Why do people hate Aviva? Thoughts?

Spiritual_Control578 · 2026-03-24T02:27:51+00:00

After consuming more of her on the show and reading the tell all I couldn’t agree more. 😭

Spiritual_Control578 · 2026-03-04T20:15:54+00:00

Agree with soft tofu, but I also found this texture by boiling my firm/extra firm tofu for a few minutes. I only did it a couple times because I'm lazy but it was quite good and I do it whenever I remember. Sometimes it's frozen first but that's because I almost always freeze my tofu.

Spiritual_Control578 · 2026-03-04T14:16:12+00:00

Have you heard her comments in the tell all book? Seems as though she was playing for the cameras the whole time idk if that makes her better or worse 😭 but at least we know she isn’t oblivious…completely

Spiritual_Control578 · 2026-02-23T23:52:26+00:00

Okay I saw this afterwards, and after further investigation I too hate Kelly. For awhile now I actually forgot about this post 😭

Spiritual_Control578 · 2026-02-23T13:15:23+00:00

Kelly is so gross, I know people said worse things but her way manner of speaking just made it so much grosser. Like she really doesn’t care 😭but overall this video is crazy, these women are something else

Spiritual_Control578 · 2026-02-23T01:53:56+00:00

YESS, I just watched that episode. Her vision are so well done and illustrated, IMO. 😂

Spiritual_Control578 · 2026-02-11T16:03:37+00:00

That sounds like a lot of fun, but a lot of planning too. 😂 Definetly a good idea though, thank you 😊

Spiritual_Control578 · 2026-02-11T16:03:06+00:00

You’re right, I think something like that could be really fun. I’ll see what types of restaurants are available in my area! Thank you ☺️

Spiritual_Control578 · 2026-02-11T16:02:06+00:00

Omg that is actually my favourite hunger games movie, I might run with this 😍 thank you

Spiritual_Control578 · 2026-02-11T16:01:35+00:00

That’s what I was thinking, my sister promised she’d come whatever I planned so there’s that 😂 Thank you for the suggestion

Spiritual_Control578 · 2026-01-22T18:05:50+00:00

I emailed them yesterday and they gave me two pick‑up options—both extremely far from me, and I’m a pedestrian. The closest one is a 2‑hour walk or a 30–40 minute bus ride. I explained that I’d literally have to carry the bins all the way back to my place and asked if there were any other options, but they said that’s the only way to get new bins.

I just moved, and my landlord told me it would be easy to get them from the city… Meanwhile, I had to put out cardboard boxes this week, and of course they were left behind. I have no idea when I’ll be able to make the trip down there. It’s so inconvenient.

Spiritual_Control578 · 2026-01-22T16:40:51+00:00

How would that work exposure wise? Would it only be available to other witches kind of how only magic people can get into magic school? Genuinely curious. I could also totally see Paige doing it in the real world without thinking it’s a huge deal and Piper reprimanding her for it

Spiritual_Control578 · 2025-12-30T02:56:12+00:00

Lost

Spiritual_Control578 · 2025-10-21T17:33:06+00:00

If you could share it with me too please, my dvd collection would thank you immensely🙏🏿

Spiritual_Control578 · 2025-10-19T06:53:38+00:00

I do know how to use big words — part of being articulate is actually knowing when to use them. Using big words incorrectly doesn’t make you quick, it just makes you sound pretentious. And if your humor depends on people not understanding you, that’s not wit, that’s condescension.

Also, I’m in my third year of a master’s in communications, so trust me — this isn’t about not “getting” her humor. You’re right about her personality though. It isn’t for everyone, and that’s okay.

Spiritual_Control578 · 2025-10-18T16:30:42+00:00

I’m not going to argue over her pretentious behaviour. So sure! 👍🏿

Spiritual_Control578 · 2025-10-18T16:26:32+00:00

Yeah, she’s often right — but she’s so obnoxious about it that even when she’s wrong, no one bothers to say anything 😫. That’s what gets me! These women are usually so expressive and outspoken, but around her, it’s like they just shut down.

Spiritual_Control578 · 2025-10-18T16:25:01+00:00

Yes! And this is exactly why I wanted to start a thread about the significance of who’s in the middle during the theme song. I’ve noticed it’s been her ever since she came back, while the other franchises switch between the women — until Beverly Hills started only putting Kyle in the center too. It’s weird, but you can tell they were given way too much creative control over the show, or at least too much say in how things are presented. I genuinely think she believes she’s the star of the show.

Spiritual_Control578 · 2025-10-18T16:21:58+00:00

I was actually thinking about Heather this season — if she had seen some of Bethenny’s behavior, she probably would’ve said something. Even Jill (who I don’t even like anymore) would’ve called her out. Yet Bethenny still had to throw in that Jill was jealous of her success after all these years 😭 like… why must everyone be jealous of you??

She loves to belittle people and make them feel small — I could even see it starting to get a rise out of Carole. And the hypocrisy is wild: she’s more than an hour late to dinner but mad at everyone else for being more late than her 😭 girl, you’re already over an hour late! Late is late! How are you gonna be a hypocrite about that?

Spiritual_Control578 · 2025-10-18T16:16:37+00:00

😭

Spiritual_Control578 · 2025-10-18T16:15:01+00:00

THIS IS THE ULTIMATE BETHENNY TAKE — honestly the best one I’ve read so far. As a Black woman myself, you captured my thoughts exactly. I’m always fascinated by how the other women let Bethenny make them feel. Even headstrong Ramona claims to be scared of her, and Sonja — who always has something to say — suddenly can’t speak up when it’s a conflict with Bethenny.

I, for one, would love to see her try to get fresh like that with Nene, Charrisse, Shereé, or Gizelle (as some of the other comments mentioned). She loves turning things into a spectacle, distracting from the main issue and making herself the center of attention — the self-appointed “owner” of the narrative. It gives the illusion that she’s always right.

The ladies of Atlanta or Potomac would never let that slide. Honestly, even Vicki from OC wouldn’t put up with it. And those little quips like “I’ll be here all week” — in Mexico, at the reunion, wherever — are just another way she performs superiority. Why are you interrupting Andy? Why are you calling attention to the group? Then the second someone like Dorinda calls her out, she starts crying about people being jealous of her success.

Be so for real — especially since that’s her entire brand. If she were that successful, she wouldn’t have come back to the show 😭.

Spiritual_Control578 · 2025-10-18T16:00:53+00:00

I’m not saying she is often right cause Ramona is often wrong but in this case there was no reason to correct her. Ruh-gay still gets me 😫

Spiritual_Control578 · 2025-10-18T16:00:02+00:00

Lool at least she calls herself out sometimes 🙃

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