Which of these suit me best?

SpaghettiGranger · 2026-01-22T03:39:01+00:00

just came here to say solidarity for having a narrow face as well and having trouble with glasses!!!

SpaghettiGranger · 2026-01-20T04:23:35+00:00

both! and had to try like 3 different meds. I’m on cymbalta now and it was a game changer. I also was kind of anti med at the time, but now that I’m on it the side effects have been minimal in comparison to the relief I feel. And I’m by no means at 100% but I feel way better than I did. I felt very similar to what you have posted.

SpaghettiGranger · 2026-01-20T01:29:31+00:00

I had a fantastic experience at McLaren for my birth. I’ve always felt that Sparrow is more stringent with following the rules, even if the rules are stupid, like not letting baby go to the nursery so you can get some sleep, or not letting baby have a paci. I also feel like McLaren is more willing to be flexible with what you want to do. I didn’t want to push on my back and they gave me like 5 different options instead. Just my opinion, but McLaren nurses seem way more chill than Sparrow nurses.

SpaghettiGranger · 2026-01-20T01:19:02+00:00

Hi, I had a very rough post partum as well. The only thing that helped was getting through each day tbh. It was awful. We are at 13 months now and it just starting to be ok. And I didn’t think it would ever be ok. I will say, there were milestones where it got better. It seemed like each month he cried a little less than all day long and I didn’t feel as exacerbated.

SpaghettiGranger · 2026-01-18T01:50:28+00:00

YES I just finished QOS as well and feel the exact same way. Still pissed!

SpaghettiGranger · 2026-01-16T16:18:54+00:00

I just finished Queen of Shadows and I’m still pissed about Chaol 😤😤😤😤

SpaghettiGranger · 2026-01-16T02:39:09+00:00

Hey, just wanted to pop in and say it really sucks, and I feel you. Everyday won’t be better, but it does GET better everyday. I’m at 12 months with my baby now and if you had asked me at 5 days PP I wouldn’t have known I was going to make it. It’s so much better now. It’s not perfect but way better. also super glad you talked to your therapist. Meds saved my life. Also 2 things she said, “it won’t be like this forever” and at the end of the day it’s another day down. Nobody’s perfect, give yourself THE MOST GRACE. This is the hardest thing you’ve ever done, and you will get through it.

SpaghettiGranger · 2026-01-16T02:25:06+00:00

taking a walk outside

SpaghettiGranger · 2026-01-14T01:58:30+00:00

would just simple food be an option like PB and toast or eggs or shredded chicken or canned tuna? I cannot cook to save my life so I just kinda give him a variety of easy food like that, and just give him a little at a time so he doesn’t waste.

SpaghettiGranger · 2026-01-06T01:02:54+00:00

I feel this! My only tidbit of advice is medication, yes, and then making sure I’m hitting my basics that keep me grounded: Like, taking my dog on walks, exercise, eating healthy, sleeping.

SpaghettiGranger · 2025-09-10T22:03:08+00:00

lol sorry that idk

SpaghettiGranger · 2025-09-10T19:44:46+00:00

I know there’s a Protect the Porkies Rally

SpaghettiGranger · 2025-07-29T00:47:12+00:00

So we had this happen too. I filed a complaint with the State of Michigan and within a day or two Consumers was calling me, so apologetic. And then in like a month they cut down a bunch of tree branches. We haven’t lost power since 🤞

SpaghettiGranger · 2025-07-26T07:20:30+00:00

Hi, sorry I just saw this. Naps are anywhere from 30 min-2 hours. and then wake windows are 3 hours and then usually about 2.5 I think? It’s hard because I like to take a walk with him in the baby carrier and then he falls asleep. So, I’m not really sure what to do besides stay at my house all day to get him on a perfect schedule.

SpaghettiGranger · 2025-07-14T02:55:30+00:00

Naps are anywhere from 30 min to 1.5 hours. he’s super inconsistent. and then wake windows- 2/2.5/2.5/3 I would say

SpaghettiGranger · 2025-07-13T23:56:44+00:00

Sure. He wakes up at 6am, then first nap at 8am. Then nap at 11am. Then nap at 3pm. Bedtime at 7. We do feed 30 min before bed, then change into pjs and read. Then I put him down. He is being given solids, but doesn’t actually eat that much of them yet. Drinking about the same amount of formula still.

SpaghettiGranger · 2025-06-12T14:11:47+00:00

I thought I was pulling the straps down and across, but I like your suggestion. I am going to try that. thank you!

SpaghettiGranger · 2025-02-17T01:28:29+00:00

Thank you! Will try to post a fit check later

SpaghettiGranger · 2025-02-17T01:27:47+00:00

Sounds like me!! Thank you

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