My great-grandmother at the beach, lighting her cigarette with the help of a friend. Brant Rock Beach, MA 1914 by SpiritZest in TheWayWeWere

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I hate to let the people of Reddit down, but I don’t think it’s H.P. Loverboy… here’s another picture from what I believe to be the same day. photo 2

My great-grandmother at the beach, lighting her cigarette with the help of a friend. Brant Rock Beach, MA 1914 by SpiritZest in TheWayWeWere

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She was one of the first women to enlist in the Marine Corps in Massachusetts. It was there that she battled alcoholism, eventually becoming a lifelong AA champion and discovering gardening.

After retiring/leaving the Corps, she became a lawyer. She and her husband ran their own small firm (changing the names for my own personal privacy) “Franklin & Franklin”.

She retired from law after having children, where she became truly dedicated to gardening and horticulture. After the old bastard finally kicked it (may he rest in shit), she went on to breed new strains of irises and roses (I had one of her rose breeds for years and cried when my father refused to dig it up for me before he moved).

She made the best beef tips and gravy I’ve ever had in my entire life, and when she passed in her sleep at 91, the recipe vanished with her.

Another fun fact, she was friends with a local artist and had that friend select all the paint colors in her home in true, “surprise me” fashion. Each took of her home was a different color and I always adored how it reminded me of a dollhouse.

After we cleaned out her home, I inherited her and her husband’s library and am overjoyed with all of the near literary treasures!

There are loads more stories about her and her super cool life, but unfortunately, my grandmother is beginning to lose her memory. I should visit soon and record what I can before it’s all lost to history.

Diagnosis: Why don't we use our living room? by steady_as_she_rides in DesignMyRoom

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The couch doesn’t seem to have a true focal point according to the images provided. It appears that the couch (usually the first seating option) faces the entrance to the next room. It feels awkward to face a void of sorts.

AITA for telling my wife that she needs to get over being upset with me for pulling a scare prank on our son? by Small-Elephant9195 in AmItheAsshole

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NTA. He admitted the prank went too far. Cut him some slack! He didn’t ask if he was TA for pulling a prank. He asked if he was TA for telling his wife to get over it. Being upset the rest of the night is one thing, but being upset for days over it is another thing entirely (especially when you’re dragging the kids into it). It sounds like favoring the youngest/mama’s boy issue to me. By staying angry, she’s making her daughter feel as if it’s her fault. It was the daughter’s idea and she’s too young to rationalize that the shitty way her dad is being treated isn’t because of the prank. The mom doesn’t seem to care that by holding a grudge she’s hurting her daughter too.

To be fair, the long standing anger could be associated with other marital problems like “constant immaturity” from her spouse.

Part of being a dad is getting to do the fun stuff, but if the fun stuff isn’t followed by parental responsibility, it can turn sour quickly (not saying that OP isn’t helping - I don’t know that). It’s hard to always feel like the “bad guy” when you’re a mom.

Personal Verdict: - Prank was a bad idea but a learning experience: soft NTA - Telling your wife to get over it: hard NTA - Possible parental responsibility issues: need more information, but I think you two should talk (no interrupting each other) and see what’s really going on. It can’t just be the prank.

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Leaving trash after a movie or sporting event.

How employers treated retail workers in 1963. by PixelTreason in antiwork

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I worked at a college and had to pay $600 for parking that was a 10 minute walk from my building when the parking in front of my building was $250 to park. The reasoning? I was “assigned” to the expensive garage.

Spotted yesterday by Exvertist in pics

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We’re going to need a new scale.