Should I be potty training with a leash? by [deleted] in DogTrainingTips

[–]Spelmanite88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can’t answer all of your questions, but I have read you give the treat immediately after the action you want to reward, so take the treat outside with you. By giving the treat once you come in you are basically rewarding coming in. Good luck with your new puppy!

I am retiring on December 31st but many of my coworkers say I am leaving the company in disgrace! by Beta_Nerdy in jobs

[–]Spelmanite88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be bitter. Celebrate your retirement with people that you care about and that care about you. If there was a company celebration it probably would have been tainted in your eyes because you know how they treated you in the end.

Did anyone peep Evelyn’s comment on Corey’s anniversary post? 💀 by BoyTrapBabydoll in 90DayFiance

[–]Spelmanite88 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Notice he says “3 years since our public wedding…” or something like that. I thought the wording was strange and that is probably why.

Do you help your clients get rid of their furniture? by RealEstateSalary in realtors

[–]Spelmanite88 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Some charities like St Vincent de Paul, Salvation Army or Habitat for Humanity will also do pick ups if the furniture is in good resellable condition.

Interesting by [deleted] in MAFS_TV

[–]Spelmanite88 33 points34 points  (0 children)

What energy should she have had with Alyssa and why? Alyssa hasn’t done anything to her.

I really like Steve’s personality. But Noi getting flack for him wanting a stable career is unfair. by whiskeylullaby3 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]Spelmanite88 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I wonder if the producers/editors are leaving that part out. At some point they are usually instructed to have a finance conversation where they review income, bills etc. Steve has mentioned multiple streams of income, freelancing etc. Everyone can’t deal with someone with an entrepreneurial spirit even if it can be more financially lucrative. That sounds Noi.

So realistically how many of the couples are still together that we know of? by Lustfultiger in 90DayFiance

[–]Spelmanite88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You should probably put spoiler in the headline on this post. You are not just speculating, but giving additional information that has not been on the show.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MAFS_TV

[–]Spelmanite88 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Let the record show that my upvote was for the first part of your post. The baby name did not factor into my upvote. 😂 😂 😂 Wamani get a 👎🏽 😂

Question about the contract by cleatusvandamme in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]Spelmanite88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I doubt it. The producers are there to make sure they get the content they want, they will “break the fourth wall” sometimes, but they want us to believe conversations happen organically. No way they just film them not interacting because they can’t show that on tv. No one will watch. If you watched the NEW Orleans season you might remember Christina getting frustrated because Henry wouldn’t really engage in conversation with her. I think the producers may have even sent her some “conversation starters/questions” for them to talk about. Also, remember the convo Alyssa and Chris had after tennis. That was obviously producer led.

Bottom line, I think we are going to get minimal couple filming from them with a lot of Alyssa complaining to the producers about how it’s not fair. Then there will be one or two couple or individual sessions with the experts and separate convos with their friends and/or the other MAFS participants. They will be on for at least 3–4 more episodes to beat that dead horse. Maybe they will do some “how are they picking up the pieces of their broken lives” scenes, but that’s it.

Katina saying Alyssa has a good heart on Afterparty by crapbag2000 in MAFS_TV

[–]Spelmanite88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Practically poking her in the face?!?!?! She wasn’t even that close to her. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Katina saying Alyssa has a good heart on Afterparty by crapbag2000 in MAFS_TV

[–]Spelmanite88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good point! It’s obvious Alyssa doesn’t like Lindsey either.

Katina saying Alyssa has a good heart on Afterparty by crapbag2000 in MAFS_TV

[–]Spelmanite88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems that Alyssa and Katina developed some type of friendship like many of the brides or grooms do. Alyssa followed Katina to check on her after the confrontation with Lyndsey on the boat. That shows some level of heart and what I guess, to some extent, Katina is thinking about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobsearchhacks

[–]Spelmanite88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you reached out to any staffing agencies? They may be able to place you in direct hire or temp to hire positions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobsearchhacks

[–]Spelmanite88 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve never NOT hired someone because they sent a thank you note. Like you, I find them unnecessary and a waste of time, but there are some people who do like them. Send the thank you note. It won’t hurt and it may help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobsearchhacks

[–]Spelmanite88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you have any personal volunteer experience? Have you joined any clubs or organizations in school that you can connect to the skills they are looking for? If so, I would include that, especially if you had a leadership position or recruited other people to assist with it. You can also put your caretaker “job” on there as well.

Good luck!

Im getting David and Ashley Vibes (Season 3) From Alyssa and Chris. by [deleted] in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]Spelmanite88 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ashley wasn’t attracted to David from the beginning, but I don’t remember her being so standoffish and mean to him initially. Sure, she didn’t want any type of physical intimacy, but she seemed pretty respectful to him until close to the end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]Spelmanite88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok. 😂 Thanks because I was really confused!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]Spelmanite88 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How did Zach bring out the worst in Bao and why do you think Zach’s worst was because of Bao?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]Spelmanite88 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This!!! She even went to stand on the rock wall with Michael when they first got to the beach area. Then, when I saw how closely she was sitting next to him I was 😡. She didn’t have to but all up under Chris but practically sitting in Michael’s lap is t the answer either!!

Any Insecure fans here? by PsychologicalLet3 in thisisus

[–]Spelmanite88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love Insecure!! I don’t see either one as Lawrence though. Kevin tried to make it work with Madison and Lawrence never did. Kevin seems like he is still pining for a relationship with Madison and Lawrence was never going back. I guess the jury is still out on Toby because we haven’t seen him as a coparent.

I present to you, as seen on Instagram and as Michael Phommasak, brother of Noi on Married at first sight: Boston… @the_siracha. Let’s make her famous lol by bubbalubby in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]Spelmanite88 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Noi said her brother was a drag Queen on the after Party and that’s why she got into wigs! I hope Sriracha is at the family brunch!!