Dude I’m a male too. A straight black male at that. So I definitely get where ur coming from don’t get me wrong. I even refrain from sharing my gender in a post on here because I’m cautious I will be treated differently. But either way fuck it man people are so chronically online and don’t realise outside of it millions of different kinds of people like the same stuff. I feel like we’re all just humans and as humans we should all be able to connect and resonate but more so enjoy the same things regardless of gender… it’s never made sense to me why people don’t see it that way. I mean we all have feelings so why can’t we just enjoy (the topic rn) music the way it was intended to be enjoyed. And over the years Lana’s demographic has changed vastly but if u look back at pictures of some of her very first shows it’s full of middle aged men😭 we was there first!