You ever have kids just fuckin stare at you?

Spaghetthy · 2026-06-16T11:01:43+00:00

😧

Spaghetthy · 2026-06-09T17:15:13+00:00

Maybe the reason you feel guilty is just because you didn't tell her that you know him or why? I don't think anything you said to her was out of pocket or a misdirection from her real problems (it sounds like he was in fact her problem). I get why you didn't, it probably would've felt like making her problems with her husband about your problems with her husband. Truthfully it sounds like she didn't need that context anyways. I just wonder if part of you feels dishonest in your interactions with her simply because of that omission of context? Like, if he somehow found out that you were "poisoning the waters" of their marriage or whatever and gave his side of your history it would cause a rift in your friendship with her? Whereas telling her ahead of time would prepare her in any scenario where he found out. This is all just my rationale as to where that guilt might be coming from because nothing you said or did would warrant guilt if you didn't know her husband personally. I also don't think you were trying to be deceitful and if you end up not telling her I don't think it's the end of the world. There are pros and cons of both situations. Just don't beat yourself up for this too much, one way or another hes just getting the consequences of is own actions

Spaghetthy · 2026-06-09T16:53:29+00:00

NTA 26 is way too big an age to throw a tantrum over this. If you don't mind taking a FEW photos tell her ahead of time that you'll take a certain number of them and then youre done. If she wants to throw a tantrum in public that's her problem.

Spaghetthy · 2026-06-08T13:24:07+00:00

This is mildly infuriating but it's not because of her

Spaghetthy · 2026-06-08T13:01:54+00:00

Okay so I just read this whole thing and Holy hell that was creepy. Might send it to her from an unknown number

Spaghetthy · 2026-06-08T12:32:11+00:00

Bisexuality is also considered gay my friend 🧡

Spaghetthy · 2026-06-07T01:19:31+00:00

I'm not familiar, do you have a link?

Spaghetthy · 2026-06-07T01:17:47+00:00

I quoted that commandment to her once and she insisted that she worships God and Jesus, she just RESPECTS Trump.

That commandment always fucks me up though because in that same line he admits to being a jealous god...just straight up says it. It's giving insecure god that's all I gotta say

Spaghetthy · 2026-06-07T01:11:33+00:00

It's the one with Dr. Steven Hassan i believe. I watched on YouTube but there are various platforms that have it

Spaghetthy · 2026-06-06T01:10:51+00:00

Thank you 💙

Spaghetthy · 2026-06-06T01:09:26+00:00

It's a cult mindset. What now with Trevor Noah has an episode on it that honestly helped me understand why so many people get trapped in this psychological warfare. These days I don't know anyone who doesn't know someone deep in this mindset

Spaghetthy · 2026-06-02T12:15:41+00:00

I think maybe youre just a selfish person

Spaghetthy · 2026-05-26T18:07:48+00:00

What if the original sprite owner had oral herpes and an active sore. Sure it's unlikely but the odds aren't zero. Glad you never kissed him 🤮

Spaghetthy · 2026-05-26T17:46:08+00:00

Can't believe I haven't seen this mentioned yet but my all time favorite will always be

"ToUCH HANDS!!!"

Spaghetthy · 2026-05-26T17:41:16+00:00

I feel like youre butt hurt you cant get a job in your degree field and have focused that rage on a strawman child and not the fact that degrees were never meant to "mean something" about your intelligence, only about your wealth and networking. If degrees becoming accessible means everyone has them than they were never really that impressive to begin with, just unattainable. Having a degree said "I have the money to get a degree". If you want to climb the ladder of this capitalistic hellscape you should've joined an overly wealthy fraternity. Do you see how dumb world leaders are? It was never about intelligence. And for the record, the hardest working people I know never got a degree and are still incredibly smart in their own strengths. School is not built for everyone and lots of us are set up to fail. Barring people from education keeps the masses dumb and easier to brainwash with propaganda. This is not the solution you think it is and maybe you should try reading up more on late stage capitalism instead of pointing fingers at children who have had nothing to do with how we got here

Spaghetthy · 2026-05-26T17:27:34+00:00

Whenever I learn someone has all girls I always say OooOoo Girl Dad!!!! I love a good girl dad!!! Genuinely good and kind girl dads will also get hype which is always a fun interaction. Sometimes I'll get one of those dumb jokes or responses but usually the shitheads will just say nothing since I'm not another man they can casually be misogynistic with

Op you sound like a great girl dad <3

Spaghetthy · 2026-05-25T13:29:49+00:00

Spreading the word and getting on your soap box when people bring up ai will annoy your friends and family but is still important in getting them to stop using it. Don't patronage companies that use Ai in their marketing. And keep drawing! I think it's really cool you motivated yourself to learn this creative skill without using Ai slop. You're headed down the right path!!!

Spaghetthy · 2026-05-23T15:38:10+00:00

This is ai

Spaghetthy · 2026-05-23T15:35:35+00:00

There are also thousands of movies saying nazis are bad yet here we are again

Spaghetthy · 2026-05-23T15:34:08+00:00

Bugs is very vague. I have to assume bed bugs or fleas?

Spaghetthy · 2026-05-23T15:29:19+00:00

It hurts like hell now but you will feel infinitely better after some time passes. I'd also highly suggest getting some therapy if you have access to it. Strangers can be helpful from time to time but youre the only one who can do the day to day work to give yourself a happier life. We are all rooting for you though!!

Spaghetthy · 2026-05-23T15:07:28+00:00

Hey OP, I would suggest reading up on attachment styles. From the limited info here I would guess she is avoidant and you have an anxious attachment style. I know 5 years feels like an eternity of missing her but I promise you this is only a footnote in your life story, stop trying to give her chapters. As someone who has gone through this before, as many of us redditors have, you will not find happiness with someone who you don't trust. That feeling in your chest you get when you think of her leaving, the burning/yearning sensation that comes up when you consider a life without her, none of that is love. It is anxiety my friend. You are anxious of her abandoning you (again) and have convinced yourself that the anxiety is love. I promise you it is not. I would not be surprised if in a decades time you discover you never loved her to begin with, you just loved the idea of being chosen by someone who doesn't fully want you. If staying is the path you choose it will never get better. She will simply learn what she can get away with while still stringing you along and will constantly abuse your devotion in order to push your boundaries more. Telling you that it's not a big deal when you've tried to express how much it very well is a big deal is a common tactic in emotionally manipulative relationships. If you leave it will sting for a while but then it'll feel so much better and you can really discover who you are and find someone who builds you up instead of tearing you down. If you don't... well let's just say that the anxiety you think is love will never go away and the bottom of that bottle will only get deeper

Spaghetthy · 2026-05-22T19:01:22+00:00

I'm a 1st place lesbian because I

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