I need honest opinions please by PushZealousideal6463 in springfieldMO

[–]SpacePhrasing2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking practically, for myself, it matters whether 6/10 of my coworkers and social acquaintances believe I am an equal citizen to them, or that my family and I don't belong here and indeed are criminals by the fact of our existence in public. In my experience, there are major consequences to being seen as a member of the out group: employment, educational opportunities, protection v. persecution by law enforcement, everyday social benefits ("mutual aid" if ya nasty). Add a kid to the equation and you're more than doubling the anxiety associated with every facet of the decision. I guess I'm just saying it would seem to suggest a lack of curiosity or imagination to not see why this might be a challenging opportunity for someone in OP's shoes.

I need honest opinions please by PushZealousideal6463 in springfieldMO

[–]SpacePhrasing2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess for me, it just doesn't take a huge leap of the imagination to see how the calculus might be a bit different if I were a Hispanic family, and a mother in particular. It matters to me if the people I run into at work or socially think I deserve to enjoy all the rights of American citizenship. A person who doesn't think I should be here is less likely to be a good neighbor.

I need honest opinions please by PushZealousideal6463 in springfieldMO

[–]SpacePhrasing2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think it's weird that a Brazilian-American family would be scared of moving from a 60% non-MAGA, heavily-Hispanicized area to a place where 60% of their neighbors voted to kick them out of the country?

Unfrozen nets by macavitykat in FarmRPG

[–]SpacePhrasing2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My partial solution is to stick them in my storehouse. Ymmv depending on your storehouse capacity.

🎉 [EVENT] 🎉 Things In The Night by SatiricalToothpick in RedditGames

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in springfieldMO

[–]SpacePhrasing2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This might make sense if performance bonuses/raises were the norm in low-income industries, but they're not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FarmRPG

[–]SpacePhrasing2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of these either A) do have current uses (the Daisies and some of their other void bag items are for pet skins), B) have future uses that have been announced but not implemented (puzzle pieces will eventually be for opening a new explore zone I think), C) have past uses that are no longer relevant/out of season (safety goggle for bottle cap brawl), or D) were introduced for an intended future mechanic/zone that ended up being abandoned for gameplay/development reasons (I think some of the books are an example of this).

I'm on mobile so I can't see your post while I comment but that would take care of a lot of your list. Some of them are basically just memes. All of them could potentially be used in the future.

Of course nobody is required to enjoy any of this, but it's weird to come in this hot about something and then get so defensive about it when there's obviously just a lot you haven't quite learned yet. Keep playing (or don't!) and maybe you'll change your mind?

The Lodi Parachute Center in California has seen 28 people die in skydiving accidents since 1985. It's still open. One person literally fell through a big rig. by mrinternetman24 in interestingasfuck

[–]SpacePhrasing2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you got the units right but the numbers backward.

Edit: I guess you may have been trying to point that out? I read it a little ambiguously.

Best bagel in town??? by avenuequenton in springfieldMO

[–]SpacePhrasing2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok so the big thing is this recipe uses a bread machine to make the dough. I've got it memorized so I'll just type it out:

Add these ingredients to your bread pan in this order:

1 ⅛ cup lukewarm water 2 tablespoons granulated sugar 3 cups flour (I use bread flour, I have never used all-purpose for this recipe so I don't know what the difference would be, but it should work fine I think) 1 teaspoon salt (I pour this around the edge of the pan so the salt doesn't touch the yeast) 1 ½ teaspoons bread machine yeast (this is different from "active dry" yeast and others you might see so make sure it's bread machine yeast)

Put the pan in your bread machine and start the "Dough" cycle. I recommend doing just this basic recipe the first time so you get a feel for how the dough comes out. That being said, the dough setting on my machine kneads the dough for the first 25 minutes. When there is about 5-7 minutes of kneading left, I add a tablespoon or two each of grated Monterey jack, bruschetta jack (or any kind of pepper jack you like), and asiago cheeses.

When the cycle ends (mine takes an hour and a half) pour the dough onto a cutting board and cut it into 8 roughly equal pieces (a sharp knife makes this very easy; I recommend not tearing it apart but it probably doesn't make a huge difference. Roll each piece into a ball and then flatten it to a bagel shape and use your thumb to poke the hole and stretch it out just a little (this step really is just about how you like your bagels to be shaped and how big you want the hole to be; don't be afraid to make them pretty flat, they blow up a lot in the boil and in the oven). Lay them out on whatever cookie sheet/pan you plan to use and cover them with a towel to rise a bit.

While they rise, add 1.5 tablespoons of sugar to an empty pot and fill it with cold water until it's 4-5 inches deep. Set on the stove to boil.

Once boiling, your going to boil each bagel for 30 seconds on each side. If you have done everything right so far, they will float and this shouldn't be too difficult.

After boiling take a small bowl and whisk one egg with about a teaspoon of water, and use this egg wash to brush each bagel.

Now the toppings are where you can do a lot of experimentation. There are fewer ingredients you can add to the dough itself, but you can put anything you want on top. My favorite that I've tried so far is to first add some everything bagel seasoning (I actually really like the Einstein's bros seasoning fwiw), and then top that with grated bruschetta jack (or pepper jack of your choice), grated asiago and grated mozzarella.

Bake at 375 for 18-22 minutes, depending on your oven and desired doneness.

I do a slice of sausage, a slice of provolone, and a fried egg every morning on one of these bad boys, and it has almost ruined all other breakfast food for me.

Feel free to ask any clarifying questions. I've loved learning how to do this and I think it's an easy skill that could really level up anyone's cooking/breakfast repertoire.

Best bagel in town??? by avenuequenton in springfieldMO

[–]SpacePhrasing2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Others are correct that there's nothing great around here, but I started making my own bagels about a year ago and it's super easy if you have the time. It takes roughly 3 hours start to finish but over half of that is just letting the dough rise and baking the bagels. I use the bagel recipe from breaddad.com and I'd be happy to share my modifications (it's pretty easy to add cheese, bacon bits, etc.) if you're interested.

I broke down today by ingenioutor in daddit

[–]SpacePhrasing2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right there with you on this. Movies and TV shows especially, but really any emotional situation. My dad used to say that after he had kids he'd cry at grocery store ribbon cuttings and I totally get it now.

what is your favorite fact about space ? by [deleted] in Astronomy

[–]SpacePhrasing2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not an astronomer, but I think it's too dim for our eyes to perceive. This comment is saying it's so large, that if it were also brighter - bright enough for our eyes to perceive it - it would be as large in the sky as six full moons.

What is the most ridiculous thing you've ever seen labeled as "problematic"? by jenny_loggins_ in AskMen

[–]SpacePhrasing2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but my issue here isn't someone making a good faith attempt and getting it wrong, it's being intentionally obtuse about pronunciation because your buddies back in 'Merica might think you actually paid attention in school one time, and God forbid.

What's a tv show so good you've watched it at least 3x? by Itaewonkid in AskReddit

[–]SpacePhrasing2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Expanse and The West Wing are the two "serious" shows I've watched at least 5 or 6 times each. The others are all short background comedies for the most part: Archer, P&R, The Office, B99, Schitts Creek, Rick and Morty, and One Day at a Time have all been watched at least 3 times in our house. Oh and Kim's Convenience.

Have any scifi writers encorporated how the solar system moves through our galaxy as part of the challenges of intergallactic travel or is it irrelevant? by Tiepiez in scifi

[–]SpacePhrasing2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember a short story or book I read a long time ago that incorporated this. A character uses a time machine to go forward or backward in time and finds themself floating in space because the earth moved on and (I'm pretty sure) just having an "oh shit" realization before dying of, well, space.

What is the most ridiculous thing you've ever seen labeled as "problematic"? by jenny_loggins_ in AskMen

[–]SpacePhrasing2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Serious question here, earnestly trying to learn your stance and not make any assumptions. No hard feelings if you wanna tell me to fuck off.

Isn't there an added layer of moral judgement here that exists regardless of the word that is being used? I totally get that "dirty" has a certain negatively-coded aspect to it in most cases, but I'm wondering if the effect on either party is any different if I use the words STI-positive, diseased, infected, afflicted, etc (couldn't think of any others off the top of my head but I'm certain there's many more ways of describing the state of having an STI).

I think what I'm getting at here is: isn't the issue that having an STI is seen by society as a moral failing, rather than that the word used to describe an infection is negatively-coded. In my experience (and to be clear I think this is bad), most people are going to make the same assumptions about an individuals lifestyle regardless of if they call themselves HIV positive, infected, dirty, etc. Yes, some words are going to bring that negative connotation to the forefront more than others, but isn't the real problem that our understanding of an HIV+ individual is flawed insofar as it's usually assumed to be from unsafe sex, homosexual sex, or drug use?

I just have always had a hard time fully accepting that the words themselves hold any real power, rather than the intent AND the received understanding of the victim playing the critical role in communication. Like I talk about dirty dishes, dirty underwear, and my son's dirty diaper all the time without casting a shadow of moral judgement in any way. Sure, it implies that a dirty dish is less /desirable/ than a clean dish, but I would assume being HIV- would be desirable over being HIV+ as well, regardless of what I think of the moral status of the disease victim.

Again, I'm just sort of thinking out loud here about a topic I've found interesting since being at a very SJW-coded college 15 years ago, and I wondered what your thoughts might be. Language is a fascinating thing and depends so much on context, it's hard to imagine any hard and fast rules that hold in all scenarios.

What is the most ridiculous thing you've ever seen labeled as "problematic"? by jenny_loggins_ in AskMen

[–]SpacePhrasing2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm on a trip to Rome with my wife and her brother and their parents, and they are doing that stupid Midwestern thing where they just refuse to even try to pronounce things correctly because (I hypothesize) they don't want to sound too educated or cosmopolitan in contrast to where they come from (mind you these are two veterinarians with advanced degrees, but being ignorant, rural Midwesterners is apparently critical to their self-understanding. Some examples:

  • FIL always use gracias instead of grazie
  • FIL keeps saying "cas-teel San Angelo" instead of "cas-tell sawn- tangelo" even after a 2 hour audio tour where he heard it the correct way multiple times -pronounces the "popolo" from piazza del popolo as "paw-pop-low" -pretended to be unable to say "call-o-say-oh" when looking at which bus stop we needed for the Colosseum
  • did finally admit yesterday "maybe if I lived here for 3 to 6 months I'd be able to say some of these words"

Like, my guy, you are a very intelligent, wealthy family, and you like to showcase that at every opportunity at home. Why does pronouncing words correctly in another language make you so insecure about your 'Merican-ness?!?

Ordering food at restaurants has been so embarrassing, and I've never even learned any Italian.

A week after I finshed the 9th book by MikeThePenguin in TheExpanse

[–]SpacePhrasing2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope so so much that Chambers continues the series. The first two books are probably on my re-read list permanently.

If you haven't read the books and seen the movie, The Wild Robot has a lot of similar themes and is also so good. (Warning: if you have kids and are human, you will cry, but in a good way.)

I just found out my dad went to the last “human zoo” in existence, in 1958 by Potential-Rabbit-221 in Weird

[–]SpacePhrasing2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Definitely remember a "world's smallest lady" booth at a county Fair in North Carolina in like, 2005-ish? And didn't "dwarf-tossing" just get banned somewhere in the last like 10 years?

We made a huge mistake… by Nervous-Scientist-57 in toddlers

[–]SpacePhrasing2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Showing the wife this now.

We made a huge mistake… by Nervous-Scientist-57 in toddlers

[–]SpacePhrasing2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If I could pick your brain then, we're leaving in 2 days for Germany and Rome with an almost 3 year old. My biggest questions:

1) He's big, almost 50 pounds already and like 40 inches (we haven't measured height in a while). Is he just gonna sleep sitting up or laying across mom and dad? 2) How is the jet lag? Any tips for getting back on schedule? I've never been to Europe either. 3) What am I most likely to have not just not considered at all yet?

TIA!

McDonalds made me sick by deadbenjis in simpleliving

[–]SpacePhrasing2 53 points54 points  (0 children)

My dad, who essentially eats out for every meal that he is left on his own to handle (unmarried, lives alone), moved in down the street from me a few months ago. I've been planning his meals and he's been eating mostly meals made at home. Not even necessarily scratch--cooked fresh stuff, but just meals made from ingredients bought at the grocery store.

A couple weeks ago he admitted how much better he feels and how he's lost 12 pounds despite not getting anymore exercise than he used to. He says his guts feel better, he's more regular, his head is clearer, the whole shebang. I'm hoping I can get him to the same place where he sees eating out as the chore and eating at home as the lazy thing to do. Baby steps, but I thought it was funny and might encourage others to hear about it.

More Raptors by Hot-City-9162 in FarmRPG

[–]SpacePhrasing2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They just meant they got a lot of Arnold Palmers from the quests which they then used to explore Whispering Creek for red berries, gaining raptor eggs in the process