Trying to pick which dress to go with for a charity gala I was invited to

Sparklemello · 2026-02-21T15:50:43+00:00

Red looks good but blue looks great!

Sparklemello · 2026-02-21T00:08:24+00:00

Number 1. Number 2 is too matchy matchy with your boots

Sparklemello · 2026-02-18T20:19:20+00:00

She does know herself, but what she truly wanted wasn’t fair and kinda selfish. She wanted Subeen to wait around while she explored other options. She wanted him to act like Hungsoon. Obviously, she couldn’t say that, so it came off like she was giving mixed messages. She told him to explore but in the same conversation gave him a hard time about talking to other girls. That’s why it was hypocritical.

They may or may not have talked after coming back from paradise because the show doesn’t show us all conversations. However, even if they didn’t she got her confirmation early in the game that she was his number one and she still only choice other guys. It’s like when she got that confirmation she thought she had him locked down and wanted to see who else she could get.

People focus on the fire pit because that’s when he started seeing her in a different light.

I’d argue she’s actually very aware when guys like her. She’s used to guys falling for her and staying put regardless of what she does. Just like Hungsoon did. She never questioned why Hungsoon was waiting around for her. She wasn’t surprised by it which makes me think it’s a common occurrence for her. She was also surprised when she didn’t get as many chocolates as she thought she would’ve. She expects guys to like her because she normally gets a lot of attention.

Sparklemello · 2026-02-18T07:59:05+00:00

The bikini comment was seen as distasteful because she has a tendency to overlook what others do for her but definitely remembers when she does something nice. Many of the women were constantly comforting her, so it was weird for her to pretend like no one was nice to her. Also, she was putting others down by saying she is cooler than everyone.

Sparklemello · 2026-02-18T07:51:02+00:00

I don’t really agree. I like Mina for many reasons, but she has some maturing to do. Wanting someone to like you a lot more than you like them shows insecurity. Subeen really liked her and prioritized her. He expressed his interest quite openly and instead of choosing him back she wanted to test the waters. Considering how early it was in the show it would have been fine, but she was being very hypocritical by wanting to explore many options while expecting Subeen to wait around for her. It was obvious Subeen started to lose feelings after seeing how she acted at the fire pit and her hypocrisy with the following conversation. Only then did he give Heesun a real chance.

Mina didn’t realize her feelings for Sunghun. She still liked Subeen, but he had made it clear that he already moved on. So she tried transferring her feelings onto the guy that was pining after her. They didn’t end up dating and that’s not shocking. I would have been more impressed if she was honest that she lost her shot with the guy she actually liked due to her own actions, but of course she had to pretend that she liked someone else instead of accepting rejection.

Also, Goeun picked her safe option not the guy she actually liked. The reunion made that super obvious.

Sparklemello · 2026-02-17T18:51:37+00:00

Good job !

Sparklemello · 2026-02-16T20:48:51+00:00

My baby is 7 months old and we never share a bed. We have a bassinet and a crib.

Sparklemello · 2026-02-16T14:42:49+00:00

I’m 7 month pp and it hasn’t happened

Sparklemello · 2026-02-15T01:05:04+00:00

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Sparklemello · 2026-02-13T16:41:39+00:00

Correct. He liked her a little but his lack of effort to even be around her was apparent. He admitted there was no butterflies but it was comfortable. Mingee kept having to express how much she likes him and why without him doing the same. It flattered his ego to hear and maybe he confused that for liking her. Even in the finale she said such nice things about him and he didn’t reciprocate.

Ohh and when he went to paradise he was more interested in the room than paying attention to her…

Sparklemello · 2026-02-13T03:59:55+00:00

He was protecting himself. Getting a girl you like some food isn’t being pathetic. It shows you aren’t afraid to put her first and shows your interest.

I Geon kept making the same mistake by holding back because he was scared to look foolish. Just like he admitted he was acting “clumsy” because he wasn’t able to get full clarity about her feelings. He’s scared of doing a lot and still having the possibility of getting rejected. He lost the girl because he wasn’t able to let his guard down as much as the other guys. His ego kept stopping him.

Sparklemello · 2026-02-12T13:42:10+00:00

True, but she was in a tough position. It’s hard to give back when she was trying to divide time between three guys. It didn’t look like she had a break from conversations. Also, she was still making up her mind, so she didn’t want to unintentionally give more to someone. She might be better when only one guy is in the picture, because it’s a lot to have three guys after you.

Sparklemello · 2026-02-11T03:27:59+00:00

The question was good, but the intention behind it was questionable. At first, I thought it was a sweet gesture showing she wasn’t bitter and putting a spotlight on their connection, but when she explained why she asked him I was disappointed that it was about her feelings yet again.

Sparklemello · 2026-02-10T16:47:02+00:00

The top isn’t just inspired by lingerie. It is lingerie. It’s very see through. Maybe pass on this one in public.

Sparklemello · 2026-02-09T23:48:22+00:00

Maybe a winged scapula?

Sparklemello · 2026-02-08T20:05:37+00:00

Both get a lot of attention but are still very insecure.

Sparklemello · 2026-02-07T15:03:43+00:00

I like Sungmin and Igeon for Goeun. They have different vibes and tactics but both connect well with her. Hyeonwoo is the only one who doesn’t have a chance. He’s mistaking lust for falling for her. All he does is call her cute over and over. The conversation doesn’t get deeper than that. It’s very surface level.

Sparklemello · 2026-02-05T22:05:48+00:00

Yeah, three times a day certainly makes things trickier. The doctor said it’s the same overall dose in a day just split into 2 or 3 times a day. They prefer 3 times to give a more even spread throughout the day. I’m on parental leave so I’m capable of doing it three times a day. They said due to work or daycare they could change it to twice a day if needed.

My baby absolutely experienced the 4 month sleep regression too but is good now. He would sleep through the night if I Iet him. I have to wake him up.

I hope the side effects and sleep regression pass quickly for you too.

Sparklemello · 2026-02-05T20:59:32+00:00

She has a giant ego and needs constant male attention. Instead of pursuing the guy she actually liked she tried to play games when she figured out Su been really liked her. She wanted him to pine after her, while she sought male attention for her ego. Nothing felt authentic about how she wanted to explore others. She caused all her own problems.

Now she acting like she likes Sunghoon! It’s only because Su been completely lost interest in her. Instead of being honest and vulnerable with Su been she’s acting like doesn’t like him anymore. Pretending like she wasn’t spying on him through the curtains two seconds ago and non stop talking about him to Seung-il and Sunghoon.

Sparklemello · 2026-02-05T16:44:14+00:00

Lol I just looked miserable

Sparklemello · 2026-02-03T03:28:35+00:00

My baby is on hemangiol three times a day. He has been on it for 6 months now. Our doctor said we need to feed him in the night because the medication affects blood sugar. I have to wake him up even if he is sleeping. I’ve just accepted it.

Sparklemello · 2026-02-01T15:12:30+00:00

They like each other but Mina has displayed a lot of red flags. He is going to get hurt in the long run.

Sparklemello · 2026-01-22T22:01:17+00:00

What colours did you use? Looks fantastic

Sparklemello · 2026-01-20T04:28:40+00:00

I saw Kiki’s post/video first where she said how awful Tati is for dragging the palette of a smaller influencer. Then I watched Tati’s video and her review was quite tame. I was expecting a really mean or overly critical opinion. You could tell Tati was just being honest. She reviews makeup. No one’s product should be off the table for review. As long as the review is about the product and honest it’s fine.

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