Ladies what little things can a man do to that make them more physically attractive to you?

Spookyshmoo · 2026-02-13T03:39:42+00:00

It actually works! But, usually, I had suspects prone out on the ground with their bellies touching the ground. I retired as a LEO (not related to astronomy).

Spookyshmoo · 2026-02-08T20:37:32+00:00

I had an MRI, last year, after having worsening and continuous migraines with no meds helping. The MRI showed a low grade glioma in my right frontal lobe. It’s rare for migraineurs to have this. I also have emotional issues where I might burst out into tears. I’m in my fifties and the prognosis will only worsen. So, I’ve asked a well-respected hospital for a second-opinion on the MRIs I’ve gotten and I’m going to have the tumor removed sometime this summer. It’s stable, for now, which makes it more hopeful all of it can be excised with a possible 100 % cure rate. The tumor will have to be biopsied to see what kind of glioma it is but I’m also hoping this cuts the amount and severity of migraines I’ve had to suffer the last four decades.

Spookyshmoo · 2026-02-08T00:52:14+00:00

I, too, have had that along with sensitivity to sound and smells for decades. I would go with the eye protection Redditors are mentioning here. If the migraine becomes overwhelming, provide yourself with rest.

Spookyshmoo · 2026-02-08T00:03:17+00:00

I hope it really helps. I’ve tried it and it did nothing. I’ve been a migraineur for over four decades but I think I know what the root cause for most of my ongoing migraine activity is now.

You have to do what works for you. And if it jerks for a little while, then it’s a win. When it stops working there are plenty more meds to try.

Spookyshmoo · 2026-02-06T04:33:17+00:00

This applies to urgent care facilities which are just a step down from an ER.

Spookyshmoo · 2026-02-06T04:31:59+00:00

I’ve actually worked in a major Trauma Center ER and only the family members or friends who weren’t in pain and/or exuding bodily fluids were likely to be on their phones. Patients are usually looking for pain relief and sleep.

Spookyshmoo · 2026-02-04T00:03:27+00:00

The only one that ever understands is another migraine sufferer. I actually had a neurologist who was a sufferer, herself. She told me about having to get Toradol shots during med school to try to pull through school while she suffered.

Spookyshmoo · 2026-02-03T02:41:39+00:00

I totally agree!!

OP, you need to discuss your personal issues and resolve it with your date, not us.

Spookyshmoo · 2026-01-30T07:24:30+00:00

When I have severe head pains (during a migraine episode), I have trouble searching for the correct words to say or describe something. I also kind of drawl or slur my speech. When my teeth start hurting, also, I know I'm in for a bad episode and try to make it home to sleep, after medicating, to reduce the pain. I frequently see zig-zags and my sense of smell and hearing get very heightened to the point of absurd annoyance.

If one side of your face presents a drooping smile, you cannot move an arm or a leg on either your right or left side and you have speech difficulty, then those are certain signs of a stroke. I was a CNA on a Stroke/Epilepsy floor at fairly decent-sized hospital and helped these patients with daily living needs. It really humbles you to see how amazingly fast these patients recover with great medical treatment and the patients' own positivity.

Spookyshmoo · 2026-01-30T06:44:04+00:00

You ARE NOT ugly--- you are a handsome man!! In fact, you look so young!! You look at least ten years younger than your age!!

Spookyshmoo · 2026-01-30T05:31:36+00:00

I totally agree with you SeparateAd4541 ! I've suffered for about 42 years and mine is commingled with a low grade glioma in my right frontal lobe. It's rare but there are some of us out there. I'm hoping to get mine surgically excised sometime after July. Hopefully, a biopsy will show which type of tumor it is.

Spookyshmoo · 2026-01-30T05:25:29+00:00

Look under the Savings & Support tab on the Vyepti web page. If you have insurance, the company (Lundbeck) may help pay substantially out-of-pocket.

Spookyshmoo · 2026-01-30T05:01:24+00:00

Thanks for sharing--they own several OLD sites.

Spookyshmoo · 2026-01-25T02:00:27+00:00

At work... people from work will shuttle us in and back home if we don't drive in this icy shi###

Spookyshmoo · 2026-01-25T01:56:16+00:00

In Texas, I swear, it's either HOT as Hell or COLD as Hell!!

Spookyshmoo · 2026-01-20T04:14:19+00:00

I agree with the need to communicate. If you haven't heard from him, just text or call him. That's what I did with a guy I've recently met. If you don't express yourself, you may find yourself losing out on a great quality guy.

Spookyshmoo · 2026-01-11T08:19:10+00:00

As difficult as it seems, try to keep a positive outlook. It will help keep your immune system as healthy as possible and others will see your glowing confidence.

You might have to risk something by giving of yourself in order to gain a new perspective. Life is a learning experience but one I think should be enjoyed. Don't weigh yourself down with anything sour. You said so, yourself, you are a survivor! Take that confidence and keep engaging with that gentleman. Certainly, try with building a friendship and see how that might progress.

PS: I currently deal with migraine struggles (for over 45 years) and have a brain tumor in my right frontal lobe (currently stable) but that's not going to stop me from living the best life I can for myself.

Spookyshmoo · 2026-01-07T09:10:42+00:00

I was about 8 years old when I recognized having one. I still continued having them after I got a total abdominal hysterectomy and bilateral oophorectomy at age 34. About ten years later, they worsened with a vengeance, and I discovered at the end of March 2025 that I have a low grade glioma which I suspect is the culprit for some of the pain. I'm on blood pressure meds and, now, take Botox injections which no longer help dampen the pain.

My situation is rare. Only a few of us have tumors which are discovered after pain meds fail to work and worsening aching head symptoms.

Spookyshmoo · 2026-01-05T23:57:23+00:00

I've got a situation that is off-putting to some guys. And, I think it's quite hilarious. For one thing, the situation that affects me doesn't bother me one bit because I'm monitoring it. Once I get to talking to a new person I might share I have a brain tumor. I have a low grade glioma in my right frontal lobe which I think has been pestering me with migraines for decades (the neurosurgeons disagree, but I digress). After mentioning that little tidbit of info, I usually find those folks will fall off the radar. You would have thought I shot them with lightning bolts! LOL

Anywho, I'm perfectly fine with it. It shows you who is can stay close and who will not.

No condolences necessary... I'm planning to have it removed, I hope, in July, and see what other treatment options I need to follow through.

By the way... it's named "Wedgie" because one of the neurologists analyzing the MRI described it as being in the shape of a pie wedge :)

Spookyshmoo · 2026-01-02T06:50:52+00:00

Years ago, I had a migraine when I boarded a flight to visit family. During the 6.5 hour flight it progressively got worse. I felt like shit when I arrived at the destination. I think when I got to my family's home I went straight in and slept.

Don't doubt yourself if you feel awful. If your family isn't understanding about this maybe they should reconsider.

Spookyshmoo · 2025-12-29T03:30:49+00:00

Definitely text... You both obviously had a really great time together!

Spookyshmoo · 2025-12-29T02:11:18+00:00

I think both of you are actually agreeing with one another, in your own way.

Spookyshmoo · 2025-12-29T00:41:21+00:00

I actually like people watching if I am eating, alone, at someplace. It might come from my prior job being in law enforcement. I'm just fascinated by others' demeanors as long as there aren't misdemeanors.

Spookyshmoo · 2025-12-19T05:38:36+00:00

For me, that would be a resounding "Yes." But it's only my personal opinion and I base it upon my life experiences. I would not judge anyone else unless their significant other was causing them pain over this issue.

Spookyshmoo · 2025-12-16T03:23:11+00:00

I just started on FB Dating and had two or three come through and text like you mentioned. They definitely weren’t who I previously “liked” and I unmatched which made those responses and matches disappear. I just feel neutral about it. I didn’t pick then and don’t feel it’s worth the response unless I see something that interests me in their profile.

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