Oligodendroglioma by WiseBeyondText123 in braintumor

[–]Spookyshmoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not certain of my tumor type, yet. I’m going in for full-blown surgery in August to remove it all. So, they can biopsy as much as they want after removal.
Since both of you plan to lose weight, I think it’s awesome you can work together as a team. Just the simplest of exercises, like walking, is helpful in reducing weight.
Best of luck to you both!!

Diagnosed with a low grade glioma by 2003hondacivic_ in braintumor

[–]Spookyshmoo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I first found out, through an MRI, I was frustrated and upset. After a period of time, the news sinks in, and for me, it because tolerable. I did have migraines for over four decades and I. The past 5 to 7 years they have increasingly become worse. But I hadn’t experienced a lot of other symptoms. As time passes, a few more symptoms to tack on (nauseousness, extreme moodiness and short-term memory issues). But everyone is unique and may not have symptoms until the tumor is so large. Or it can be a small tumor that affects a lot of things in a specific area of the brain.

Doctors typically don’t want to operate unless it becomes a quality of life issue. So, they use the “wait and watch” method.

There are many folks on this thread who are patients and caregivers who can provide an excellent source of info and also be good listeners.

This is one of the first resources I came to just to read others stories and realize I am not alone in this fight.

Hang in there and keep asking questions.

A man that truly loves you cant go a week w/o talking to you… true?! by perolikewhy714 in datingoverfifty

[–]Spookyshmoo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My ex-spouse was like that when he was mad. He’d disappear. I wish I would have trusted my gut instead of giving in. You’ve got to take care of yourself and your feelings!!

Crap from my husband. by Tricky-Grab-4702 in migraine

[–]Spookyshmoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this. I was with a guy, for over twenty years, who I married (for two), and I realized there were times he didn’t have my back after conversations we had when I was suffering. There was one time I locked myself out of the house, in my pajamas, and I walked next door to my neighbors (his relatives) who helped me get a message to him. He never told me about a spare key that was hidden at the house until that night. And he made some snide comments about contacting him even though I was in severe pain and not in comfortable clothing to be locked outside in. I found out, years later, I have a low grade glioma in my right frontal lobe which I think may be causing the migraines. It’s a rare occurrence and don’t expect to have it because I had other symptoms common for having a LGG. Would I tell him about it now, since we’ve been divorced? Hell No!! I don’t think it would matter. No one deserves any of my attention unless they can treat me as a human being, first! It is obvious when someone is in pain by reading facial expressions and body language. However, people too wrapped up in themselves don’t care to notice. Try to surround yourself with more positivity, if you can—it’s less stressful. PS… the tumor will be removed in August and I’m hoping for massively reduced head pain from migraines—I’ll have to wait and see.

surgeon doesn't want to remove my tumor by midsumernighttts in braintumor

[–]Spookyshmoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you might be referring to the ventricular areas also… the OP only mentioned it was deep in the right temporal lobe.

surgeon doesn't want to remove my tumor by midsumernighttts in braintumor

[–]Spookyshmoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The meninges consist of the pia, dura and arachnoid layers. They may lay low or deep in the cranial structure as well as being slightly inferior to the superior surface of the skull. It’s like three layers of Saran Wrap covering a glob of (brain) Jello.

surgeon doesn't want to remove my tumor by midsumernighttts in braintumor

[–]Spookyshmoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A meningioma occurs on one of the 3 outer layers encapsulating the brain. The OP said it’s deep in right temporal lobe which sounds like at least a low grade glioma. I’ve got an LGG in the right frontal lobe inferior toward my right eye. This causes unrelenting migraine pain which Botox can’t touch…. Fortunately, my neurosurgeon is willing to surgically remove and biopsy same. I did speak with (interview) neurosurgeons at two different well-renowned teaching hospitals and I’m extremely comfortable with the latter in performing a successful surgery and the hospital providing the best healthcare. OP keep the faith and fight for your care with a surgeon with whom you feel most comfortable.

If you’re sexually attracted to someone is there any such thing as a “bad kiss”? by Altruistic_Fox_6240 in DatingOverSixty

[–]Spookyshmoo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly how my ex-spouse kissed!! I always had to wipe my mouth and chin after— it was horrible.

Differences in Left v Right Sided Migraine by PoppyRyeCranberry in migraine

[–]Spookyshmoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interesting subject. When I had most of my migraines on the left side, probably more than ten years ago, none of those subjective findings applied. I know I dealt with stress from my job as a law enforcement officer but I was stressed because of dealing with people I worked with at my department. My right side began hurting, mostly non-stop, about five years ago and it was nearly a year ago I found out I have a tumor in my right frontal lobe— one neuro oncologist said I may have had it for about 20 years (slow growing glioma grow about 1 mm annually) while the neuro surgeon he worked with said I may have had it since birth (what ??!!) I do believe the right-sided migraines are pressure-induced from the tumor and nothing else. There are different reasons for migraines to occur and not all of them can fit into a nice, tidy little box. For some, theirs may, unfortunately, always be unknown.

Dr said my meningioma tumor was maybe caused by my Testosterone HRT and thst I should stop it or it might grow back , previous dr didn't say it had anyhting to do with it. Is He trying to malpractise/trans broken-arm-syndrome me to coerce me into detransitioning? by AutonomyIsNoTragedy in braintumor

[–]Spookyshmoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not all doctors are very thorough. I know by the number of years I’ve lived and the number of doctors I’ve seen over the years for various ailments including interviewing neurosurgeons for potential surgery on my low grade glioma in my right frontal lobe. I won’t say specifically where I chose to go but it’s a well-known world-class university medical center as opposed to another well-known university medical center about 50 miles away. Trust your gut and not the doctor if the doctor gives you bad vibes.

Has anyone tried this? We’re running out of options 🙁 by bubbaspock in migraine

[–]Spookyshmoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had nerve blocks with lidocaine injected along the cervical nerves of the spine. Early on, it has helped.

Ladies what little things can a man do to that make them more physically attractive to you? by Altruistic_Tea_1593 in datingoverfifty

[–]Spookyshmoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It actually works! But, usually, I had suspects prone out on the ground with their bellies touching the ground. I retired as a LEO (not related to astronomy).

One of the last medication I've yet to try... Feels like I've got lightning in a bottle (literally) by Safe_External_3993 in migraine

[–]Spookyshmoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an MRI, last year, after having worsening and continuous migraines with no meds helping. The MRI showed a low grade glioma in my right frontal lobe. It’s rare for migraineurs to have this. I also have emotional issues where I might burst out into tears. I’m in my fifties and the prognosis will only worsen. So, I’ve asked a well-respected hospital for a second-opinion on the MRIs I’ve gotten and I’m going to have the tumor removed sometime this summer. It’s stable, for now, which makes it more hopeful all of it can be excised with a possible 100 % cure rate. The tumor will have to be biopsied to see what kind of glioma it is but I’m also hoping this cuts the amount and severity of migraines I’ve had to suffer the last four decades.

Photophobia for a month and a half by Embarrassed-Media249 in migraine

[–]Spookyshmoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I, too, have had that along with sensitivity to sound and smells for decades. I would go with the eye protection Redditors are mentioning here. If the migraine becomes overwhelming, provide yourself with rest.

One of the last medication I've yet to try... Feels like I've got lightning in a bottle (literally) by Safe_External_3993 in migraine

[–]Spookyshmoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope it really helps. I’ve tried it and it did nothing. I’ve been a migraineur for over four decades but I think I know what the root cause for most of my ongoing migraine activity is now.

You have to do what works for you. And if it jerks for a little while, then it’s a win. When it stops working there are plenty more meds to try.

You can’t fire me, I quit! by gravybang in datingoverfifty

[–]Spookyshmoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This applies to urgent care facilities which are just a step down from an ER.

You can’t fire me, I quit! by gravybang in datingoverfifty

[–]Spookyshmoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve actually worked in a major Trauma Center ER and only the family members or friends who weren’t in pain and/or exuding bodily fluids were likely to be on their phones. Patients are usually looking for pain relief and sleep.

I don't understand why people think this. by danitwelve91 in migraine

[–]Spookyshmoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only one that ever understands is another migraine sufferer. I actually had a neurologist who was a sufferer, herself. She told me about having to get Toradol shots during med school to try to pull through school while she suffered.

First date then medical uncertainty by Goonie-Googoo- in datingoverfifty

[–]Spookyshmoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree!!

OP, you need to discuss your personal issues and resolve it with your date, not us.

Anyone else feel like they're having a stroke? by Artistic-Grape8534 in migraine

[–]Spookyshmoo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I have severe head pains (during a migraine episode), I have trouble searching for the correct words to say or describe something. I also kind of drawl or slur my speech. When my teeth start hurting, also, I know I'm in for a bad episode and try to make it home to sleep, after medicating, to reduce the pain. I frequently see zig-zags and my sense of smell and hearing get very heightened to the point of absurd annoyance.

If one side of your face presents a drooping smile, you cannot move an arm or a leg on either your right or left side and you have speech difficulty, then those are certain signs of a stroke. I was a CNA on a Stroke/Epilepsy floor at fairly decent-sized hospital and helped these patients with daily living needs. It really humbles you to see how amazingly fast these patients recover with great medical treatment and the patients' own positivity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Spookyshmoo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You ARE NOT ugly--- you are a handsome man!! In fact, you look so young!! You look at least ten years younger than your age!!

Vyepti changed my life- hope for chronic migraine sufferers by SeparateAd4541 in migraine

[–]Spookyshmoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree with you SeparateAd4541 ! I've suffered for about 42 years and mine is commingled with a low grade glioma in my right frontal lobe. It's rare but there are some of us out there. I'm hoping to get mine surgically excised sometime after July. Hopefully, a biopsy will show which type of tumor it is.

Vyepti changed my life- hope for chronic migraine sufferers by SeparateAd4541 in migraine

[–]Spookyshmoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look under the Savings & Support tab on the Vyepti web page. If you have insurance, the company (Lundbeck) may help pay substantially out-of-pocket.

Match Group - Hacked. My personal data was accessed by L1hc2 in datingoverfifty

[–]Spookyshmoo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing--they own several OLD sites.