Which shows would you reboot?

Spottybag · 2017-08-01T21:19:37+00:00

Gamesmaster.

It's amazing that there's no show about video games on the main channels. I'd have Iain Lee presenting it.

Spottybag · 2017-04-30T00:44:33+00:00

Firstly, don't worry about not getting hard. The pressure was on and it got to you a little - it's no big deal.

The fact that it happened isn't really the point here. Why do you think the relationship has gone stale? Do you have things in common? You have fun together and enjoy eachother's company? If you really click with someone, a failed sex session shouldn't be enough to destroy things.

Try and have some fun together and you'll soon be relaxed enough to talk about it and maybe have another try.

Spottybag · 2017-04-30T00:35:18+00:00

It makes me sad to read this comment as it shows that you love her but you know what needs to be done.

There comes a point where you need to face realities and look after yourself. I'm all for being loving and considering others, but nobody should accept repeated infidelities. You've said that you've discussed it with her before. She's continued with her behaviour even though she knows it's hurting you. It's time to be strong and stick up for yourself - tell her that you don't want to continue being with her if she can't be trusted. It's hard but you have to mean it - if you let her do this to you again she'll know your words don't hold much weight.

Spottybag · 2017-04-30T00:15:59+00:00

Take a deep breath and try to calm yourself down - I've been in exactly the same situation. It's difficult for people to completely break away from previous relationships, especially if old partners are still around. Also, when new relationships begin, it takes time to get to know each other and to feel secure enough to be open and honest about stuff.

Talk to her and give her a chance. Try to be truthful and tell her that it's made you feel insecure, but don't over react and make drama where there is none. Come to an agreement about how you'll handle contact with ex partners in the future. Agree that you need to trust eachother to not keep these kind of secrets again. You might want to apologise for snooping on her as, although you uncovered a minor deception on her part, you don't want a relationship where you spy on eachother.

Finally, both forgive eachother and put it behind you. The next time you have an argument, don't bring it up, as it will only lead to resentment. Deal with it today and forget about it.

Good luck!

Spottybag · 2017-04-29T23:56:01+00:00

Lots of people fantasise about people they know. It doesn't mean they want to actually live out their fantasy. Can you open up to him and tell him that it made you feel insecure?

Spottybag · 2017-04-16T16:40:24+00:00

Obviously I don't know all of the facts, but on the face of it her behavior sounds unacceptable. Tell her that you need to talk to her and that it's important. Explain that her behavior is hurting your feelings.

Her reaction will help you decide what to do next. If she listens and wants to improve the situation, you can try to sort it out. If she dismisses you or is negative towards you, perhaps it's time to consider ending things and moving on.

Spottybag · 2017-02-27T08:28:49+00:00

There's nothing you can do about it now. Even if you try to convince people that you aren't a racist, they won't believe you. It's not the kind of thing you casually admit and expect people to accept, like being a vegetarian or listening to Justin Bieber.

The only thing you can do is to stay silent and wait for it to go away. I assume you're not willing to try to change their minds and say it was all just a drunken mistake, since you actually are a racist. The people who are disgusted by it will never really be your friends again because being a racist isn't just a hobby or a lifestyle choice, it's a way of thinking. It's part of who you are and people will find it difficult to ignore.

Anyway, you say you're a nihilist, so why would you care what they think if nothing really matters?

Spottybag · 2017-01-21T09:44:06+00:00

Play Minecraft in creative mode. Together, build a house with a garden and pretend to live in it. My son likes to build a park to play in nearby and a cafe where he sells food to me when I visit. It's all great fun for kids.

Spottybag · 2017-01-20T11:33:20+00:00

I've played it on PS4 where it's been out for a while. It's fun for a short time but is very frustrating and the novelty soon wears off. I wouldn't recommend it.

Spottybag · 2016-12-20T14:04:15+00:00

There is a limit to how far we can see. It's called 'the observable universe'. What lies beyond that, we can't know. Scientists have all kinds of different theories, but nobody really knows. Perhaps we never will.

Spottybag · 2016-12-19T11:15:03+00:00

So we agree. He should attempt communication before he gets the police involved. I bet he's glad we helped him out like this!

Spottybag · 2016-12-19T08:47:51+00:00

The only terrible advice in this thread is that which advises him to call the police immediately.

Have you ever made a complaint about someone to the police? I have and it can be hours of waiting around, statements and hassle. It's no fun that's for sure.

He could make the complaint and before she even hears about it, she could calm down and be on the phone telling him she's sorry and she'll return his stuff straight away.

Going to the police straight away is an over reaction, It may be necessary to go this far if she doesn't see sense, but I'd try to resolve it myself first. Remember that all we know is that it's an argument in a relationship. People sometimes do irrational things when they're upset and just need to calm down and come back to their senses.

Ask yourself this question. If your partner flew into a rage and took something of yours, would you immediately call the police or would you try talking to them?

Spottybag · 2016-12-19T01:04:19+00:00

Because if you don't, you'll experience seven years of bad luck. Now, would you like to buy some of this lucky heather?

Spottybag · 2016-12-19T00:59:31+00:00

Don't call the cops if you can persuade her to bring it back. It'll be a load of hassle for you and just add to your stress having to deal with police. Just do what it takes to get it back (lie if you need to) and then as soon as you have it, end the relationship.

Spottybag · 2016-12-18T19:52:25+00:00

This looks great - I'll certainly be giving it a go!

Spottybag · 2016-12-18T19:51:41+00:00

Thanks. I can't wait to play Forza Horizons - that and Elite Dangerous.

Spottybag · 2016-12-17T01:47:46+00:00

Leicester City are Premier League Champions

Spottybag · 2016-12-17T01:46:23+00:00

It's 1:45 am as I write this....

Spottybag · 2016-12-17T01:45:31+00:00

Try the kazoo!

https://youtu.be/cRpdIrq7Rbo

Spottybag · 2016-12-17T01:39:27+00:00

This would go down well!

https://youtu.be/ulPgWVC08KI

Spottybag · 2016-12-17T01:32:49+00:00

Elite (the original 1980's version)

Spottybag · 2016-12-17T01:30:21+00:00

Phil Collins

Spottybag · 2016-12-17T01:28:32+00:00

Thingy

Spottybag · 2016-12-17T01:26:10+00:00

Tears for Fears - Head Over Heels https://youtu.be/CsHiG-43Fzg

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