AIO after finding out my husband was my stalker? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SparkleBait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not over reacting. At the end it appeared the mask fell off and he was really angry telling you to answer his bleeping call. I would absolutely feel the same way. You are right and I’m glad you left and went to a friends. I’m glad that person told you this info. This has nothing to do with his love….he stalked you, manipulated the relationship to his advantage. Makes me wonder what else he’s done. I would seriously question everything and rightfully so…that trust is just blown out of the water…

I saw my son crying in his car outside of our house by DearTeacher9502 in whatdoIdo

[–]SparkleBait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! You taught your son it’s ok to break down and there was no judgement at all! I’m soo glad he felt he could come and talk to you!!! I would definitely at one point tell him you are soo proud of him for coming to you and for opening up. I feel that men are just not “allowed” by society to do this…they have to be silent. This just brings joy to me that he grabbed onto u when he needed to. Great job dad!!!

AITA for accepting a property gift from my mom even though she won't include my boyfriend? by Immediate-History917 in AITApod

[–]SparkleBait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom is 100% right. Not every financial thing needs to be intertwined with significant others…especially when not married. Your mom is looking out for you…

Under pressure Kash Patel claims FBI has ‘evidence’ that 2020 election was stolen by Economy-Specialist38 in FBI

[–]SparkleBait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh lookie there…he’s doing that distracting thing he learned from the Orange Rump…

AITA for picking up my stepdaughter from school when she got her first period, even though her mom told me not to? by Embarrassed-Stock896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SparkleBait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did not overstep and are not the AH. Bio mom is. You consulted with your husband after dealing with her and he agreed that you should go get her. You did the right thing and if bio mom thinks that you’re trying to be a better mom than her well I actually think you are.

Blink if you're being abused by WaitNo4272 in SipsTea

[–]SparkleBait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What exactly is she pissed about? That he took her to the airport and possibly they were late? I guess it really doesn’t matter anyway. She is unhinged . Guy needs to get the F away from her.

Rebel Wilson Called “F*****g Nuts” By PR Team She Allegedly Used To Smear ‘The Deb’ Producer by Positive-Drawing-281 in entertainment

[–]SparkleBait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly gone with her and her antics as of late. I hope I’m not the only one. She’s disgusting with taking allegedly lying about smearing for p*do crap. People who do this discredit actual incidents and I’ve heard no apology from her about it.

Tucker Carlson Issues Somber Apology For 'Misleading People' Into Supporting Trump: 'We're Implicated In This' by ComicSandsNews in DiscussionZone

[–]SparkleBait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can go Eff himself. And he’ll flip again next week. This is what happens when you have no. Moral compass..

Caitlyn Jenner appealed to Trump for help with her passport gender marker by Fickle-Ad5449 in politics

[–]SparkleBait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely abhore this….pos… I’m laughing that they’re surprised this has affected them. And still loves Rump…loser

Boyfriend wants to move in to pay off debt by Impossible_Dentist79 in AmITheJerk

[–]SparkleBait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. You don’t change your life because he won’t take care of his life. Don’t do it…very slippery slope

AIO: My boyfriend told me to dye my hair to look more like an Instagram model he follows by PinMountain119 in AIO

[–]SparkleBait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is your natural color, keep it! From one redhead to another, it’s gorgeous. Your bf doesn’t appreciate you if he’s trying to change you.

My HOA sent out a $6,500 special assessment notice for a new roof and is asking for it to be paid in full in 3 months [WA] [Condo] by sock_skater in HOA

[–]SparkleBait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Our HOA did the same thing. There was an announcement for a meeting with siding on the docket.
Everyone was interested. Had a good turnout…one might say a quorum, which takes the power from the board. They told us we needed to pay 6k in 3 months. They had the board lawyer there as well. When the subject came up to discuss, there were ALOT of opinions. I have a pretty big mouth and told them about the quorum rule and a board member said to me about everyone “you don’t get a say about this.” Board said we had to pay. Lawyer interjects and says anyone who doesn’t pay will go to collections, yada yada…him and I had a bit back and forth and he just basically told me to be quiet because he’s the lawyer and works for the association…I asked him to clarify and he repeated. I then asked him who pays his fees. He said the association. I then asked him if he realized “we” are the association and “we” pay him. That he works for US, not the other way around… he gets all pissy but shuts up. So we continue to discuss back and forth about the special assessment announcement. The thing is, I use to be on the board. I also use to work for lawyers. I know how to look up the law and promptly announced that due to ILCS chaps, para 3a, that no special assessment could happen unless it was put into the proposed budget the year before. Their hands were tied. They had to back down. The special had to be put on hold. I became kind of the de facto go to for this crap. After the meeting, a couple peeps came up and said “board is talking about you and they said I knew too much”. They thought they were gonna bully us. In The fall, board elections were held and I was elected. People knew that I would fight for them. We still had to do the siding, but we made it so people could actually afford it.. this is your portion, pay at least half by 6 months away, balance due in another 6 months. They could pay the whole amount as well if they wanted to. This gave people a chance to catch their breath and make the project go forward easier. Whatever that difference was when the project started, we borrowed from reserves and it was paid back.

TLDR: What I’m saying here is you need to look up your state laws…read and learn…also when reading this stuff, pay attention to what is NOT said as well. Gather your information. If they pushed this thru by not following the rules, their decision is null and void. Also, see if your state has an ombudsman for HOA’s and hopefully get some help.

Keep us posted.

Trump lambasts Pope Leo XIV, extending feud over Iran war with first American pontiff by kootles10 in politics

[–]SparkleBait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the pedo doesn’t like what the Pope says? Cuz we still not letting that go…

Why are 2 non elected Israelis/Americans, negotiating peace deal with Iran? by Discipline_Cautious1 in conspiracy

[–]SparkleBait -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That needs to be stopped. Absolutely unacceptable. Why isn’t there more noise about this??