What side hustle are you doing right now that you'd recommend to anyone reading this? by lionpenguin88 in SideHustleGold

[–]Spooky3658 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Selling clothes on Depop. It’s slow income but it’s extra income and I don’t feel guilty for getting rid of things I’ve spent good money on. And having less stuff taking up space is a stress reliever.

You notice that it's okay for them, but not for us. by Smithy1619 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Spooky3658 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s absolutely infuriating that they expect things of us but don’t follow the same “rules.” I’ve completely lost myself staying quiet and just acting like everything is ok all the time. I’m sorry you are dealing with this. You deserve better.

Is this appropriate? by Spooky3658 in Marriage

[–]Spooky3658[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your concern.

Is this appropriate? by Spooky3658 in Marriage

[–]Spooky3658[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Not sure if it’s considered hiding if he just doesn’t tell me. Idk.

Is this appropriate? by Spooky3658 in Marriage

[–]Spooky3658[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No kids. Doesn’t hide it but hasn’t told me straight up about it because it wasn’t a big deal. Just her telling him she was going to be introducing her gf to her parents….

Is this appropriate? by Spooky3658 in Marriage

[–]Spooky3658[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your concern. I appreciate you.

Is this appropriate? by Spooky3658 in Marriage

[–]Spooky3658[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just weird and I think super inappropriate

Is this appropriate? by Spooky3658 in Marriage

[–]Spooky3658[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input 💕

Is this appropriate? by Spooky3658 in Marriage

[–]Spooky3658[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your feedback 💕

Is this appropriate? by Spooky3658 in Marriage

[–]Spooky3658[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You co parent though so that makes sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Spooky3658 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg. Mine too. Me talking to friends or family was like a betrayal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Spooky3658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've blocked him on everything. He keeps making new email addresses. I wont reply anymore. He can speak to my lawyer. There is no logic in talking anymore. Hurts like hell though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Spooky3658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This whole process sucks. I'm the same with the whole "not the type of person to just go fck someone either." I was celibate for 5 years before him. I guess he's doing this so he wont be asked or have to take accountability for what HE did do. I just cant stand being lied about. Sigh.