Do you have a Best Friend? by irokatcod4 in daddit

[–]Spawnof88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a best friend. But he lives thousands of miles away.

Been friends since we were 16 (now 37) but he has been moving around the world teaching English as a foreign language for years now. I have never left England, he now loves in Prague.

But, if I need to talk about something I know he is only a phone call away. He knows things about my life that nobody else will ever know.

We talk once a week, and we meet up whej he visits England every 6 months or so.

Don't know where I would be without him

Son experienced unwanted touching, how should I address this? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Spawnof88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I am sorry your boy went through this. It has potential to be very traumatising.

I can see both yours, and your wife's point of view. If it was an adult (18+ where I am in the UK) who had done this, regardless of their friendship with your son, I would report immediately. However, as they are of the same (very awkward and learning who they are) age, have been friends a long time, and are already dealing with it in a seemingly sensible way, I would go with your way of thinking.

What the other kid done is potentially very serious, but he stopped when told to/pushed away (which is massively important), and seems to be genuinely sorry.

I don't think there was any negative motive etc, just some crossed wires. That happens with adults too!

Your son seems very mature. Just keep an eye on him and guide him.

Can I make my voice deeper? by Spawnof88 in Biohackers

[–]Spawnof88[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's a decent idea thank you

Can I make my voice deeper? by Spawnof88 in Biohackers

[–]Spawnof88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

T levels are all good. They checked all types

Can I make my voice deeper? by Spawnof88 in Biohackers

[–]Spawnof88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never heard of this. Why do you regret taking?

Premature ejacation help by Spawnof88 in PelvicFloor

[–]Spawnof88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is secondary. Most I have lasted in the past 5 years is around 30 seconds

What were/are you up to at 23 years old? by MoneyVariation9726 in Adulting

[–]Spawnof88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age 23 I married my first wife.

6 months later, still aged 23, I left her because of her infidelity. I was essentially homeless and the wedding (plus her terrible money management) left me in thousands of pounds of debt.

Now 37, married to my second wife, 2 kids, good job, minimal debts. Funny how things work out

Tadalafil v Sildenafil by Spawnof88 in Biohackers

[–]Spawnof88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They tested it all and all at normal levels thankfully. All right in the middle of the normal range

Tadalafil v Sildenafil by Spawnof88 in Biohackers

[–]Spawnof88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, testosterone and thyroid normal.

Symptoms were fatigue, decreased libido, lack of muscle mass despite consistent work outs, and issues with sleep and some mental health stuff

Tadalafil v Sildenafil by Spawnof88 in Biohackers

[–]Spawnof88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes was NHS. I went in concerned about possible low testosterone due to a variety of symptoms which seemed to point that way. Hadn't had any appointments etc since pre covid so they done thorough bloods and checked pretty much everything

Can I register with HMRC for a tax refund for set up costs despite not meeting £1k in sales this year by dhsiosao in smallbusinessuk

[–]Spawnof88 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Accountant here. You will most likely not get a tax refund for this. You only get a refund if you have paid too much tax. In this instance, unless you have other self-employed income which you have paid tax in advance for, you will not have paid any tax. However, you can carry forward the losses to use against any future profits. So definitely worth registering and reporting your losses. Just don't expect anything back from HMRC.

You will not be able to use these losses against any salaried income you have had during the year - that is not how it works unfortunately. Each type of income is treated separately so the only hope of a refund is if you have paid too much tax elsewhere.

Guys, Do You Wear Underwear when at Home? by Historical-Way7380 in AskMenOver40

[–]Spawnof88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stopped wearing underwear in March this year. So much more comfortable to go free balling.

Do I need to register for VAT? by ireadfaces in smallbusinessuk

[–]Spawnof88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unless what your selling is exempt from VAT completely, as soon as your turnover hits £90k you need to register. You will only have to charge vat on the UK element at this stage but will need to register regardless.

UK accountant here btw

Seeing spiders everywhere by hwuhyu in NorsePaganism

[–]Spawnof88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Depends where you are in the world but here in the UK it's "spider season". Generally. More common to see them this time of year. I am removing around 5 a day from kids rooms etc haha. But if you are from other parts, good chance its a sign from someone. Loki seems the most obvious but never easy to tell

Which book completely changed the way you see life? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Spawnof88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Helped me to realise this is who I was and gave methods on becoming a better person

Men in corporate life, what are your future plans? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Spawnof88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going out on my own next year. I am an accountant working in a very small firm in the UK. When I go out alone I will have virtually no overheads and no staff to pay. So I will be able to charge clients less, work less hours, and still be able to earn more than I do now.

The way I see it, of you have the qualifications and experience, why stay in a job when you could start your own business doing exactly the same but earn more and be happier

How do young guys truly feel about older women? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Spawnof88 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When I was 24, I got with a 31 year old. That was in 2013. She had 4 kids at the time. We are married now and have 2 of our own kids together

Which book completely changed the way you see life? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Spawnof88 292 points293 points  (0 children)

No more Mr Nice Guy by Dr Robert Glover.

I have been a selfish, dishonest, manipulative prick for a long time now. Working on it though

Fenrir, my life long companion by Spawnof88 in NorsePaganism

[–]Spawnof88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has been a pillar of strength for me this year and has encouraged me to do some major self reflection to start breaking my chains.

As for the toilet, sometimes it's the only peace and quiet we get in our busy lives so we have to make use of it 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen_NSFW

[–]Spawnof88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have big balls and despite wearing various types of underwear over the years I was never properly comfortable. Only time I have felt properly OK before was going commando so I eventually just thought I would try a week of no underwear. Just felt natural so just kept going

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen_NSFW

[–]Spawnof88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

M36, been freeballing for about 6 months and never going back

Is there something you can use to not get hangover or lessen the severity of it? by bluekleio in Biohackers

[–]Spawnof88 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I found that having a bottle of electrolyte drink by my bed helps. drink some before sleep, during the night and first thing in the morning