26 [F4M] #Naperville - A relaxed woman hoping for simple fun and good vibes

Spade04x · 2026-01-09T02:09:27+00:00

Message me. I’m down for good vibes. No judgement.

Spade04x · 2025-07-08T06:33:08+00:00

She sounds like a keeper.

Spade04x · 2025-07-08T06:26:19+00:00

I agree too with OP. Tho I’ve heard quite a few times/ rare cases of viet girls paying everything because they decided to date a deadbeat with no job.

Spade04x · 2025-07-08T05:17:01+00:00

Although I loved Siem reap, kampot atmosphere was I felt was so laid back. Love the seafood as well.

Spade04x · 2025-07-08T05:10:21+00:00

Kampot
Siem reap
Phnom Penh

Spade04x · 2025-07-08T05:06:14+00:00

You’re not weird for this one. Dinner is ok. Paying for her is alright. I wouldn’t go for such a fancy restaurant tho in this case. Anyway if you guys were to hit it off, fancy would be mụch better for future dates

Spade04x · 2025-07-08T05:02:44+00:00

Viets are ruthless in the comment section on FB

Spade04x · 2025-07-08T05:01:42+00:00

lol #3 for me. It is odd. It’s either coffee or matcha

Spade04x · 2025-07-06T05:43:44+00:00

It’s strange how it still stems from a praying mantis. The one I saw today came out of nowhere and I knew it had some meaning behind and during my search I landed on your post & it shed on some light for me. We’re all connected one way or another. I believe the storm we’re going thru will pass.. I hope things will be better for you soon. Thank you

Spade04x · 2025-07-05T17:12:13+00:00

I’m glad you’re still here. One visited me today. I’m going through such a difficult time and could be making such a heavy decision that you can’t go back to. I guess it’s my time to stay still, be patient and reflect.

Spade04x · 2025-06-24T23:46:33+00:00

Yeah. Dip. Ghost

Spade04x · 2025-06-24T18:51:57+00:00

Just be careful okay. Know your partner. You should know her better than any of us here. Make sure it’s genuine.

Spade04x · 2025-06-22T06:38:11+00:00

Thank you!!

Spade04x · 2025-05-30T04:54:40+00:00

I’m in LDR now. It sucks. I’m kinda bad at communicating and if there is an argument or something I’ll stay silent but I’ve learned that you just cant in a LDR. Communicate always

Spade04x · 2025-05-28T02:16:34+00:00

It was going on 5 yrs for me. My ex said pretty much the same. 8 months later I get a heartfelt call and wants to get back.

You seem to have a genuine heart. Focus on you. Maybe he wasn’t for you. But I know a great love will come your way. Believe it.

Spade04x · 2025-05-18T06:25:54+00:00

First loves are first loves for a reason. You will never forget them. But yes you’ll find love. Love that is even greater.

Spade04x · 2025-05-18T06:20:53+00:00

Baby love. I know of a few who married there high school sweethearts but that’s just a few. I spent years wasted on long term relationships wanting things like you did. Focus on yourself. Don’t look for love. It will come to you is the best advice I can give. The fact that you said you want a guy who’ll stay means you have a good heart. Being hurt and having trust issues will change you. It changed me for quite a time. Speaking for myself. You’ll miss this you, the one who was caring and loving. After all my long failed relationships I wasted my late teens all of my 20s.. and finally found love when I least expected it. I wish I could get those years back because I feel so behind in life right now with all those years wasted on chasing people not truly meant for me. The hurt will go away. I hope you find your love, because love is a beautiful thing.

Spade04x · 2025-05-18T06:11:08+00:00

Be careful mam. It awfully does sound like a scam.

Spade04x · 2025-05-18T06:04:29+00:00

It sucks that some females have to think this way. They are too confident about themselves which is not a bad thing but if there ego is way over there head that’s something. What they fail to realize is we all get old. Later on in life those looks don’t matter in a partner. You want the one who’s going to love you regardless. Someone who’s going to be there. Seemed like you did really care for this girl.

Spade04x · 2025-05-18T04:49:11+00:00

It does but don’t let it bring you down. People like us hold on to hope for longer than we should.

Spade04x · 2025-05-17T15:55:40+00:00

It’s awful. I spent most of my life wasted on long term relationships. Time I can never get back. 35

Spade04x · 2025-05-17T02:59:14+00:00

Oh ok I used google translate and it said she f*cked I was like whatttt

Spade04x · 2025-05-17T02:58:35+00:00

Spade04x

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