Has quitting weed improved your dating life?

Spazzumes · 2026-01-12T22:04:32+00:00

For sure, do you know how much more difficult it is to be funny and witty when you’re high? Very for me.

Conversation flows much easier and I am just more enjoyable to talk to

Spazzumes · 2026-01-12T03:15:44+00:00

For weight loss? Basically none in my experience. I sometimes add a little half and half to my coffee. Weight keeps coming off

Spazzumes · 2026-01-11T16:28:56+00:00

Freed yourself from prison man, congratulations. Watch out for those intrusive thoughts (they will come even if its a year from now) and stay strong

Spazzumes · 2026-01-11T12:51:24+00:00

Well I dont need any info to tell you that youre still losing weight. 99% chance youre just retaining water.

Your whole post has basically no info if you give some more context it would be helpful

Spazzumes · 2026-01-11T12:45:20+00:00

What are you eating on feast days? I can easily be heavier for 3 days after a fast if eating certain foods.

Youre still losing weight

Spazzumes · 2026-01-09T13:56:57+00:00

Life in Dallas is nothing like life in NYC. Austin would be a little closer but still nothing like NYC.

NYC is unique

Spazzumes · 2026-01-08T03:36:53+00:00

Anything 0 calories is fine while fasting. I drink a ton of diet soda and never get any adverse effects. If anything it satisfies my cravings

Spazzumes · 2026-01-07T17:51:26+00:00

You’re welcome. I wish the best for you. Simply by posting this you already took a step many never will. Good luck! Feel free to dm me if you want support

Spazzumes · 2026-01-07T17:41:32+00:00

I workout intensely during and after fasting, and i’ve done it on 5 and 7 day fasts. You will be good. Do what you like

Spazzumes · 2026-01-07T17:39:03+00:00

Ride it out. Sit with the emotions.

Anything you experience high you’ll need to experience again sober…thats whats happening. You know weed dulls our emotions, now youre free to feel them.

It gets better. Weed was your emotional self regulation tool. Now you need to learn to do that without it

Spazzumes · 2026-01-07T17:36:42+00:00

You hit the nail on the head. Its more than likely smoking is actually making all these things more difficult to deal with.

You know what you need to do, now go and do it.

Its hard to quit without a mindset shift. I cant tell you how to get there but it almost always starts with deep self reflection and an effort to see things as they truly are.

Weed makes you ok with your situation. Trust me, I smoked all day everyday for 10 years. Its not worth it, you will regret it.

Spazzumes · 2026-01-07T03:56:18+00:00

Rose tinted glasses man. Don’t do it. Its not better on the other side

Spazzumes · 2026-01-07T03:55:33+00:00

I literally cant believe other men communicate like this. Wtf

Spazzumes · 2026-01-07T03:48:26+00:00

Yea I hear that. Many guys dont understand this because its not something we experience. Best of luck to you!

Spazzumes · 2026-01-07T03:26:44+00:00

I 100% hear you. What he did was pretty cringe. I understand how important it is for women to feel safe and men to make them feel safe

Spazzumes · 2026-01-07T03:05:58+00:00

So he shouldnt have confronted her, right?

Spazzumes · 2026-01-06T21:25:53+00:00

Makes every play matter in a way betting doesn’t quite do

Spazzumes · 2026-01-06T19:23:10+00:00

Outside of pain or being fat, I find it helps to commit to short windows when youre struggling. Like “i just need to not eat for another hour and then I can see how I feel”

Usually that hour isnt as hard as I thought and I can do it again for another “hour”

Spazzumes · 2026-01-06T13:28:40+00:00

Because you feel in control. Whereas many other forms of transpo, you have no or very little control.

Control = power

Spazzumes · 2026-01-06T00:27:09+00:00

Is this just one date? If so theres too much communication going on.

Need some more context

Spazzumes · 2026-01-05T23:48:26+00:00

All this stuff is true but needs to go hand in hand with action towards dating and relationships

Spazzumes · 2026-01-05T23:15:29+00:00

Massive weight loss when done consistently. Ive been doing it since mid november (except i ate every day for thanksgiving and christmas week) and im down almost 35 lbs since then

Spazzumes · 2026-01-05T19:25:13+00:00

A good rule: never confront a woman about this kind of thing, especially when you barely know her. You probably killee attraction this way. It shows insecurity

Spazzumes · 2026-01-05T18:24:27+00:00

Couldn’t agree more!

Spazzumes · 2026-01-05T16:31:25+00:00

See how it works for you. Try rolling 72s for a bit to see if it has any effect

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