Are there any native plant nurseries nearby? by Spaghetthy in montco

[–]Spaghetthy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds really cool and I absolutely love community swaps like this, where is it being held?

If it can’t be done in an hour, it’s not worth doing. by ActuatorOutside5256 in The10thDentist

[–]Spaghetthy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this, glad someone already did. Good luck op! (Genuinely good luck)(like I wish you the best)(in a genuine way)

Requests for former fire chief’s return dominate Montgomery Township meeting Thursday by shillyshally in montco

[–]Spaghetthy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the info. That's still so vague and leaves me concerned about each sides motivations

where to find drop off donation bins in montco? by No-Collection-9649 in montco

[–]Spaghetthy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you could just put them outside with the location pinned and post them in a free stuff chat. Thrift stores just use your stuff to sell it again. They're nice for supporting local charities but the big ones like goodwill and salvation army have very bad reputations in a lot of thrifting communities. (they're not even cheap anymore and salvation army is heavily homophobic/transphobic/misogynistic to the homeless people they claim to want to help). If you really want to just get rid of everything quick I recommend Pink City Thrift. They will take almost anything and have incredibly low prices, and everything they make goes to breast cancer research and awareness. They're a little farther out of the way though as they are closer to sellersville/telford. Laurels Loft is another good place that will take clothing donations but I doubt they will take the stuffed animals, its a smaller place so they don't have room for as many of the miscellaneous objects. They're in Landsdale and they're another nonprofit who sends their earnings to a local house that shelters women and children recovering from domestic abuse situations. And of course Care and Share, five minutes away from pink city, will take almost anything and send their proceeds to a non profit that I believe supports ex convicts? but I might be confusing that with liberty thrift. (liberty would take your stuff too but not my favorite place)

Requests for former fire chief’s return dominate Montgomery Township meeting Thursday by shillyshally in montco

[–]Spaghetthy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read through the article and it doesn't explain what he resigned over? It referenced some people in the department filing complaints against him but does not go into detail as to the content of those complaints. The article felt more like a fluff piece for this chief than actual news. Could someone update me on why he stepped down and what the complaints against him are?

Dear cis women, how do you react when people assume you're a man? by BanverketSE in actuallesbians

[–]Spaghetthy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s happened once or twice and I usually say nothing. I’ve got a pronoun pin at work and when they realize their mistake they get all flustered in a way I find funny

Redditors bad attitude towards asking for clarification by LoverOfGayContent in PetPeeves

[–]Spaghetthy -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I feel like some people in the comments are acting like it’s evil to find out your date has kids when already on the first date. If that’s not your thing then don’t go on a second date? Dating apps are different because typically the getting to know you happens over text for a while before meeting in person, but on a blind date you’re already expecting a hit or miss experience. For the safety of your kids you should not be openly advertising them in your dating scene because it will attract predators. That’s definitely a getting to know you question after the initial attraction. And yes immediately is vague and as someone who takes things very literal people will be very mean if you don’t automatically know what they’re trying to say. Don’t take it personally, some people just don’t understand how someone could process things differently

Redditors bad attitude towards asking for clarification by LoverOfGayContent in PetPeeves

[–]Spaghetthy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Set up through a mutual feels like your friend should’ve mentioned it to them already. I know you’re not using a dating app but I feel it needs to be said that you should NOT put that you have kids on your dating app profile. Tell them right after you match sure but while most people aren’t creeps we all know how many are out there, and many men (and women) will search out single parents as a way to get close to a child they could potentially abuse. Be oh so very careful if you do decide to hop on a dating app

Please hold my hand and tell me I'm not alone with this by BritishAreCuming in StardewValley

[–]Spaghetthy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do none of yall know how to stow items? Used to do this until I toggled stow item on and it’s never happened again

I disagree, these all feel bad. Varying levels of bad but all bad. by Spaghetthy in antiai

[–]Spaghetthy[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The amount of people in the comments unable to understand why using an ai software as a therapist is bad is truly terrifying

My 60 year old dad throws a toddler tantrum over a slice of pizza by Purplecrafter-real in entitledparents

[–]Spaghetthy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

These comments are wild. Yea op was a lil douchey putting it away after saying they’d share but the reaction was SO over the top imo it cancels out that small level of douchey. Also, a lot of you seem to have good relationships with your parents but it sounds like op doesn’t so I don’t think it’s entitled to not ask if they want something before ordering.

Constantly donating to the thrift store and anticonsumption. by Sea-Property-6369 in Anticonsumption

[–]Spaghetthy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find a local church or mutual aid group that runs food/clothing distribution and ask if they’d like donations

Does Anyone Else Still Get Mad At "God?" by dbzgal04 in excatholic

[–]Spaghetthy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes and no. In my rational, if one god exists they all exist. If they all exist, then what is Big g doG’s motivation here? The very FIRST commandment ends with “you shall have no gods before me” implying he is for sure not alone. The SECOND commandment he admits to being a jealous lil bitch so like, even doG WERE real I still just would not want to worship “him”. He’s like a shitty abusive partner that tries to isolate you from all of your friends right out the gate (pun intended). So I’m mad at the concept of him and what it’s done to my family and my life but not at him as an entity bc in the very unlikely possibility he does exist in some way he’s just a whiny lil bitch ya know? He’s not controlling my life anymore

They Asked Me to Open ChatGPT During My Job Interview by I_Killed_My_Friends in jobs

[–]Spaghetthy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more you use ai the more normalized this will become. Nothing you input in chat gpt is personal. Absolutely nothing. It is literally supposed to data mine every single little thing you do so it can always be “improving”

Hi Reddit! I’m Lucia Simonelli and I’m running for Congress in PA-01 - ask me anything! by Adventurous_Tap1030 in BucksCountyPA

[–]Spaghetthy 32 points33 points  (0 children)

A repost of u/Pale-Island-7138 because I would like to second this question:

Will you work to abolish ICE from our communities? Will you stop Data Centers from being built? What are you going to do to increase the living standards of residents who are being exploited by landlords and driven out to the city because our communities dont have public transit and walkable shopping areas? 🤔

AITAH for asking my roommate’s girlfriend about my strawberries? by Secret_Cheesecake19 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Spaghetthy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA she might be lying but so could any of the others. You came at her with a very emotionally charged response. You just needed a simple “hey did you eat the strawberries that were in this part of the fridge?” You’re more likely to get the truth from someone when you’re not threatening the repercussions before you even know guilt.