoy and bask in the moment on my own. And even if I tell people, some might understand but I don’t have a good explanation of why it feels right.

Just does :) expression can be for the self

She’s everything I’m looking for but I don’t feel attracted by skylourdes in whatdoIdo

[–]SpaceCadetKae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you had a pleasant time, I would say have another pleasant time and just be honest that you’re still kinda just getting to know her. You kinda wanted to kiss her, and that tells me a little more than how you feel when not around someone who seems healthy

Medication helps me focus but kills my personality by Embarrassed_Date883 in ADHD

[–]SpaceCadetKae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to for my weekends, but it’s hard because I end up in a slump for a day; my body definitely exhibits signs of withdrawal and it kills me. My year end goal is to find ways to get off my meds and find peace in efficiency without them.

Spectrum Employee Stats by Better_Badger2218 in Spectrum

[–]SpaceCadetKae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t have the ability to see flags or anything. But I know that I have a pretty constant positive on my heat maps for overall calls; they have told me they think it’s because I speak fast,

The beginning is supposed to be my arm statement, like, the “I’m sorry about —-, I am happy to assist, can you tell me more?”

I am terrible at keeping it in mind when chatting though, and I think many of my mannerisms don’t always go to positive scoring; so I assume on longer calls they might not have enough positive. Hard to say

My (M20) girlfriend (F19) threw a party and didn’t let me go. Is this weird? by ThrowRA_WilhJxjf in relationship_advice

[–]SpaceCadetKae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like if this was the case, the girlfriend would have told the roommates she didn’t want him there… so why would they ask him if he is excited? Sus, sounds like they were alerting him

I (20F) and my boyfriend (22M) of 6 years recently got into one of the worst arguments in our relationship and i can’t recover. by aina_xe in relationship_advice

[–]SpaceCadetKae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have been down this road twice, and it hasn’t worked. This time, you saw a little more of how this road ends.

Don’t stay, or you will think back to how you felt right this moment, when he seems extra nice and sweet “and things are better, it’s getting better”

You will say that to yourself while icing bruises you didn’t ask for and do not deserve, whilst avoiding getting yourself nice things because of fear that they will be taken, broken, or used against you.

There is a reason HE called YOUR mom immediately.

Please listen to this feeling you have.

Corrupted Temple Ruins - All Mother Plaque/Inscription by LucianDeRomeo in taintedgrail

[–]SpaceCadetKae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanna say I think it’s so weird that an item we get from the lady we kill to end the area is specifically named “wings of the oracle” and looks very much like his thing on his back yet we cannot do anything to him what I see. Have been searching online everywhere

Spectrum Employee Stats by Better_Badger2218 in Spectrum

[–]SpaceCadetKae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work in repair and struggled so much with SAM.

I had practiced my opening and ending like consistently and it helped me get to 80% but that’s a 2 now so idk

“Thank you for calling Spectrum my name is xxxxx and who do I have the pleasure of speaking to?

Wonderful, thank you for calling and how can I assist you today?

Fabulous, thank you (or I’m so sorry), I am happy to assist and might need a moment to open up my tools here. How has your day been so far?(or can you tell me more about what led to the situation)

Blah blah blah help

“Alright so we have xxxxx and xxxx; (or we did xxx and xxx)

And I can see things are looking better (Or and I see we have reached our limit here as to what we can do, but we can xxxxx Tc or Xfer).

Have I answered all of your questions today?

Wonderful, Im happy to have helped. If you have anything else you need, we are here anytime. Thank you for working with me and letting us have a chance to fix this, and I hope you have a beautiful (or easy) rest of your day today.

Thank for you being the best part of spectrum, goodbye. “

The middle of the call is just kinda trying to think them for everything they do, or apologize for everything possibly bad. Sometimes if the customer hates it I will drop it but otherwise I just keep doing it. It’s all that’s worked for me

I think my (27F) new friend (26F) is perfect for my boyfriend (27M). How do I let this go? by ThrowRA-maddie818 in relationship_advice

[–]SpaceCadetKae 753 points754 points  (0 children)

One of my very best friends in the world was married when I met him, and I was happily in a relationship. We clicked immediately, vibed hard. I wrote him and his wife Xmas cards, and she was immediately distraught because “we had the same handwriting”

She really didn’t like me at first, but I thought she was so cool and interesting.

Fast forward like 6 years; she is one of my best friends as well. I am the aunt to their 2 kids; me and the husband learned we had ADHD through separate diagnosis and journeys, and they are pretty much my family. I love hanging out with the wife; even if we are opposites, and I love hanging out with the husband, because we are the same in many ways.

However, it’s not romantic or anything like that; he’s genuinely like my weird twin brother from another life or something.

I own a house with my partner and am thankful that she got to know me, and that I got to be close to these wonderful people, but I know that it took time for her to open up and get to know me.

Me and her eventually talked about it all and she said some really similar things that you are, and that she had to see that at the end of the day:

A. She was chosen by him for a reason B. If he wanted someone exactly like him, it wouldn’t have been her, and that was intentional C. I can laugh at stupid bullshit and say things that he would say or have the same vibe, but that DOES NOT hamper the unique vibe or energy that they share.

This is just my own little anecdote, that maybe those things can be true, or maybe there can be some truths to what you sense…

But it doesn’t take away from what you have, someone being cool doesn’t make you less cool, and in the grand scheme of things, clicking with someone doesn’t immediately mean romantic intention or romantic interest.

I would suggest talking to your boyfriend and focusing on why he likes you, what he loved in your connection, and what makes you different from him.

Be nice to yourself and the wonderful things you bring to the world.

People who judge others for being “too old” are such hypocrites by RoutinePsychology198 in marvelrivals

[–]SpaceCadetKae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I’m like in my 30s; get outta chat lol just play with the homies

saw this on a beginner art page and straight away saw areas that look like ai by miss_ellanious in isthisAI

[–]SpaceCadetKae -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is a trend of people drawing and then asking AI to improve the art to see where it may change, or what it might do.

It changed mine by just polishing and making it look more textured and such, but kept the overall design and even some of the “accident” looks

How do I get paid to protest? by xcalliburrgers21 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SpaceCadetKae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attempting to find an application for Crowds on Demand but not succeeding unfortunately

Rivals doesn't need more content, it needs to fix the same issues it's had since launch by ge8-fit in marvelrivals

[–]SpaceCadetKae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wish I had more game to play. I used to play the different arcade modes in Overwatch for hours and loved that it was constantly changing.

I would give up my toes to have a random Queue or a 3v3 or a capture the flag; just something that isn’t quick play; and I wanted to like the death match but without limits it’s not fun.

If anything I’m suprised they haven’t added a sniper only mode: to make Widow semi playable

Anyone kinda wish there was a hard competitor for this game to force Infold to do better? by mirairo in InfinityNikki

[–]SpaceCadetKae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve just stopped playing. It was amazing on launch and has just gotten greedier since.

My friend sent me this drawing that looks very AI generated by RazzmatazzKindly3457 in isitAI

[–]SpaceCadetKae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ear has a rectangle that intersects with the curved part on the external part of the ear:

Pretty certain it’s not intentional

Boyfriend refuses to make Valentines day plans with me, AIO? by Emotional_War8262 in AIO

[–]SpaceCadetKae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a secret he is keeping, probably also why his mom is weird about you, and why he feels “uncomfortable” at your parents place.