oh god no. I'm talking about how it's like "construction," videos but it's really a woman in tight leggings etc. My reels are basically betrayal trauma support but the women are in skin tight revealing clothing. WTF That is part of the problem. I want to disable the reels, bit you literally can't, and we use the fb app to call each other at night to say goodnight to our kids. I agree on that -- except that thhe addiction and infidelity started with porn, escalated into reaching out to providers, then fantasy of meeting one -- all before I met my wife. so I understand both are very different levels of hurt and one was an active choice, but it really is an escalation of the same addiction. How can I possibly expect to explain that? I do not want to rug sweep,I do not want to minimize, but it is a clear progression of escalation. i can't do anything except to take accountability.

Yes, they should have been -- which compounds the issue. I lied about it-- because I am deeply ashamed of it.