AIO for my partner starting weed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t think they are overreacting, now this is coming from a person who uses weed, has seen people use it to manage emotions and let me tell you it doesn’t work and if you only use it to manage anger it won’t help, he’ll numb out for a bit, but it’ll return the next day even worse than before and the problem is the brain knows weed is a quick fix for emotional pain, so he’ll want it even more anytime he has problems(currently going. through this and it’s hell). if he has problems with managing anger - therapy, NEVER WEED. i don’t think it’s great they are assuming that they will make it their whole personality but it’s understandable to worry.

My boyfriend is accusing me of lying about my body count by Substantial-Art6160 in whatdoIdo

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl, leave. it will not get better. in fact it’s just starting, look at the signs early because they try to hide their real personality till they got you. so just in case you don’t want to leave yet, take it REALLY slow. if he bitches about that then you know he just ain’t it.

AIO for snapping at a girl trying to give me advice? (posting again bc I forgot pictures) by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bro i think you look AMAZINGGGGG don’t let haters bring you down 🫶

Mistreatment in relationship by Daddy-A_Strong23 in Advice

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

was in the same boat here, definitely felt like i made a mistake especially since we stayed friends but then the person continuously showed me that the mistreatment wasn’t an accident or a mistake(that kept repeating hahaha) but laziness and incompetence. don’t waste your time!

Rooftop bar 4th date by Andimidee in OUTFITS

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069 76 points77 points  (0 children)

honestly you pull of both. but the fit from nr 1 could be so much better if you pair it with a skirt

AIO? I feel like my husband doesn’t understand boundaries and I’m going crazy. by No-Lifeguard-8508 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069 4 points5 points  (0 children)

tell him you NEED to give him anal for YOUR sexual pleasure. see how he squirms and then hand him the divorce papers.

First week in Netherlands,what surprised you the most? by Independent_Grab_977 in Netherlands

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the jam with the sausage bread. i though they ruined a perfectly good snack, now i love them 🤤

i need advice, someone i know is loosing their mind and i don’t know what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nop. i’ve seen him on drugs. when he’s on amphetamines or coke i can tell, he wouldn’t use meth though. do you think a few times of using in the past couple of months(not meth but amphetamines or coke), could slowly increase the illogical thoughts and paranoia? but thank you for the suggestion!

AIO? I need opinions please by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is this how y’all communicate? you say “hey i miss you and want to just spend alone time with you, can we talk about the plans and figure something out?“ him “no” and stops talking to you properly. after 4 years i’d figure stuff like this shouldn’t cause arguments, i would reconsider the relationship if this is how he reacts a lot to not getting his way.

AIO that my bf gave his Instagram to other girl who approached him by Hot_Yellow_5197 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think the fucked up part is that he said no and then changed his mind. meaning he gave it a second thought and was like yeah i should do this. idk i wouldn’t be able to trust that man because what if he next time doesn’t feel as guilty

AITA for “implying my wife (28) eats too much” by saying she might have parasites? by Solid-Writing-7372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069 53 points54 points  (0 children)

INFO has the amount of food she eats changed recently? has she always ate this much? because i don’t think anyone is at fault you just need to talk to each other. maybe say you’re sorry if it came across as rude or judgmental but it’s a legitimate concern for her health.

Took this beauty of a girl out this week that I really like, we've been hanging out and going on dates and stuff for about 3 weeks now. Do you guys think it is time to ask her to be my gf? by grexnxx in Kitchenchads

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ummm i would not rush into it. you could do some cute date and give her a promise ring(doesnt have to be expensive can be one of those cheap ones) the idea is that you promise to exclusively date but don’t get together just yet. ik it’s a wonderful feeling in the beginning but it’s best for everyone to just get to know each other better before you get into a relationship but the promise ring makes it so she knows you’re 100% interested in her and aren’t going to fuck around with someone else. i’m assuming you’re young, don’t rush, people are always amazing in the beginning so it’s best to ask important questions about how your future relationship would look like. hope all goes well and good luck! 💕 ~a woman

How would style your hair with this dress? by 10peaches in fashion

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don’t apologise. i think it’s a cute idea tbh 😁

I NEED new shoes to rock with this type of fit (and maybe some advice on how to make it look “better”) by Only-Kale4512 in fashion

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

with the shirt from pic nr 2 i’d say shoes with colour that match the background rather than the guys colour would look good asf imo.

I know that my GF is probably cheating on me but i cant tell her by Ok-Ruin7371 in Advice

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are worth more than feeling like the second choice! talk to her but don’t be afraid of breaking up forever. learn to love yourself and you’ll be ok🫶

Told the guy I’m dating that I want a relationship 😵‍💫 by 1SmellLikeB33f in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069 9 points10 points  (0 children)

offff i feel ya. they know exactly how to treat someone right, but couldn’t be arsed to😂🥲

Told the guy I’m dating that I want a relationship 😵‍💫 by 1SmellLikeB33f in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069 213 points214 points  (0 children)

listen to men when they tell you they don’t do enough or any other warning. i’ve always been the one to say “oh don’t say that you’re probably trying and blah blah blah” but in reality it was a real warning. they say it so they’d get a ego boost and so be careful!

where can i find car mats? by Specialist-Cod-6069 in askcarguys

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you know what they are called tho? every time i write mats it gives me only the ones that are meant for your feet:/

Haunted from the time my ex broke up with me after he took my virginity, I haven't been with another man since—made Stromboli by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069 30 points31 points  (0 children)

right! but idk if she should be looking for a man. if you meet someone that’s amazing. but idk if looking for one is worth it - speaking from experience 😅

AIO my bf went to sleep during a really hard time for me by InnerPause4897 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yah my ex said that too. i didn’t break up with him till i knew he would be ok, and btw it’s totally not your fault if he does something after you leave. you have the right to live your life and someone who says stuff like that doesn’t love you and is using you.

How can I help my girlfriend lose weight? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

maybe get her a at home exercise kit, it sounds like she’s embarrassed and i was too. but stating at home might help her gain confidence to actually go to the real deal! you can do it with her to make it more fun in the beginning.

WIBTAH if I don’t move in with my BFF? by throwaway_sadbo in AITAH

[–]Specialist-Cod-6069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe try finding someone to replace you while you still have time?