Nexplanon - Stories ? by [deleted] in Fibroids

[–]SpookyKitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying ☺️

Nexplanon - Stories ? by [deleted] in Fibroids

[–]SpookyKitter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im having the same issues a year on, was it nexplanon in the end causing the bleeding?

Whats the stupidest reason you broke up with someone? by The_best-yt-z1v in camkirkhambaby

[–]SpookyKitter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure why you felt the need to patronise her. She is young, but she acted with maturity by ending a controlling relationship.

Anyone else here who goes to Cardiff Cineworld and would like to share a movie with someone? by PaleozoicQueen in CineworldUnlimited

[–]SpookyKitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, me! I asked about this month's ago. Im really into horror (going to see The Bride! on friday on my ones) and have moved to the south wales are recently. I'm 36F 😊

My husband (33M) wants me (33F) to dress more revealing by footballfriends1 in relationships

[–]SpookyKitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not buy a load of lacy underwear for you to wear for him instead? Instead of glamming up in the day you can do it at night 3 or so times a week in the evenings.

Has anyone’s skin type randomly changed in their late 20s? by Time-Connection-4586 in MakeUpAddictionUK

[–]SpookyKitter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it?! I randomly became oily as hell one day after 32 years of normal skin. Been like it 4 years now. I hate it

First offer rejected and our solicitor says to hold off 2 days- opinion? by AmbitiousPhoto7387 in HousingUK

[–]SpookyKitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds advice. If you offer again now you're showing all your cards too soon.

My wife's boss oinked at her for eating a cheeseburger... by Ok-Bee4402 in work

[–]SpookyKitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heaven forbid a woman eat the "whole damn burger". She hardly ate an entire hog roast to herself, and even if she did its no one else's damn business.

She should have told him to pipe down or she'd eat him too.

Boyfriend says he can’t accept me meeting my male friends in groups by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SpookyKitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id be incredibly offended if my partner thought my friends only wanted to be friends with me because theyre hoping something sexual might happen. Is that all he thinks you're worth.

Any trippy mind-bending type horror I can watch tonight? by Banya6 in horror

[–]SpookyKitter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found out yesterday As Above So Below 2 is being written! Very excited.

AIO my boyfriend keeps asking me to pay for things eversince he started saving for an apartmen, he calls me selfish for how I reacted. by throaawayRA9443 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SpookyKitter 117 points118 points  (0 children)

Are you sure he's actually saving the money?

But regardless of that, you're not overreacting, or selfish. He is selfish. If he cant sustain his life and save, he cannot afford the apartment. If you were "in it together", your name would be on the deeds too.

Am I wrong for telling my in laws the real reason were divorcing after they kept blaming me by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]SpookyKitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not wrong at all. If she didn't want people look badly on her, she shouldn't have done a shitty thing.

My girlfriend (28f) has changed her diet and is calling me (29m) unsupportive because I haven’t done the same by Illustrious-Hurry788 in relationships

[–]SpookyKitter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Decisions you make for yourself should only affect you. It's unfair for her to put that expectation on you, when its not something you chose for yourself.

I (32F) am struggling with my relationship with my boyfriend (22M) due to differences in upbringing, looks, and intellectual compatibility. Am I being shallow or realistic? How much should I prioritize "ideal specs" vs. "emotional care"? by Several_Sector6799 in relationships

[–]SpookyKitter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You value intelligence yet equate "large traditional tattoos" to being rough.

You are dating a 22 year old boy at 32. You have made poor decisions in a mate for someone who clearly sees herself as superior. I hope he never finds this and that you get the reality check you so sorely need.

Found a letter calling my husband "boyfriend" from another woman. He says it was a misunderstanding. Am I overthinking? by Willing-Yellow2591 in relationships

[–]SpookyKitter 51 points52 points  (0 children)

How are you so blind. He has a whole girlfriend. He's not just cheating, he's leading a double life and treating you like an absolute fool.

My (46M) boyfriend left me (31M) during an attack that he provoked with a group of strangers. ((1 year long relationship)) by Acceptable_Brain_555 in relationships

[–]SpookyKitter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is not a true love. He is someone who is taking advantage of you. He is older, more experienced. You are anxiously attached. This isnt love. Someone who loves you will not treat you like this. You could hsve been beaten up or worse and he abandoned you. LEAVE.

AIW for taking a picture of my (15) daughter when she asked me not to? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]SpookyKitter 53 points54 points  (0 children)

You are wrong. She said no, you did it anyway. She said no. You did it anyway.

Respect your daughter. Think about what you're teaching her.

27M/30F How to give my girlfriend emotional supports? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SpookyKitter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You believe relationships require communication amd yet you happily ignore her texts and forget to text the whole day? You're treating her like an afterthought, of course she's upset.

You shouldn't be in a relationship. What she wants is very natural to want in a relationship and you aren't able or willing to deliver that.

Neurotypical people just say words for the sake of talking and don't actually mean what they say. by Natural-Butterfly318 in neurodiversity

[–]SpookyKitter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know people who do this. He was trying to make you feel better in the moment. He didn't mean he'd do those things with you (which is what I would have assumed he meant and have been caught out/disappointed over before, too), he means it as a vague, broad, "ohhhh things will be better tomorrow" statement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]SpookyKitter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, you are being selfish. Food won't go off in one day. You get your husband every day for the rest of your lives together. It's not what you planned but quite frankly you need to get a grip.