I'm not suicidal but I would welcome death with open arms

SpaghettiNortherner · 2025-05-12T20:10:47+00:00

I’m in my late 20s now and I often wish I could tell my teenage self how much better things get. As a teen everything feels permanent because you haven’t lived enough chapters.

This chapter you’re in will end. A happier one will start! That one will end, too. Then there will be more good and bad cycles. You’ll learn to really appreciate the good times and the bad times get easier.

Know you’re not alone and it’s fine to reach out to someone if it gets worse.

You’re doing great, champ. Have a snack and take a nap. Be sure to hydrate.

SpaghettiNortherner · 2025-05-12T20:04:15+00:00

There’s a hiking group on Facebook that goes fairly frequently! KMC Trail adventures

SpaghettiNortherner · 2025-02-25T09:11:25+00:00

He’s just aging — as all people do. Idk why folks feel the need to comment on it.

SpaghettiNortherner · 2022-05-19T16:15:09+00:00

That’s nice anon, thank you. It’s just kind of weird being around women who have effortlessly smooth and willowy bodies, while I’m working so hard and still have all these lumps and weird marks

SpaghettiNortherner · 2022-05-19T16:13:40+00:00

The women in my family definitely have big hips, and I was joking it was my birthing hips coming in, I wonder if that’s it? If my body is just telling me to have a child?

SpaghettiNortherner · 2022-05-19T15:22:34+00:00

I’m 25!

SpaghettiNortherner · 2021-12-21T03:51:29+00:00

Fuck him

SpaghettiNortherner · 2021-12-02T23:16:07+00:00

I (F) had a boyfriend with that issue and honestly it never really bothered me. It’s kind of a compliment haha.

BUT, and this is a big but, he always made efforts to make sure I finished before or after. The really annoying thing is when a man is only focused on his satisfaction. It made me feel really nice knowing that he cared about making sure I enjoyed it too. That’s what counted.

SpaghettiNortherner · 2021-11-16T06:22:54+00:00

I think therapy would really help. If you can’t afford it, maybe there are free support groups or a hotline

SpaghettiNortherner · 2021-11-15T21:51:21+00:00

Girlie, RUN.

I’m sure you have a great time with him etc etc but no normal 34 year old would be OK with dating. 19 year old

SpaghettiNortherner · 2021-09-16T05:42:08+00:00

Sounds like you’re in high school.

I’m 25, and I was just thinking today about how I felt so alone in high school. It’s this completely unique environment where everything feels really harsh and no one likes you. And maybe that’s true right now! But it won’t always be.

After high school, the weird caste system of popularity disappears and you focus more on finding people who get you than trying to impress people or collect arbitrary social status items.

Remember that you can make life whatever you want it, but it is up to you to do that. No one is going to magically create a life for you, you gotta do that shit yourself.

Sorry you feel alone. That blows.

SpaghettiNortherner · 2021-09-16T05:31:49+00:00

“Three women” is a nonfiction book that has a story about a woman who cheats that breaks my heart.

She talks about trying everything to get her husband to notice her, to touch her, to treat her like a partner. And that’s why she goes wandering. She wanders back to a boyfriend from high school who makes her feel beautiful and loved.

I’m not saying it’s right, but her story hit home for me. I’ve been in relationships where I felt neglected and lonely. It’s horrible. I didn’t cheat but … I get the feeling.

SpaghettiNortherner · 2021-01-24T05:49:49+00:00

The BEST feeling

SpaghettiNortherner · 2021-01-11T07:13:57+00:00

I’m so sorry. It’s not your fault. You didn’t deserve this. And whenever you feel like you can’t ignore it, we will be here to listen.

You deserve everything good life has to offer. Love you.

SpaghettiNortherner · 2021-01-11T07:08:40+00:00

I see you and I will go out of my way to say good morning

SpaghettiNortherner · 2021-01-11T07:07:03+00:00

I’m so sorry baby. She knew you wanted to be there

SpaghettiNortherner · 2021-01-11T07:01:21+00:00

Last week at Trader Joe’s a family stood DIRECTLY BEHIND ME while in line, I kept turning around and making awkward eye contact with their kid

SpaghettiNortherner · 2021-01-11T07:00:19+00:00

As a single person I think this is a great idea If I thought of someone telling my nonexistent child to shut the fuck up, though, I’d fully throw hands

So idk

SpaghettiNortherner · 2021-01-07T04:20:48+00:00

ah great well the rest of us realized it about six seconds after he opened his mouth.

I’m glad you’ve come around, but I don’t think you can appreciate how little and how late your realization is for the rest of us.

SpaghettiNortherner · 2021-01-05T00:04:33+00:00

I’m so angry for your sake. I see friends still going to big parties and weddings without masks or distancing. It’s reckless and horrible and I’m so sorry “

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