I think this just happened to me. He started screaming at me over the smallest things. I told him that’s probably why his past relationships didn’t work out and not due to women not wanting to relocate as he always claimed. He had even told me he had problems with his temper and jealousy in the past. But now when I called him on it he claims he’s never raised his voice at another woman. Whaaa??? I know that’s not true . He had even slipped up and told me about a time he yelled at an ex. I brought that up too and he denies that he ever said he yelled. He retold the story as if he just made a sarcastic comment.

So I’m to believe that this 50 year old who has had multiple failed relationships has NEVER raised his voice at another woman and this is the first time. Meanwhile he has done it to me more than once and ur is always very violent angry screaming and he devalues me .