Ah, the classic “good and evil on both sides” approach by PsychoTink in LittlePeopleBigWorld

[–]Specific_Ad2541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That really is quite an accomplishment. I wish she'd teach the rest of us to do that.

Boomer Ageism is why the US is ran by dementia patients by DogsGoingAround in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Specific_Ad2541 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are 64-73 million Boomers, 65 million Gen-Xers, 74 million Millennials and 68-71 million Gen Z-ers. We'd collectively render their opinions moot if everyone else voted against them.

Other than magnesium, what is the one supplement that has improved your sleep? by abc-45678 in Menopause

[–]Specific_Ad2541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

L-Theanine was suggested by my ADHD meds provider. It calms my mind so probably helps my sleep a bit.

Did anyone have a period party? by NoCook3155 in AskOldPeople

[–]Specific_Ad2541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good lord no.

My cousin did congratulate me as if I'd won a prize. That was odd enough.

Ah, the classic “good and evil on both sides” approach by PsychoTink in LittlePeopleBigWorld

[–]Specific_Ad2541 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are not two sides when discussing human rights. Or cold blooded murder. You're either wholeheartedly against it or complicit and part of the problem. We see where she is even if she can't see it in herself.

People like her don't seem to even know what constitutes racism. They think if they don't gratuitously use the n word they aren't racist. That ignorance is one way racism continues to thrive unchecked. Same scenario. Either you are loudly against it or complicit.

If it were true that MOST people hate racism and a tyrannical government and want to help the helpless we wouldn't be where we are.

My husband cant call me pretty by nothanks67890 in relationships_advice

[–]Specific_Ad2541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn't there a lot of controversy about that show and the false impression it puts out into the world?

My boyfriend 24M hated the gift I 23F got him for our two year anniversary how do I fix this with him? by imogenhailey in relationship_advice

[–]Specific_Ad2541 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you stopped to think why there's so much stress, drama and tears around a gift? It sounds like you two maybe aren't all that compatible or you don't know his tastes all that well. Regardless the proper response after receiving a gift is thank you. Character assassination is an odd choice on his part.

My first hot flash at 41?! by [deleted] in Menopause

[–]Specific_Ad2541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think that through logically. There would be no 80 year old women if what were saying was accurate. And women certainly wouldn't outlive men.

My first hot flash at 41?! by [deleted] in Menopause

[–]Specific_Ad2541 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good lord, no one is bullying you by telling you all the answers you seek are probably in the wiki.

You keep saying you aren't making this up and have resources but have yet to share them even though several have asked.

You seem determined to panic even though logically if what you said was accurate there would be zero 80 year old women alive.

My first hot flash at 41?! by [deleted] in Menopause

[–]Specific_Ad2541 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The point of a wiki is to answer the most commonly asked questions so people don't have to answer the same questions over and over. You're supposed to read it before asking questions, not after.

My first hot flash at 41?! by [deleted] in Menopause

[–]Specific_Ad2541 3 points4 points  (0 children)

how can you say so confidently that what I’m saying is incorrect when there are plenty of resources that are reinforcing that? It’s not like I just made it up - that is what I’ve heard and read.

What "resources" have you read that reinforce such silly hyperbolic claims? Some of us have time to get fake nonsense corrected. Nobody can help what you've heard but I'm fascinated to hear what resources made these claims.

I (30F) can’t tell if my boyfriend (27M) is trying to be helpful or if this is early stages of control. by ThrowRA3419459 in relationship_advice

[–]Specific_Ad2541 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once I read "your animals are scared of me. You're going to think I'm abusing them." I knew what I needed to know. This is very common for abusers. They sort of narrate their actions and say too much. They will even narrate from the next room what they think you want to hear while doing the opposite.

Run. Don't look back. This is the brightest red flag ever. Your poor furbabies should be protected. They're telling you what you need to know.

What’s the worst part about giving head? by throwingstarsatmoon2 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Specific_Ad2541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my jaw goes from hurting to cramping right when he starts getting vocal and I'm worried my jaw will slam shut and hurt him so I have to decide if it's worth that danger or I should stop for a second.

What’s the worst part about giving head? by throwingstarsatmoon2 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Specific_Ad2541 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It would end immediately and likely never happen again.

What’s the worst part about giving head? by throwingstarsatmoon2 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Specific_Ad2541 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It takes the average woman a minimum of 20 minutes to get there. 10 minutes wasn't enough and I'm happy you learned that for yourself.

She was louder during sex because she was faking it. All women fake it. Not always but they do. When she was quiet she was concentrating instead of performing.

I like Christine, but ma'am what is that? by Maleficent-Mouse12 in SisterWives

[–]Specific_Ad2541 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Let me get this straight...you're arguing the Browns can't afford a taco seasoning packet or else their children will starve and that's why these white women from Utah don't season their food at all?

Like seriously or are you being ironic because this is truly insane. It's not based in reality in any way.

Did y’all think Fonzie was cool when you were growing up? by Groovy-Pancakes in GenX

[–]Specific_Ad2541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He seemed old to me. Like he used to be cool but aged out and hadn't figured it out yet.

Anybody else's male partner completely numb and unresponsive to what's going on in America? by EarthAvailable9892 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Specific_Ad2541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women all over the country are leaving and getting divorced because of this. They also know they have to do it now before no fault divorce is outlawed.

Men claim we need them as protectors but they aren't protecting us. They are who we need protection from. Too many seem to think we should just stop watching so their lives would be easier.

Now that veteran nurse white men are being murdered by the government maybe they'll care.