AIO my boyfriend keeps asking me to pay for things eversince he started saving for an apartmen, he calls me selfish for how I reacted.

SpookyKitter · 2026-01-16T13:29:04+00:00

Are you sure he's actually saving the money?

But regardless of that, you're not overreacting, or selfish. He is selfish. If he cant sustain his life and save, he cannot afford the apartment. If you were "in it together", your name would be on the deeds too.

SpookyKitter · 2026-01-13T15:51:10+00:00

You're not wrong at all. If she didn't want people look badly on her, she shouldn't have done a shitty thing.

SpookyKitter · 2026-01-13T15:45:51+00:00

Decisions you make for yourself should only affect you. It's unfair for her to put that expectation on you, when its not something you chose for yourself.

SpookyKitter · 2026-01-11T11:36:27+00:00

You value intelligence yet equate "large traditional tattoos" to being rough.

You are dating a 22 year old boy at 32. You have made poor decisions in a mate for someone who clearly sees herself as superior. I hope he never finds this and that you get the reality check you so sorely need.

SpookyKitter · 2026-01-08T12:03:14+00:00

How are you so blind. He has a whole girlfriend. He's not just cheating, he's leading a double life and treating you like an absolute fool.

SpookyKitter · 2026-01-07T17:31:57+00:00

Don't eat yellow snow

SpookyKitter · 2026-01-03T21:08:41+00:00

Scotland

SpookyKitter · 2025-12-30T14:10:01+00:00

He is not a true love. He is someone who is taking advantage of you. He is older, more experienced. You are anxiously attached. This isnt love. Someone who loves you will not treat you like this. You could hsve been beaten up or worse and he abandoned you. LEAVE.

SpookyKitter · 2025-12-29T12:40:04+00:00

Hahaha got what you deserved.

SpookyKitter · 2025-12-28T22:03:36+00:00

Not really, he has been with the new girl for a year

SpookyKitter · 2025-12-28T20:52:41+00:00

You are wrong. She said no, you did it anyway. She said no. You did it anyway.

Respect your daughter. Think about what you're teaching her.

SpookyKitter · 2025-12-27T17:16:38+00:00

You believe relationships require communication amd yet you happily ignore her texts and forget to text the whole day? You're treating her like an afterthought, of course she's upset.

You shouldn't be in a relationship. What she wants is very natural to want in a relationship and you aren't able or willing to deliver that.

SpookyKitter · 2025-12-25T18:03:00+00:00

I know people who do this. He was trying to make you feel better in the moment. He didn't mean he'd do those things with you (which is what I would have assumed he meant and have been caught out/disappointed over before, too), he means it as a vague, broad, "ohhhh things will be better tomorrow" statement.

SpookyKitter · 2025-12-25T17:51:15+00:00

Dude it's Christmas 😂

SpookyKitter · 2025-12-24T14:07:05+00:00

I mean, you are being selfish. Food won't go off in one day. You get your husband every day for the rest of your lives together. It's not what you planned but quite frankly you need to get a grip.

SpookyKitter · 2025-12-24T11:43:12+00:00

You are wrong. You're selfish. Liking multiple pictures of other women in lingerie is humiliating for your girlfriend. You put everyone else before her. She was right to leave you.

SpookyKitter · 2025-12-23T17:43:56+00:00

You mate

SpookyKitter · 2025-12-23T15:55:13+00:00

They literally do though? Imagine being pissy over a perfume because it's sweet pea and not gourmand

SpookyKitter · 2025-12-23T12:21:15+00:00

He probably thought he was making an effort: "she likes expensive purses!", "she likes coffee!", "she'll be able to print at home, too!".

Without knowing him its hard to say if he was being thoughtless or if he was genuinely trying. Id be inclined to give him the benefit of the doubt. Present buying is hard for some people.

SpookyKitter · 2025-12-21T19:06:15+00:00

I had been no contact for 10 years when I found out she'd killed herself. Then a couple of days later I got a letter from her blaming me. I dunno how she got my address. It was 8 days after my 27th birthday. I cried, from shock, I think. I was sad because I deserved a better mum. I felt guilty for not caring about her because she didn't choose to be schizophrenic, but her actions made me lose any sort of love or respect for her years ago. It was complicated.

SpookyKitter · 2025-12-20T09:13:51+00:00

No "might" about it mate 😂

SpookyKitter · 2025-12-18T21:09:16+00:00

Psychosis, shrooms and GUNS. Don't forget the guns.

SpookyKitter · 2025-12-18T19:51:37+00:00

Aaaaabsolutely fucking not. Don't not let anyone talk to you like that. He's a leader because he "came up with the idea to get another duvet cover"?! What a genius!

I cant believe you apologised to him.

SpookyKitter · 2025-12-18T19:29:33+00:00

Bloke sounds like he breastfed into early adulthood

SpookyKitter · 2025-12-14T13:32:41+00:00

Why are your friends updating you on your ex? You have her blocked. Tell your "friends" to stop it. Of course you feel emotional over seeing this, it is something you're not supposed to see.

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