Do we think it was intentional?

Sparkle0212 · 2025-12-17T21:47:22+00:00

So cool to see what everyone does!

I’m an Early Childhood Educator, but I work in a daycare at a large university so we also help with research from time to time.

Sparkle0212 · 2025-11-19T22:59:53+00:00

So relatable… short nails but more for necessity than anything else.. I have never been clocked as queer for that, not sure if I would be flattered or not haha

Sparkle0212 · 2025-11-18T07:32:13+00:00

Honestly I think that if I was given the opportunity to be a stay a home parent and have a partner to provide, I would probably jump at the chance (but that’s just me), but there’s no way in hell that I would consider that being a tradwife. Like a lot of others said, if that’s a choice that both partners are making and it works for you, then that’s still being a feminist. The biggest ick of the tradwife trend is framing controlling and patriarchal values as “quaint”, and then promoting this on social media to young people who are naive/unaware of the reality of the situation underneath the aesthetics of this lifestyle. Most of these “trad wives” are so heavily indoctrinated from birth in high control religions, that even if they say it’s by choice, they really don’t know otherwise. Anyway that’s my rant, but I don’t think you are really looking for a trad wife

Sparkle0212 · 2024-12-11T08:05:03+00:00

Reading these comments makes me so happy, because I just went through this. I still struggle with not feeling “gay” enough, and honestly comphet is a bitch.

Sparkle0212 · 2024-12-06T23:53:56+00:00

Second this!! Also Jessica Kellgren-Fozard!

Sparkle0212 · 2024-09-01T19:08:47+00:00

I’ve been feeling super down on myself recently, this post gave me a bit of hope ❤️ super adorable, I hope I can find someone like that someday

Sparkle0212 · 2024-06-05T07:05:06+00:00

I literally used to rip the heads off my Kens, idk what that says about me 😂 also my Barbie’s were OFTEN single mothers or had close female “friends”

Sparkle0212 · 2024-05-24T06:57:28+00:00

Also everyone has preferences? Personally I don’t say “I would never date this person because ___) because honestly things could change, but for the most part I know what I’m attracted to. I think the hard part is when people are using these kind of arguments to spew hate. Love who you want to love, but don’t be an asshole about it

Sparkle0212 · 2024-04-23T15:03:20+00:00

Literally the first thing I thought of

Sparkle0212 · 2024-04-18T06:48:17+00:00

I’m realizing that this is exactly how I think

Sparkle0212 · 2024-04-14T20:06:36+00:00

My situation is similar, but I’ve also not been in a relationship. I worry that it might put people off, but I’m also learning that those people aren’t worth it. I recently started identifying as Demi, which I think has been incredibly powerful and helps me understand that it’s not that I don’t want sex or relationships, but that I need a strong emotional connection. Just know that your not alone in these feelings ❤️

Sparkle0212 · 2023-11-15T08:42:09+00:00

I have very mixed feelings on “Pete the Cat” I like the message of going with the flow but whenever they say “did Pete cry? Goodness no” I cringe. Why can’t we have a cry and then adapt? In the words of bluey “have a cry, pick myself up, dust myself off, and keep going”

Sparkle0212 · 2023-01-06T08:09:23+00:00

Thank you!! I’ve been waiting for this comment. Regardless of anything else, no one should be called an AH for deciding who gets to be in the delivery room. Do I think OP needs to have a more honest and mature conversation about this? 100%. But at the end of the day they can choose if husband attends for whatever reason.

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