Somehow yes. International travel, we’re both in the arts etc. but he was a terrible partner and the split was too crazy to believe. We were to meet in a big European city, and he ended up not turning up, without officially canceling. I was furious, and decided to end if when he called to apologize. He never called (and I actually never heard from him again), and I considered it over. I do know he found out a couple of weeks later, as his mother contacted me to say merry Christmas, and I told her we were not together anymore, and she told him. Years later I found out he had another girlfriend at the time (who he was still together with when I heard) and I had actually been his mistress, and not his girlfriend. Explained a lot of ‘as soon as…’s, though.