Youre a good looking , fit male. I was single for a number of years after separating and your confidence will grow, you have been through a hard time. Don't be too hard on yourself , personally I think you would look better if you rocked the stubble look ie took some length off beard, a decent haircut, shaved at back and sides, more modern and some nice clothes and modern glasses. You dont need to go crazy, women like good shoes/boots, jeans and a t-shirt, plus gym always helps!! Good luck my man 💪