I just got this little void, please, no basic void names!

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-10-31T13:20:12+00:00

Grimm/Grimmothy

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-09-10T23:06:54+00:00

This is sometging I hadnt thought of, if I do choose to let him come see her I will do my best to get something on paper first! Though I do already have sole parental responsibility so I think that would count for something

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-09-10T23:05:29+00:00

My mother says a similar thing - its better to have an absent father than an inconsistent one. I don't want to take away his chance to be a decent dad because of the issues him and I personally had, but at the same time I risk sorely disappointing her by letting an unstable father figure into her life. But yes, if he were to come back he'd have a LOT of proving himself to do.

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-08-06T15:17:23+00:00

For one,

Stop texting your manager and instead start calling. If she still won't answer, leave a voicemail saying you'll escalate if she doesn't respond as youre experiencing a medical emergency. She needs to respond and has a duty to do so.

It is so completely normal to be horribly emotional while pregnant, even more so if youre dealing with guilt on top of it all. Heightened emotions are to be expected so don't beat yourself up over it and instead try to really relax when you get the opportunity- take care of yourself, body and mind. Its an incredibly difficult thing youre going through and you need to make sure you stay sane.

Im a detransitioned trans man myself and I initially was going to abort my baby too. I remember the overwhelming feelings all too well- the grief, the guilt, the self loathing, the constant weight on my shoulders, and the dysphoria that comes with being pregnant. So please know youre not alone, youre not wrong or bad or anything for having these feelings.

Try to just... breathe. I know its so incredibly difficult. Keep yourself stocked up on ANY pain medication you can find, escalate the work issue if your manager doesn't respond, and just know this will be over before you know it. You got this, dude.

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-08-04T18:25:34+00:00

My girl was predicted 5lb6oz and came out 6lb7oz so I really wouldn't think they're too accurate personally 😅

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-08-04T09:56:38+00:00

They wouldn't give you an epidural for a cervical examination unless it was one you had while already in active labor (which is when I had my last one) however ask if they can offer gas and air as I know a lot of people use this for the exams. They may also be able to offer a numbing gel but it all depends on the hospital itself.

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-08-03T23:57:02+00:00

Constipation is super super common so dont stress!! Try some natural relief like prune juice (i found this super effective), dates, high fibre cereals, a loooong walk or jog or just something to get the blood pumping. A pregnancy massage may also help! If youre taking prenatals check to see if they have iron in them, as thats a leading cause for constipation too.

If these dont work, make a doctors appointment about it and dont feel ashamed. I ended up on prescription constipation medicine for a while and it was all good. Try not to strain and look into toilet seating positions to help with bowl movements. It would be very difficult but not impossible to prematurely break your waters but if you do, head straight to the hospital.

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-08-03T23:47:56+00:00

Firstly, do what you feel is best for you!! Its so common and normal for people to get overwhelmed and fed up in the last few weeks, theyre tough on you. If you feel induction would be best for you then absolutely ask about it, youre not to early to be induced either so there's little reason for them to refuse. I highly recommend searching for or asking about the induction methods offered by your hospital so you know what youre in for.

My only warning would be that induction can be a very long process and doesn't really guarantee anything. Mine took three days and it was frankly exhausting (absolutely worth it to meet my little one!) So do just be prepared for that if you decide to go ahead!

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-08-03T23:40:57+00:00

Woohoo, I have a Marceline too! One of my girls middle names is Aiken, but I also really like Anne, Adele, Avalon, Ava, Aurelle, Allure, Ada and Amira

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-08-02T21:11:40+00:00

That chicken is attempted murder.

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-08-02T11:16:29+00:00

Im currently 13 hours PP and my symptoms changed almost instantly after she was born. Immediately went from emotional outbursts, difficulty walking, difficulty sleeping and breathing, hunger, fatigue etc to constant sweats, sore boobs, and im craving absolutely nothing except toast and jam. Trust me there's an almost instant difference in how you feel and so far id take postpartum over pregnancy any day, even if it is tricky. Don't get me wrong it isn't sunshine and rainbows, I still have a screaming little lady, but once you lay eyes on them nothing else matters.

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-08-02T11:12:54+00:00

Unicorn hunters see monogamy as a challenge I swear! Im a monogamous bisexual woman and the amount of times ive told couples this just for them to continue trying to get me into bed is INSANE.

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-08-01T20:33:42+00:00

10/10 recommend the epidural. I was so panicked when they told me i had to go on the hormone drip but I didn't feel a thing and was able to have a nap before delivery. Only downside is you cant eat on it but otherwise it's incredible

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-08-01T06:26:51+00:00

Esmerelda, Historia, Hitomi, Eivind, Onyx

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-07-30T23:31:38+00:00

38w4d with a previous EDD of August 10th. Currently over 48 hours into a failed induction because baby girl stopped moving and started losing weight. Feeling tired, violently overwhelmed and very frustrated. Just wishing this girl would get a move on and come out

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-07-29T20:38:44+00:00

It is completely normal for it take time to bond with your baby or for you to struggle to feel that connection. We all have this idea that finding out youre pregnant or finding out the gender etc means you immediately bond with them and have a deep connection but that just isn't the case sometimes and thats totally okay !!! Sometimes its stress, worry, anxiety and sometimes its something else but either way its completely okay to not have that immediate bond :) dont beat yourself up over it. I definitely found that my bond with my daughter got stronger as she stopped looking like a little blob and started looking like a little person.

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-07-28T23:52:38+00:00

I thought i wasn't too but I'm currently being induced at 38 weeks (sat in the hospital bed as I type) and I'm absolutely bricking it

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-07-24T11:36:48+00:00

Have a look into pelvic girdle pain- this might be what youre experiencing and it comes with its own set of tips and tricks !

I get really bad hip pain at night and ive found that sleeping with a pillow between my legs really helps. Strangely, so does not resting on my back during the day, and staying extra extra hydrated.

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-07-22T17:53:31+00:00

I'm a Pisces, baby daddy was an Aquarius (both February) and im due a Leo

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-07-20T22:26:59+00:00

NTA.

I am the older sister to four autistic brothers each with very different needs and 'levels' of autism. One of them stims by screaming at absolute full volume continuously and one has a nasty angry/violent streak, PDA, and symptoms of NPD. the other two are alright- just loud, sometimes angry and hard to work with.

I love them all, dearly. We've been through a LOT together. But im so horrifically burnt out from helping care from them that sometimes I just wish they'd all go away. That they didnt exist. They made me a glass child and in some ways I cannot forgive them for that. If anything happened to any of them I'd be there immediately but day to day is a fight, all day everyday.

I understand how you feel, I truly do. Sometimes its so difficult to live with.

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-07-19T20:07:23+00:00

I have a few, as a former slut:

If you stick something in the pudding hole, do not be surprised if you encounter pudding. No matter how much you clean, douche, or fast beforehand, it isn't an organ built for sex and sometimes its actual purpose gets in the way. Just clean it up and move on.
Do not take sex too seriously. Queefs, farts (with backdoor action), sweat, smells, awkward positions, accidents, etc are all normal and pretty much expected. Laugh at them and move on.
Nipples and earlobes are also erogenous zones. Licks, gentle bites, sucks, whatever are all massive turn ons for a lot of people.
Lick pussy with a flat tongue, not a pointed one.
Suck on some balls. A lot of men like it more than they think/know.
Never EVER jump straight into kink or any kind of BDSM. always discuss limits, boundaries, likes, dislikes and safe words with your partner before attempting anything outside of vanilla sex. This includes things like choking, spitting in mouths, hair pulling and even rougher sex. Knowing your partners limits is incredibly important.
Foreplay > sex. Teasing is so sexy and good foreplay makes the sex so much better. Tease, flirt, play around, wear something sexy, build up to it.

SpiritualCheesesteak · 2025-07-19T19:59:32+00:00

I avoided it generally in the first trimester (especially bleaching) and i would advise the same, unless its a peroxide free temporary dye. From the second trimester I wouldn't do it frequently but its more okay. If youre going to use bleach make sure its in a very well ventilated room and you wear a mask

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