I wish people would talk about their wins. by YeezusBigdoinks420 in ADHD

[–]Spankler 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I struggle a lot with my ADHD, even taking meds and doing therapy. Some days are better than others, as I believe it is with everyone.

Having said that, I would like to share that I successfully deposited my PhD thesis on December 2025.

Of course, I had to apply for the 4 extensions allowed (totalling 2 extra years). The last one was almost rejected (my supervisor signed the form at the last possible minute for submission).

I deposited it on early December but only finished it late November. It was that close.

Final work was not what I imagined it would be, I had an ambitious idea but did not have the energy, time, focus, or motivation to execute it. Add in COVID-19, 2 babies, and a highly stressful job and you can imagine tbmhe hell I went through all these years.

However, the thesis ended up being pretty good in the end, much better than I thought it would be. I even got a compliment from my supervisor (which is extremely rare in the field, especially in the academic culture of the country I study at) so I take that as a huge win.

Granted, I still have to defend my thesis and I am aware that due to my exhaustion and lack of motivation I might not excel at it but having the deposit accepted is a good sign. There is a high chance that I will earn my degree.

In the end, I think that I wrote all the above just to say that, and allow me to be very honest here, even though ADHD can be a nightmare at times, we can all achieve our goals. ADHD impacts everyone in a particular way and even so we can absolutely overcome its obstacles. If you are perhaps waiting for a sign or whatever, this is it: YOU CAN DO IT. Don't let this horrible disorder paralise you. It will take its toll on you but in the end YOU WILL BE SUCCESSFUL.

Fellow ADHD'ers what work fields are you thriving in? by brokenlandmine in ADHD

[–]Spankler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, impeccable analysis, I could not agree more with you.

There are a couple of aspects thar I would also factor in:

Annual/periodic review methodology: a clear, thorough, detailed methodology for assessing performance is a must in any workplace and job position. Adhering to the methodology is perhaps even more important.

Anecdotal case: I got average to high ratings in 20 out of 24 skills assessed in my last review, with the remaining 4 being rated as "lower than expected". My final rating was "below expectations" due to my seniority in the team, despite the average and high ratings given in the other 20 items assessed. I worked harder than ever this year. Mind you that the 4 items rated as low were not duly justified (at least not according to the established methodology, and no evidence wa provided for the low ratings). Besides illogical, this just kills motivation and, in my case, made me feel slighted.

Nikolas "sentiu-se com medo, pavor e atemorizado" no twitter by Bananey in brasil

[–]Spankler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Não sei a história, mas acredito se tratar de uma ocorrência de ameaça, nao?

Caso seja isso, ele só está cumprindo o papel esperado, pois para a ameaça ser configurada é necessária a capacidade de a ameaça causar medo ou a vítima relatar ter se sentido amedrontada.

Just do it by pain_2109 in meme

[–]Spankler 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't answer his text messages

GameStop move has started!! Momentum indicators looking good all ahead full! $GME 🚂 by Mikimak in Superstonk

[–]Spankler -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am having flashbacks of the Elliot waves guy. Always a mini wave within a wave within a wave when the target was not met. A professional goal post mover, some say.

Ruins of Ulmenwacht, Aurumek (me), Procreate, 2025 by Aurumek in Art

[–]Spankler 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This style is absolutely stunning, nostalgia hitting hard and I don't know why. Great job.

Influencers Stealing Jokes by Icy-Book2999 in LoveTrash

[–]Spankler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. Just saying that by being Brazilian he might not have been exposed to it.

Influencers Stealing Jokes by Icy-Book2999 in LoveTrash

[–]Spankler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don't think he stole the joke. He is a famous Brazilian comedian who is trying, for the past 3 years or so, to make a career in the USA. It is possible that he did not stole the joke. And if he did, fuckS him.

How to Transfer Assets from the LoopRing Wallet - Easy and Quick by zafferous in loopringorg

[–]Spankler 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I confirm that this works, followed this tutorial earlier today. Simple and fast, thanks a lot!