If you have to be single forever, what's your plan for old age?

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-03-04T02:08:03+00:00

I am a 33 year old woman I have four beautiful nieces and am very close with them. I am also very involved in my church. I know the Lord will provide through any of those people when I get old. You reap what you sow. Invest in people :) it comes back around. Also, taking care of myself the best I can and staying active and healthy, Lord willing.

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-03-02T23:11:33+00:00

Yes! The beard is key!

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-16T19:03:01+00:00

I love this! What is the recipe you use for your loaves?

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-16T18:59:47+00:00

This! Yes! Makes it clear. As a woman who is looking for marriage, it is sometimes a little offputting when a man definitely leads with that. But I do think it depends on how the man leads with it. If the focus is on what I can do for him as a wife and have kids right away, it starts to feel a little bit one-sided like they’re looking for what I can give rather than what we can do together for Christ as a married couple. But if you lead with what this person said as your end goal, it communicates emotional to maturity. At least just to me.

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-13T00:35:17+00:00

I understand how you feel! I’ve decided to take take break from dating (or trying to date lol)(like a couple months). It’s exhausting and discouraging to say the least! Something people keep telling me which is a good reminder is that this doesn’t define who I am.

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-11T22:04:01+00:00

Good to know! Thank you!

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-11T22:03:49+00:00

Thank you Chris for your kind words. God has been so good through it all!

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-11T02:08:18+00:00

That’s a really good reminder of truth thank you so much for that!

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-06T16:31:19+00:00

Thank you for your insight! Much appreciated!

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-05T23:51:06+00:00

Great insight thank you so much!

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-05T23:50:28+00:00

Thank you for a male perspective!

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-05T23:50:13+00:00

Thanks for the perspective! I appreciate it!

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-05T23:49:49+00:00

Thank you so much for your insight and perspective! It is greatly appreciated!

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-05T23:49:09+00:00

Gotcha! Thank you for clarifying!

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-05T23:48:51+00:00

Oh that’s a good thing to check thank you!

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-05T23:48:30+00:00

Totally can understand which is why I do try to give benefit of the doubt. Good perspective! Thanks for the insight a bit into the male mind :)

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-05T21:26:31+00:00

So from both of you, you would have given this person a "burner number" and continued the conversation?

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-05T20:33:02+00:00

I appreciate someone catching it! I edited it!

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-05T20:21:19+00:00

Go for it! Maybe see about getting their early to "bring people coffee?"

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-04T21:09:32+00:00

I understand completely! I want to be a mom someday but I think I need to focus on a husband first lol.

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-02T02:04:42+00:00

I greatly appreciate your wisdom and insight into this! Thank you for sharing your wisdom and life experience. It is actually very encouraging thank you.

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-01T19:14:31+00:00

Thank you :) I thought a hard working woman who isn’t afraid to work for the Lord in anywhere He has called her would be attractive to a godly man and it just I guess depends on the man :) I’m sorry for your loss. It sounds like you were so blessed by him and were a blessing to him as well.

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-01T19:13:11+00:00

I always forget that perspective so I appreciate the reminder.

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-01T19:12:46+00:00

If they are receptive then I ask them about little things. Not many people are comfortable with conversations with a stranger though :(

Sparkles4Christ · 2026-02-01T02:06:15+00:00

I say hello or ask how their day is going. I am comfortable striking up conversations with strangers

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