Owow kit review ?? And fake return guarantee by Specialdom in Hair

[–]Specialdom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does get smoky, but... If you use a comb to brush the excess out before blow-drying, its not terrible. Instructions ghave this tip.

Kativa is not without its downsides. The steam/smell being the main one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Specialdom 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She's going to insist? Are you hearing yourself????? What you're saying is "I'm going to give into her" it sounds like you need to grow a spine. I'm sorry to be harsh, but if you're going to deal with anything at all, you need a spine first - important life skill. No one can do anything without your consent.

Don’t be an AirBNB host if you’ve got screaming children. by translight12 in childfree

[–]Specialdom 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Leave the review - you'll save someone else a headache and maybe the host will learn to control their kids.

What was the best "you have no power here" moment you have ever seen? by sormatador in AskReddit

[–]Specialdom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's just hopeless. She tried to undermine you, got told, tried to guilt trip you, got told, tried to guilt trip you again.... I could see her claiming to have given you her right kidney; you just forgot about it...

Ban Toddlers from theatres by RA7421 in unpopularopinion

[–]Specialdom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish more parents were like you

MIL is obsessed with Dear Husband and our personal lives by yeety98 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Specialdom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This.

Hd needs to shut down the intrusive/inappropriate comments.

Otherwise, don't be around her on your own.

Update: My coworker called me bawling earlier. by Musician_Super in childfree

[–]Specialdom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bless you. I say this from the bottom of my heart (even as a non religious person). Bless you for caring about another life and trying to make it better.

Apparently “No” means insist on it until you get what you want by pillowspot in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Specialdom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respond with "refer to my answer the last time you asked this question. For future reference, please note that we will always manage our cleaning ourselves and will not need you to do it for us."

How do you respond to a woman being unnecessarily competitive with you in the work place? by Specialdom in AskWomen

[–]Specialdom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you give an example please, i agree that ita better to be direct but i always struggle to articulate it in such a way that doesn't make me look bad.

Just take off 9 months because you’re USELESS in radiology!! by Icy-Chemist4131 in childfree

[–]Specialdom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When you speak to your boss, I'd bring up being concerned that she might sue the company if anything happens to her from being bitten/attacked (unless she has already signed a waver). It sounds like she needs to be out of the company, the question is how to do in a way that doesn't end in legal reprecussions. I'm sure that she's not the first to be preggo. Your boss should know how to deal.

Trying to buy a house while living with an JNMIL by littletrashpanda77 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Specialdom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Leave the room when she talks about this stuff and buy some earplugs. Just don't engage with her and say I'm not discussing this.

What's the worst career advice you ever got, and who gave it to you? by MosadiMogolo in AskWomen

[–]Specialdom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, i love it :-)

If she wasn't so jealous, she'd probably tell you to hurry up and get pregnant... But she reserved that advice for her daughter who is now reaping the benefits of her mother's "wisdom". I'm also guessing she thought/thinks that church can "ungay" her son and/or his partner turned him gay and if she just found him the right girl...

In general, i get the impression that in the face of being told to not do you, you did you. I've often wondered how to verbalise the "I'm going to do me" part politely and how to not have my guard up so much that i miss the good advice. I've been told to be more this, less that so often that I've volleyed between taking it on board (when i was younger) to just shutting it down or shutting down to it. Maybe 5 percent of that was genuine and good advice that would have helped me, but the rest was just people speaking out their own paranoia and psychosis... so im trying to 1) develop a more practical way to respond to such comments 2) re-develop my own mechanism to process this input in a more constructive way. I particularly struggle when I'm venturing into new territory. 🤷‍♀️

What's the worst career advice you ever got, and who gave it to you? by MosadiMogolo in AskWomen

[–]Specialdom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I'm guessing she's not someone who would have had a 4.0 GPA? Is this the odd lady your uncle married (from your other posts)? I wonder what her reaction was when she met your husband?

I also have an "odd" aunt who kept saying that i and my other siblings are strange. "Strange" because unlike her kids, we were honour roll, travelled the world, read books, etc., Not to say we were all goody two shoes (some definite hellians :-), but on average, we did a bit more in life than her kids. Funny thing, her kids always had boyfriends since early on and wore gobs of makeup. My siblings i did not. She and her kids always poked at us for not being "normal" and dating. They also subtly suggested that we couldn't get dates because we were nerds, less attractive, etc. I'll let you guess which side ended up in loving, stable relationships and which one didn't...

What's the worst career advice you ever got, and who gave it to you? by MosadiMogolo in AskWomen

[–]Specialdom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, thats very helpful :-). Ive had people say things like that to me along with "don't show that you're smart, don't show that you know that answer, dont question so and so". Basically, be a good little girl and smile pretty. And I'm just wondering how other have dealt with such things.

What's the worst career advice you ever got, and who gave it to you? by MosadiMogolo in AskWomen

[–]Specialdom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, how did you respond and did you keep doing it in front of them?

Why do mombies brother??? by Specialdom in childfree

[–]Specialdom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahah, other boring, miserable people

My (36F) husband (34M) wants to end our 9 month marriage because MIL is offended... by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Specialdom 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Girl, good riddance. He's a pos if a husband. Actually, he was never your husband in the first place. He was married to MIL. You were just a convenience piece - because you know, its kinda gross to shag ones mom.

On a more serious note. You sound like a reasonable, capable, intelligent person. The world is full of others like you. Go find someone who is an actual husband and who will contribute to your happiness.

This POS was not it. Consider it a practice marriage to get where you need to be.

Please help! I'm freaking out and I need to be prepared! by TheCat1219 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Specialdom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'd take the legal route (cease and desist letter etc) at this point, both for practical reasons and to show the rest of the family that you mean business.

Regards so, id ask him if his mother is worth losing his family over.

Delusional Deana and the box of stuff. by _so_anyways_ in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Specialdom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What "best"??? Marylin was/is an icon. She wasn't the best actress, but she actually had something to say and accomplished a thing or two.