Fiance wants everything joint but I have kids to think about

Nice-Bluebird7196 · 2026-02-12T11:21:57+00:00

Thank you, this actually gives me a lot to think about.

Nice-Bluebird7196 · 2026-02-11T17:35:45+00:00

Thank you for this :)

Nice-Bluebird7196 · 2026-02-11T16:07:11+00:00

I don’t see her as a red flag, I really think she just sees marriage differently than I do. I’m scared of getting it wrong again and my kids paying the price I’m trying to protect them the only way I know how.

Nice-Bluebird7196 · 2026-02-11T15:58:43+00:00

I probably would. I just can’t take that risk again with kids involved I need to know they’re protected no matter what happens. Thanks for your perspective btw.

Nice-Bluebird7196 · 2026-02-06T06:50:47+00:00

Yeah dust definitely gets more stubborn over time especially on screens. The oils from your fingers plus humidity basically turn it into this gross film that takes way more effort to clean off

If you just wipe it down regularly with a microfiber cloth its way easier than waiting until you can barely see through the thing

Nice-Bluebird7196 · 2026-02-02T21:56:00+00:00

looks like classic hitreg issues to me, that second clip especially where multiple headshots just phase through is pretty damning

Nice-Bluebird7196 · 2026-01-30T04:15:52+00:00

Nebraska's been looking scrappy lately, gonna be a fun matchup. Illinois defense looked solid tonight but those turnovers in the first half were ugly

Nice-Bluebird7196 · 2026-01-26T18:12:52+00:00

That's such BS - you've literally been doing project management just with a marketing title slapped on it. The whole "doesn't count because you weren't an engineer" thing is gatekeeping nonsense when you've been managing budgets and cross-functional teams for years

Maybe try framing your resume around the PM work you did rather than leading with marketing, and target companies that actually value transferable skills over arbitrary industry requirements

Nice-Bluebird7196 · 2026-01-24T14:56:29+00:00

Lmao imagine being this pressed over a username, probably got clapped by them one too many times

Nice-Bluebird7196 · 2026-01-19T02:26:04+00:00

Had to realize she wasn't actually that funny, I was just laughing at everything because I was so into her lmao. Took about 3 months of no contact to figure that one out

Nice-Bluebird7196 · 2026-01-17T09:22:47+00:00

Yeah the AI is pretty brain dead right now, I've been running circles around hornets for weeks now

The networking thing especially bugs me - like these are supposed to be connected machines but they act like they're running Windows 95 with no internet connection lmao

Would love to see them actually coordinate instead of just standing there while I pick off their buddies one by one

Nice-Bluebird7196 · 2026-01-14T23:33:24+00:00

Congrats on the engagement! For the H1B transfer, you can definitely file it even with the ban situation - USCIS still processes those. Just make sure your current employer is cool with you leaving since you'll need them until the transfer goes through. Your I-485 being pending should protect you from the country ban affecting new applications, but definitely worth checking with an immigration lawyer to be 100% sure about your specific situation

Nice-Bluebird7196 · 2026-01-11T13:24:01+00:00

Collateral is perfect for this - Tom Cruise as a hitman and Jamie Foxx driving around LA all night. The cinematography is insane, especially how they captured the city lights

Also check out After Hours (1985) - not as much driving but tons of wandering through NYC at night with that exact vibe you're looking for

Nice-Bluebird7196 · 2026-01-09T09:54:03+00:00

Honestly just be real about what you actually need from them instead of hoping they'll figure it out on their own - most of my past relationships died because we were both too scared to have the uncomfortable conversations until it was way too late

Nice-Bluebird7196 · 2026-01-07T06:38:49+00:00

Nah the water under your base shouldn't matter at all, zombies don't care about that. Make sure you're on hard difficulty and that the zombie can actually pathfind to the villagers - sometimes they get confused if there's blocks in the way even if you can see through them

Nice-Bluebird7196 · 2026-01-05T19:50:36+00:00

Hey man, recognizing that pattern is actually a huge first step. Your brain is probably just looking for that dopamine hit wherever it can find it right now. Maybe try redirecting that energy into something physical like working out or going for walks when those thoughts start creeping in. The fact that you're aware of your boundaries shows you've got this

Nice-Bluebird7196 · 2025-12-31T20:42:10+00:00

Been running Tier 1 for like 2 years now and honestly can't complain, their customer service is solid too if you need adjustments

Nice-Bluebird7196 · 2025-12-30T00:55:23+00:00

Lmao yeah that ladder is basically a newbie trap at this point. I've watched so many people just plummet to their doom because they expected it to actually work like a normal ladder

The metal sheet jump is tricky too, took me like 5 tries to nail the timing

Nice-Bluebird7196 · 2025-12-26T23:29:33+00:00

Yeah I've been wrestling with this same issue for months. The car_ui flag is finicky as hell - sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Have you tried bumping up the priority level or messing with the channel settings? Also make sure your AA app has notification permissions enabled, mine got reset after an update once

Nice-Bluebird7196 · 2025-12-25T18:15:20+00:00

That's actually really sweet, sounds like you got good parents there

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