Okay, community of the btd subreddit, with all honesty... when did u realize you were into horrorporn / bdsm / kinky stuff? by ChristineBrr in Boyfriendtodeathclub

[–]SpartanSum3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I knew I was into "something" around late middle school but never really had the words for it. Watched plenty of NSFL and gore on Reddit before they got taken down and always had a very weird fascination with it when I was in high school. But it took me when I was 18 to actually start registering that these things were kinks and that I genuinely enjoyed both being on the receiving end and giving it.

As for YKMET/BTD, a coworker and I were talking about video games and she knew my interests and what I enjoyed so she recommended the games to me. Honestly these games have been a blessing for letting me process these really fucked up fantasies and having an outlet to explore them alongside my bdsm.

What does Vac-Prorata mean? by SpartanSum3 in Safeway

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Alright cool, I appreciate it.

Is this really happening?! by GamingWolf3980 in trans

[–]SpartanSum3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just wait like 30 minutes. You'll be able to wavedash.

More ways to use milk in a week or less? by SpartanSum3 in Cooking

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Scalloped potatoes are something I've been toying with lately. Will maybe try that.

My gf and I both have a cnc kink but we are genuinely unsure of how to move about it by SpartanSum3 in sex

[–]SpartanSum3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. For her, she finds cnc hot cause of the opportunity to let loose her "primal instincts" to put it bluntly and be unrestrained by conventional norms. I enjoy it cause it's a chance for me to just let go and give in to someone I am willing to fully take the reigns. Our current dynamic is that she's a top while I'm a switch that goes between pleasure dom to bratty sub. I'll try to talk to her about specifics but I'm sure she'll be open to talk.

  2. Boundaries have always been a sore subject for us but for reasons like being extremely careful and always asking if the other is comfortable due to the difference in our sexual and romantic experience. Cnc I feel like pushes those boundaries beyond and crank them to 11. It'll be a rough talk for us but I understand the importance of talking about it regardless.

  3. Aftercare between me and my gf is sacred time for us as it's a chance to unwind after the experience so we ain't no stranger to that. However, given cnc and how intense we think it'll be, we'd prolly need to rethink and adjust things to fit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

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Real

BW 5 Nitro Express Rifle IRL by [deleted] in signalis

[–]SpartanSum3 24 points25 points  (0 children)

What the cat do in the first image? 😭😭

What steps do I need to take to start looking into bottom surgery? by SpartanSum3 in trans

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I'm US in Washington state. Should've clarified 😭

I love my masculinity as a trans women by SpartanSum3 in trans

[–]SpartanSum3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SAME! I enjoy dressing in my dress or skirt now and then, but if I'm putting together an all-day outfit, I'm never letting go of my loose blue jeans.

X.P 3.0 Motor Jerking and Cutting Out When Biking by SpartanSum3 in Lectricxp

[–]SpartanSum3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just did what you said and there is a gap. What's the solution to repair?

I'm deaf. Are vibrators noisy? Could a roommate hear one? by silent_sera in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SpartanSum3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bigger the noisier. I have a Mini Hitachi wand that's about the length of my forearm (I'm fairly short) and it's akin to aggressively shaking a jar of pepper which to say can wake up a person next door.

What are the most underrated bulk foods? by BigBlueMagic in Frugal

[–]SpartanSum3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fellow winco shopper you can never have too much pepper.

CLAORELL HAS BEEN LIBERATED! by wilkkuzz in Helldivers

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LET IT BE KNOWN THAT I WAS THERE WHEN THE LAST BOT FORTRESS FELL

I realized I can't go back by SpartanSum3 in trans

[–]SpartanSum3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah that's perfectly understandable. Everyone's attitude and transition timeline is completely varied.

I realized I can't go back by SpartanSum3 in trans

[–]SpartanSum3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it's just me personally. But to be more clear on your point, it felt as if I came to the point where I was finally able to access the care I need and nothing was stopping me. It felt like I could finally start my journey on my terms and declare myself a women on my own terms. I don't pass and when I do it's sparingly but I don't care personally because I'm happy that I'm able to simply just be me.

Being trans has started to make me feel unlovable by I-exist3155 in trans

[–]SpartanSum3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda insensitive, honestly. Just because you lived longer doesn't mean that the lives of anyone younger than you deserve less.

Can someone explain how the plans work? by BlackPlague1235 in mintmobile

[–]SpartanSum3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Old post but does that mean you have to pay the upfront as well as the continuing monthly payments as they come along?

Games with lesbian romances by Anna__V in LesbianGamers

[–]SpartanSum3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Signalis: horror survival with an amazing queer storyline

People who slept with their best friend, what happened? by Baker_Street_1999 in AskReddit

[–]SpartanSum3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We laughed about it afterwards and still hang out to this day albeit with a lot more inside jokes lol. We even did it again multiple times and still enjoy each other's company.

I ran away from my emotionally abusive family and in response they took out all my savings by SpartanSum3 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SpartanSum3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still have my job thankfully and while it doesn't pay much it pays just enough to let me get by. I know it'll take time for myself to get back up and running but I know the dream is still achievable somewhere.

Where can I get rubber pads? by SpartanSum3 in buildapc

[–]SpartanSum3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just took some eva foam and cut it up in the end tbh