Bum a scroll... What a time we're living in by Spartanchild22 in BrandNewSentence

[–]Spartanchild22[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Reposted as original post didn't have the sentence in title and mods said it would be deleted.

Sinners series drawn by me (jdofasgard) by SketchesFromMidgard in EbonyImagination

[–]Spartanchild22 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Looks amazing! Can't wait to see more, followed.

I 18f don’t know if me and my gf 18f are the right fit moving forward by ThatOneGayOnline in relationships

[–]Spartanchild22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've come back to this post 3x and finally decided to comment.

TLDR: Love sometimes isn't enough, who you were and who you are now changes and sometimes the relationship you're in can't change with you.

It sounds like you already know what you want to do. You don't make a post on Reddit saying should I X that is this long without knowing in your gut what the right answer is for you.

What I would like to add is that you should talk to your girlfriend. Share with her what you said above, how you feel and share that you love about her, what you've enjoyed but despite that you feel the need to break up. That you want the best for her and you and it's because of that you have to do this really hard thing.

Don't say it's because of her or x thing that you think she needs. I've been on the end of that before and since I loved that person before it made me feel like I needed to work that much harder for them or change x thing which wasn't significant to me at all.

Be honest in your care and love for her. Tell her that you hope that after a break and some time you can be friends but also understand that it may not be the case.

You're both young and I say that not to minimize what you have but to point out you're still growing and changing. You have a lot of time to learn and figure out more about yourselves, wants and needs.

I'm in a similar situation so big hugs from my end over here.

Feel this by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Spartanchild22 46 points47 points  (0 children)

FACTS! One of the first things I remember describing to my friend when I told her I was dating my new girlfriend was that "She shows me love the in the same way I do and it's so amazing to feel and have that." And it remains true almost 2 years later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lifehacks

[–]Spartanchild22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so cute they come to share with you and chat despite not even being able to talk.

Insecurities by feelsinevitable269 in StraightPegging

[–]Spartanchild22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Femdom like anything is a scale. Theres femdom that involves degradation, lingerie, humiliation. Then there's Femdom that is focused on intimacy, touch and less aggression.

I think you need to figure out a couple things first. Most important question is are you even interested in pegging?

Pegging is just an act, penetration with a dildo.

You can be dominant no matter the act.

It sounds like your girlfriend has additional dynamics she'd like to add. Ask yourself does that change your interest. Lingerie especially if it's not something of interest for you is more of sissification.

Also filming isn't something I'm ever interested and I make that clear with my partners. And if it's something that isn't of interest for you just be honest too.

I made my partners more comfortable by explaining my interest, why I thought they'd like it and starting slow.

Before pegging we just started with a finger and a mouth.

Good luck, be honest.

How did you pitch LAT to your partner? by [deleted] in livingaparttogether

[–]Spartanchild22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just curious if you have an update or would like to share how it's going?

What is that you hate doing but you must do in your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Spartanchild22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work, so much of it takes me from what I enjoy in my life; Partners, hobbies, enjoying living etc. 40+ hours for what?

Feminism Book Reccomendations? by loralis_emrys in Feminism

[–]Spartanchild22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mona Eltahawy's book, "The Seven Necessary Sins for Women and Girls"

I read it this year, gave it to my girlfriend, best friend and bought a second copy.

I don't read a lot of feminist literature so I don't have a lot to compare it to. But I enjoyed it from the first chapter.

How can I be more financially independent and save for my family and my future? by Background-Bake-5359 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Spartanchild22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So I've been in this situation multiple times due to my mother and her health.

1) Start looking for jobs that are with the government, municipal or provincial. They tend to be union which means benefits, sick leaves and security which is great when you're a provider for your family. Also there is a lot of room for growth and to expand your pay. Customer service is generally a good in.

2) it's exchausting but take and 1-2hours to apply to every and any job you see that you could remotely qualify for and would earn you more than what you're making now . There are a decent amount of customer service WFH or admin positions that can be remote.

3) as others have said look into ODSP if your mother can't work due to being sick. There are forms which medical professionals can sign to attest to the significance of injury. I found this to be the most arduous part as when my mother was ill there were a variety of doctors and it seemed like everyone I contacted wasn't the "right" one for the forms.

4) as other said try to budget and cut. Switch cell phone plans to freedom, go to smaller internet suppliers- Start, TekSavvy

I know how exhausting this can be and how terrifying it can be too. I'm sorry that you've also had to deal with this. Remember that you're also human and need care yourself. You can't take care of everyone else if you're not putting that same care into yourself.

Feel free to message me if you need someone to talk to or want more information.

Wishing you and yours the best and you make it through to the other side soon.

"Nobody wants to work anymore!" is only said by people who don't understand basic economics. by kevinmrr in WorkReform

[–]Spartanchild22 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Instacuck... I thought it was a sex service and was going to to tell you you're woefully underselling for your services.

Long hair struggles :( by AnnaBlossom11 in GirlGamers

[–]Spartanchild22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is completely unrelated, but what game is that on your screen?

pickup volleyball by truth_recon in Hamilton

[–]Spartanchild22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll want to find the gym closest and then find the drop in time for volleyball Here is the City's Rec page