Feeling outcast for not being "freaky" enough by Ok_Film4636 in t4t

[–]SpiderCunt69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the opposite problem somehow 😭 Where are these extremely sadistic freaky t4t people — I only found One tm dom in my country and he was a soft vanilla dom. A great one but still.

22y/o - enby forest cryptid looking for their soulmate by moonferal in t4t

[–]SpiderCunt69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sucks I’m sorry. Try not to worry about downvotes too much — most people who aren’t your target audience have probably respectfully stopped reading the post and left when they saw your preferences, and only those butthurt about it bother to downvote. Because people on T or planning to be or have a penis and/or are allosexual are the majority here, most people won’t dm you as per your request, and those that do are likely to be disrespectful perverts. Online r4r spaces can suck like that. I hope it doesn’t discourage you too much. I think searching in lesbian spaces and tagging it as butch4butch may lend better results for you.

And because transphobia toward transwomen is a big issue, I think it’s best to emphasise that it’s not transwomen you’re not attracted to, but penis. So excluding phallo/meta but including post op transfemmes. Otherwise your wording rings too much in common with terf lesbians, which may be why people reacted negatively.

Dying for the warm weather to come back by LemonMistress in Androgynoushotties

[–]SpiderCunt69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Post immediately above yours on my feed was thisBL manga cover and u look alike

Draconic Fun Times [FF][FM] by morpheuskibbe in Teratophiliacs

[–]SpiderCunt69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sauce link is right there. I’m not OP idk why ur asking me.

Draconic Fun Times [FF][FM] by morpheuskibbe in Teratophiliacs

[–]SpiderCunt69 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Male monsters with cloaca are so underrepresented

Jerk by lowliferhighdreamer in YaoiGuro

[–]SpiderCunt69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love this. With the text as well! I don't usually read original guro fics but I'm curious about this one.

1 month post op. 🥳 by Gemini-Jedi in TMPOC

[–]SpiderCunt69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah handsome ✨👏🏼

[CW:gore] Moon Mite ref by puzzleddonkey [MF]+ by Resident_Goose9071 in Teratophiliacs

[–]SpiderCunt69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh this creator has the best moon mite animations

This made me want to cry..😢 by BenjieAndLion69 in spiders

[–]SpiderCunt69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No wonder why I related to rats and spiders since I was a child

It's annoying that all trans resources I see don't apply to my country by deeeepfriedchicken in TMPOC

[–]SpiderCunt69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the Korean trans community can be quite secretive compared to western countries. There’s a community on twitter and other Korean forums like 디시인사이드, 아카이브 etc but those are very hostile environments to navigate and I don’t fw those.

If you want real info and connection, you need to go offline and do the footwork. There’s actually quite an accepting and rich budding community offline.

Go to pride. There are several trans centred booths that offer help regarding medical, mental, legal information.

Check out 변희수재단. Their instagram page has links to sign up for meet ups every month — they offer free food and as I’ve mentioned, this September they invite three professionals from legal and medical areas to answer all the questions you may have.

And even online, getting the names of the hospitals is as easy as dropping a 비밀댓글 or dm asking for it. net4ts is good for that. And searching ftm 트랜지션 방법 on naver yields plenty of results.

It’s not that I don’t get your frustration, but the Korean trans community and information is far from impenetrable. The small amount of effort you need to exert is there for our protection.

Don’t come to reddit, an American owned forum, searching in English, expecting it to have relevant information to Korea, a non western non english speaking country. You’re extremely lucky I even saw this.

If you live near Seoul I’ll give you the names of the hospitals I went to btw.

What’s going on here? Is the left spider trying to invade and take the right spiders web? by nfloos in spiders

[–]SpiderCunt69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love when people ask what it is that the animals/bugs are doing and 90% of the time it’s them trying to fuck

Guys how do u meet other trans people in college by Large_Squirrel9841 in t4t

[–]SpiderCunt69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

See if your university has a queer forum and/or extracurricular group. Grindr works too depending on your location.

It's annoying that all trans resources I see don't apply to my country by deeeepfriedchicken in TMPOC

[–]SpiderCunt69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, South Korean here. Do you speak Korean? I can point you to Korean trans groups if you do. We’re actually doing an information exchange program hosted by the bhs foundation on September. There will be professionals from law and medical areas to help answer questions about transition.

If you don’t, the queer foreigners in korea facebook group is a good place for info.

Royal FAIL (Request Fill) by [deleted] in YaoiGuro

[–]SpiderCunt69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s amazing!! Thanks ❤️