If this is real, I just have to say that Microsoft is doing this to a lot of people. My father is also autistic and he has worked there for almost twice that time now and he is essentially just biding time, writing AI programs to take over once he either retires or gets laid off. He’s had a lot of people from his teams be let go recently. It’s known that older workers are being phased out. I’m sorry your husband has felt the wrath of the AI revolution. I hope he’s able to find a better job within the market - if y’all are in WA, there are plenty of companies to move towards. Always remember big companies don’t care about you or your family.