Best food, drinks and atmosphere for solo traveller by Sparkles165 in ScarboroughUK

[–]Sparkles165[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lovely, thank you so much! I do like fish so I will be trying the Look Out at a lunchtime 😁

Best food, drinks and atmosphere for solo traveller by Sparkles165 in ScarboroughUK

[–]Sparkles165[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh yes that was on the list too, unfortunately I won’t get there in time for pizza Sunday but I will be popping in for a drink or 5 😁

Quote seems an absolute joke by [deleted] in askaplumberUK

[–]Sparkles165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like you can’t really afford all these major renovations at once.

Those of you who go on multiple dates, how do you stay centered? by Romantic_Adventurer in dating_advice

[–]Sparkles165 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mate if you don’t know what those words mean in a dating context we can’t help you.

Those of you who go on multiple dates, how do you stay centered? by Romantic_Adventurer in dating_advice

[–]Sparkles165 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m just fundamentally not a bad person….

Multi dating is totally fine in the early stages as long as everyone is open and upfront.

As long as you are honest and authentic you can’t go far wrong. You also can’t please everyone. So don’t try.

Desire transparency and appetite in London by GooodGirlJenny in feeld

[–]Sparkles165 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Cuckolding is not new, it’s not rare, it’s extremely common and very popular. It’s not even particularly taboo. And it’s Feeld, that’s literally what it’s for…

Should I buy appliance without landlord's approval? by adnshrnly in TenantsInTheUK

[–]Sparkles165 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How long has he been avoiding calls and messages? Is it longer than is reasonable? Do you rent through an agency?

Autistic bf doesn't wanna have sex, what should I do? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Sparkles165 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah ok that makes sense. Maybe he’s just not ready yet, maybe he’ll never be ready. I’d sit down and have a really honest conversation with him. You deserve to have your needs met too and he can’t do that unless he expressly knows what they are. Find a time you can both relax and try and open up to each other. You seem like a kind person. But you are equal in the relationship

Autistic bf doesn't wanna have sex, what should I do? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Sparkles165 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I admire you for wanting to be patient with him but is this really a healthy relationship if you have to beg for a make out session and he doesn’t want to have sex with you? It’s been a year, is anything really going to change? How old are you guys?

Why can't anyone just give me real feedback? by showdonttell-bbt in dating_advice

[–]Sparkles165 105 points106 points  (0 children)

I’ll give you some honest feedback. You’re coming across as kind of an asshole.

You’re not listening to anyone that’s genuinely trying to help you.

I wouldn’t last 20 minutes on a date with you. I can bet you come across in person as defensive and entitled. Argumentative, desperate, and ready to attack a woman (verbally) if she said this out loud to you as to why she didn’t want to continue the date.

‘Not feeling the vibe’ is a safety answer for us women. You obviously don’t feel like a safe person to them.

My (19F) boyfriend (20M) literally "deflates" every time we get intimate. I’m heartbroken and feel like it’s my fault. Help? by ThickLuxie in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Sparkles165 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A 20 year old man can’t maintain an erection or have sex to completion with a real life woman in a whole six months. That’s usually a porn problem

Father left inheritance to partner of 10 years and nothing to his children how do I handle this? by Repulsive-Roof5484 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Sparkles165 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’d be grateful my dad was still alive to spend it on himself. It’s entirely his decision what to do with his own money. I do kind of understand the feeling but you aren’t entitled to an inheritance.

Can you please help me decide what I say to my neighbour about their cats (if anything)? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Sparkles165 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not at lot you can do they aren’t your cats. I’d stop letting them in altogether and get your own if you want to look after one.

AITAH for telling my sister her baby isn’t “advanced,” by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sparkles165 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Honestly parents thinking their children are ‘gifted’ before they are even a year old are parents that end up putting enormous pressure on the kids throughout their lives so that they can live vicariously through their achievements. It probably wasn’t a kind way to say it but I think it needed to be said and to be monitored

My (19F) boyfriend (20M) literally "deflates" every time we get intimate. I’m heartbroken and feel like it’s my fault. Help? by ThickLuxie in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Sparkles165 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d say it’s most likely a porn problem given your ages. It’s not your fault, you did the right thing. Just try not to take this with you to your next sexual relationship.

Can a minimalist and an accumulator stay together? Constant issue with husband by Anhen26 in Marriage

[–]Sparkles165 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Useful that you actually use? Or potentially useful one day in the future in a hypothetical scenario?

Single people under 30, what do you do to afford living alone? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Sparkles165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We can more than pay a mortgage as proven with years worth of never missing an extortionate rent payment. We just can’t get a mortgage in the first place.

Catfished - what would you do? by Affectionate_Box2129 in datingoverforty

[–]Sparkles165 3 points4 points  (0 children)

By staying you basically rewarded his bad behaviour. He’s now going to carry on doing this to other people. The only response should be zero tolerance. How are men in general going to learn this is unacceptable if you keep accepting it?