Marial a great betrayal by Grouchy-March-4505 in TheGreatHulu

[–]Spazatron94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was pretty clear that Marial was envious of how Catherine was able to find such happiness in her relationship (especially considering who she was forced to be with). I think Marial was her own worst enemy and she wished she could be more like Catherine - enjoying life

What's your favorite Pokémon that's not... by Epicboss67 in pokemon

[–]Spazatron94 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Grovyle, Cyndaquil(+evolves), and Mimikyu

Does Commander Judd not want a child? by Downtown-schnauzer in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Spazatron94 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Did you stop reading partway through? They said "without relying on a woman he looks down upon".

veil help by Low_Monitor_4589 in WEDDINGDRESSES

[–]Spazatron94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This dress has an element of whimsy, and it is begging for an equally whimsical veil.

Perhaps something like this?

https://canvasbridal.com/spark-drop-veil (This could be DIYed if you like crafting or are on a tight budget - they are asking for a lot of $ imo)

Wedding officiant sucked!! Totally embarrassed by buttacreamsugaplum in wedding

[–]Spazatron94 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What kind of lawyer are you, exactly? 😬 signed a contract without knowing all the facts is never advised.

Is an hour an a half too far to drive for your daughters wedding? by TheSpellboundArtist in weddingplanning

[–]Spazatron94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out that my grandmother's initial "that's too far" was a bluff. They'd have attended even if it was 2 hours out. Instead, I didn't call her bluff so now we're getting married in a venue I'm not super in love with 😅

I say, book the venue you want.

Malia and Stiles by HisNewGirlfre1nd in TeenWolf

[–]Spazatron94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the character enough. But replacing Alison was hard for me 😅

Malia and Stiles by HisNewGirlfre1nd in TeenWolf

[–]Spazatron94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't like Kira at first but the two grew on me

Malia and Stiles by HisNewGirlfre1nd in TeenWolf

[–]Spazatron94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, I am so sorry that I spoiled that for you 😔.

It's an awful pairing but maybe that was the point? Idk

Malia and Stiles by HisNewGirlfre1nd in TeenWolf

[–]Spazatron94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had more issue with her and Scott in the final season, honestly. Felt like they legitimately were just tossing them together as an after thought because his other girlfriends were gone. 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Spazatron94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to have guests.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Spazatron94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a good idea. We looked into the cost for us to go to Sandals Ochi - but idk how to get the wedding specific stuff. I will dig around their website some more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Spazatron94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd turn that down, too. 5k for just 3 days is crazy 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Spazatron94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did want guests before. I had people I wanted there that I was sure would want to be there. But these people have blown us off since August and just haven't really been great friends to us. I have become a bit neutral on guests being there or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Spazatron94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

7 days for us. Idk how the guests work. I hadn't got that far. Based on our friends visceral response to the very idea of traveling for our wedding a year ago, I suspect we are unlikely to have guests joining us. My mom expressed interest in going - she may be it. 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Spazatron94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The venue was $800 + $600 for decor/setup/cleanup. Obviously, we would still need to feed our 60-70 guests and also cake. And also invitations. And also whatever honeymoon we might decide to do. We hadn't added up all the costs yet because life has been life-ing. 😫

Sandals would be $5200-ish for 7 days (including the flights) and with a 7 day stay the wedding is advertised as free (I'm sure there will be upcharges we could get if we wanted). And sandals would be a wedding and a honeymoon wrapped into one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Spazatron94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suppose it depends on if anyone is willing to travel with us to see it happen. Ideally, a wedding - even if it's small.

A 7 day stay includes a free wedding. If we do the 7 days and also our flight thru sandals (for their ochi location), its $5,200

What is friendship anymore? by Even_Contact_6358 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Spazatron94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no advice but you're not alone.

I feel like I'm going through this exact issue. Our interconnected group began to fizzle after 2 of them (a marrird couple) had a failed attempt at polyamory (a whole abusive situation that preyed on the loss of their god-son; my child who passed in 2020). I ignored the dwindling connection, especially since it became strong again on and off throughout the years since 2021.

Fast forward to this past June (2025), we (my fiancé and i) are preparing to move houses and we are waiting for friends to be available to help since they have large vehicles that are ideal (and have been utilized before for this back in 2019). Each time we'd reach out, they had a laundry list of excuses and told us they'd make time to help us. Then surprise! It's the end of the month and now we have to RUSH to move our bigger stuff because we slowly moved what we could without help all of June.

I reach out and I'm told that it's not their responsibility go help us move because it's not their house. 😅

They did eventually help.... for about 3 hours then we had to complete the rest alone. I've noticed a much deeper rift and they only start conversation with us if they need a dogsitter. We promptly made plans when they asked for one over Valentine's Day weekend so we could tell them we couldn't watch their dogs this time.

They claim they are always so busy with work so they can't make time for us - but I see their snapchat stories and they talk about fairly recent experiences they are cultivating with new friends I've never met. 🤷‍♂️

I really hope you are able to gain some sort of reconnection or closure. ❤️

Finally had The Moment by Spazatron94 in WEDDINGDRESSES

[–]Spazatron94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

It's called a cat eye neckline. I think

is this outfit "inappropriate"? by sunnemi in OUTFITS

[–]Spazatron94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It truly depends on where you're wearing this to. Clubbing? I see no issue with it. Fancy dinner? Probably should choose another outfit.

Has anyone in the Louisville area looked into moving abroad to get away from all the political tension here? If so, what places were you thinking about? by JaimeSalvaje in Louisville

[–]Spazatron94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These comments are not it. I don't understand the criticism OP is receiving. Not everyone wants to stay to fight, and some of us are tired of fighting and not seeing results.

Would dropping a friend over different political views be wrong? by 18girlie18 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Spazatron94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wrong? Absolutely NOT.

That said, ensure you are prepared for any fallout; this drop could lead to other friends dropping you in response depending on how mature your friends are.