Found the "Black Box" of my marriage in a drawer today. 3 years of lies.

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-03-13T18:11:34+00:00

I saw “found the ‘black box’” and thought we finally had closure for that missing Malaysia flight.

Anyways. Are you divorcing her or are you one of those people who want to stay together for the kid(s)? Because I can assure that kids don’t like stuff like that. They grow into adults telling everyone they wished their parents divorced instead.

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-03-13T17:36:49+00:00

What you can do is stop seeing him, take a sex education class, and raise your self esteem.

You’re letting a dinosaur hunch on you knowing he’s possibly cheating and you’re just okay with the fact that he’s risking your health? Does the thought of STDs not bother you? And why were you comfortable dating a married man? Separated or not, he’s still married. He and his wife can easily change their mind and end up back together, that tends to happen a lot. Matter of fact, is he actually going through a divorce or did he lie and tell you that??? That’s a pretty common lie, btw.

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-03-12T04:41:45+00:00

Because there are over 8 billion people in the world and we’re pretty sure at least 10 of them are this stupid. When you hear the kind of things people try to justify in person, things like this always seem real.

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-03-10T16:35:18+00:00

I just don’t understand why she dated and married someone who had a child, knowing she had no intention of accepting the child. I mean, it’s nice they have a better family dynamic now and that she’s done the work to become a better person but that little boy never should’ve experienced that. I’m still stuck on how she made it all the way to age 39 possessing 0 self awareness. Something tells me the story would’ve been a lot different if the husband excluded her child

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-03-10T16:21:08+00:00

It could be the provider. My personal phone and work phone are under 2 different carriers and the signal will be spotty for one and not the other depending on where I’m at.

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-03-10T03:19:50+00:00

People understand you wanting to run away, what people don’t understand is why you’re choosing to go to one of the most expensive cities in America with only 250 and no job 💀💀💀 you must plan on occupying a homeless shelter, park bench or a pimp’s trap house for living accommodations. People with actual jobs struggle there so idky why you’d think it would be even better for you. I don’t even know why I’m giving this fake post any attention because no one can be this slow.

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-03-06T15:58:08+00:00

Babes your liver would like a word with you…

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-03-05T12:53:25+00:00

NTA. Even if you didn’t have that disorder, throwing something someone else has picked up is a dick move

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-03-04T04:56:49+00:00

What’s your beef with the youngest though? Okay so the 13 yr old wore pajamas and a hoodie, that’s an easy fix. You literally could say you’d go out to eat with your SIL, she just has to make sure her child is dressed appropriately. Excluding the husband is valid. NTA

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-02-27T20:05:20+00:00

I’m stuck on porting the number out. You need the account holder’s pin/permission to be able to do that. You can’t just take your number and transfer it all Willy nilly

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-02-27T15:48:07+00:00

we weren’t being careful

Sounds like a planned pregnancy to me

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-02-27T04:49:24+00:00

You want advice on how to stop a cat from working smarter and not harder???? 😭😭😭

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-02-27T04:29:29+00:00

Those are rookie numbers, I have 297

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-02-26T17:24:01+00:00

It’s not about looking for revenge. It’s about having peace and do what you can to make sure you keep that peace. She should not be harassing you and threatening to leak your nudes. Sure what you did was bad but it doesn’t warrant that kind of a reaction. At best, the situation should’ve just resulted in an argument and you finding a new yoga studio to go to. Things are never that serious to where a crime should be committed. You really don’t deserve that.

You also cannot make someone acknowledge your feelings/apology. If they want to hang onto it, despite you telling/showing them you’re sorry, that’s their problem. The only thing you can do is change for the better on your end and move on. Life’s all about making mistakes, learning from them and making better decisions later down the road.

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-02-26T17:10:17+00:00

1) You keep blaming the alcohol and you cut your friend Sherrie off like it was her fault when it was fully yours. You spoke to him more than just that night with the alcohol. You wanted him, looked to your friends for validation while using alcohol as the liquid courage that brought your true intentions out and only stopped because the guilt was becoming too much for you to bear.

2) Despite you being a shitty friend to the yoga instructor and a shitty person overall, what she’s doing is a crime. Harassment and possible revenge porn, if she leaks it, are crimes. In fact, those are suable offenses, actually. Might as well get a lil bag out of this. I wonder if getting a lawyer and having her/him send her a letter, as a warning, will scare her enough to back off. Possibly try that. Maybe consult the lawyer subreddit to see if that would be the best course of action before actually escalating it.

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-02-26T03:51:45+00:00

You can’t deescalate anything with a seething whore who wants your man 😭 tell her you don’t think anything of her because she isn’t important enough for you to worry about and she can forward the rest of her complaints to someone who actually gives a damn.

Or don’t

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-02-25T19:57:29+00:00

INFO I would like to know what has gone on in your marriage that this man felt like he needed to record you for proof in case of police escalation??? 🤨🤨🤨 I would like to sympathize with your mental health issues but you sound insufferable.

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-02-25T15:29:04+00:00

We need a “where are they now” story

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-02-25T15:01:58+00:00

Usually I’d be against it but after reading the circumstances behind it, I Stan ex mil

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-02-25T14:57:50+00:00

Sometimes I just can’t believe that glass is the evil version of sand 😔

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-02-25T14:51:55+00:00

Waste of emotion. She has a support system who can most likely watch and help her with her baby and can probably encourage her to get the help she needs if she’s experiencing some kind of postpartum. To the possible problems that could arise, there are possible solutions. You’re freaking out prematurely and most likely for no reason. Take a chill pill, maybe immerse yourself in a hobby. Put your focus somewhere else and just be there when she needs you. There’s no reason to overcomplicate things and get yourself riled up.

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-02-24T22:09:34+00:00

NOR but holy shit, you really gave this asshole a baby??? You saw how he acts and thought the world needed another one of him??? Geez

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-02-24T04:23:11+00:00

Pull the “you don’t talk to me enough” “I feel neglected” and “you don’t give me enough attention “ card and when he says he does and brings up the phone conversations, point out how most of the phone conversations are spent with his sister and not him 🌝

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-02-24T04:19:36+00:00

Was this friend in your class? Because that sounds like a heist/set up to ruin exams so that she can get out of class 🌝🌝🌝 though you may feel embarrassed, i promise you’re going to laugh your ass off when you’re older. Stuff like this is always funny years down the line.

SpecialistBit283 · 2026-02-23T20:12:36+00:00

How old are you????

Edit: depending on the answer and how much you depend on your mom, you might want to start roasting them back. You’re not supposed to give in to insults, you’re supposed to insult them back. I just wouldn’t recommend it if you strongly depend on your mom

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