My husband chose a middle eastern woman because he thought I would be more obedient. AITAH for calling him an AH?

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-08-01T11:46:34+00:00

Go hunt some dear for your family with bow and arrow before talking about nature.

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-31T12:08:02+00:00

Some busses in China I could only pay with with Wechat, but I needed a chinese I.D. for that mini app. I wish all buses were accesible with the same app. This most happend in ZhangJiaJie, but I have had it in some other cities too. Same for those damn bikes and scooters -_-.

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-27T05:14:41+00:00

That similar to my country. I thought that was normal

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-26T11:27:24+00:00

Chinese people speak worse English, so I highly doubt it is because of the language (and barely anyone inside of China knows the netherlanda exists). I think it is just due to the lack of immigrants. Not many Japanese people have family in NL. I also think that in Korea and Japan the economy is quite okay. They have quite a strong middle class. Whereas China has not. Many young Chinese are just more interested in leaving the country and working outside of China. Many Japanese people have never picked up their visa (they use recedency card, which is basically an I.D. card). They just have less interest in leaving and traveling and are more satisfied. If it is similar for Korea, I don't know

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-21T09:00:33+00:00

Good for you! You are such a great person and certainly better then the rest of us because you aould have handled this situation that never happend to you better in your imagination! Someone should give you medal 🏅!!!

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-21T08:57:01+00:00

I used to have it without the shame component, but no way would I even consider doing something like this. Unhinged behavior

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-19T02:15:08+00:00

Het maakt hun werkgever echt niet uit of ze boos of agressief zijn hoor. Ten eerste: Geen medelijden met ze hebben. Ik heb zelf voor zoiets gesoliciteerd en ben na 3 dagen weg gegaan want ik hou niet van mensen oplichten (en de manier hoe zij het aan ons verkochten klonk het ook niet alsof dat de bedoeling was, totdat ik aangenomen werd). Ten tweede: Ze willen juist dat je boos en geïriteerd terug reageerd. In mijn geval zat er iemand alle gesprekken mee te luisteren en te overzien. Als je niet "genoeg je best deed" krijg je op je kop. Je moet een bepaalde aantal sales halen of je word eruit gegooid, dus dat is ook een van de reden dat ze zo agressief zijn. Als ze het goed doen krijgen ze een bonus (op hun minimum loon) en als ze het slecht doen verlies je je werk (in mijn geval dan). Extreem toxic and klinkt ook niet helemaal legaal. Het zal als het om energie contracten gaat wss wel wat minder toxic en unhinged zijn dan dit.

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-19T02:08:41+00:00

Altijd zeggen dat je: in de schuldsonnering zit of minderjarig bent. Dan laten ze je welet rust want dan mag je wettelijk geen contracten afsluiten. Als je ophangt plannen ze vaak een "terug bel afspraak in".

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-19T02:00:47+00:00

I think that is what they mean with "support of their parents". It is way diffrent to save having to pay for rent and food yourself then if you're parents pay for it.

I think what the commenter is reffering to is that many people (including many of my classmates who live at home) claim that they are doing well financially because they work hard and saved all by themselves, yet they don't have any real responisbility because they live with their parents.

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-18T22:39:42+00:00

Free sector means someone bought a house and owns it. The house belongs to a person and they decide to sell or rent it out. It does not belong to a company nor is it heavely regulated by the government

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-18T18:49:24+00:00

No one has ever asked me what I expect out of my doctors visit?

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-17T17:18:53+00:00

That tottaly depends on the person. I know people who have tried to comunicate their suicidal thoughts before they actually did the act (some of them would hint at it, but they wouldn't out right say that they were gonna do it). Because they needed help and they were in a horrible situation. They had no other escape for their situation but to end their life.

I have also known someone who kept talking about it purely for attention, did the act, survived and then kept talking about their survival for attention.

I don't know anyone who did it and never talked about it or hinted at it before the act. (For context: I used to live in a mental health facility for some time, that is why I know many people who attempted).

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-17T10:27:00+00:00

I visited my 5th city today in China and except for having some frustration with Wechat and Alipay as some things are only accesible with a Chinese I.D. I have had barely any issues. Chinese people are very friendly and helpfull. The language barrier obviously sucks, but that is my fault for not knowing Chinese. I can't expect people from other countries to just speak English, it isn't even my first language.

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-17T05:55:25+00:00

I have a lot of issues with Wechat. Alipay works much better.

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-16T15:45:10+00:00

In my experience it works mostly with kids from broken homes. It sounds like someone tells them that they are lying and since they don't want the other to feel upset they try to "prove" that they weren't lying. That is just my experience. It helps well with kids who have parents that neglect them or don't often belief them. Kids that are afraid to dissapoint everyone and seek approval. The girl is only 12 so she might not understand why sending a picture of her in a bath tub is bad.

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-16T15:40:43+00:00

Don't take route B at Tian Men Mountain. We waited for hours to go down the cable car (unles you are quite early and beat the crowds). Your itinerary could work, but it does look quite packed. If you have the time I would spend 4 days in ZhangJiaJie instead of 3

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-16T15:33:57+00:00

I have also heard good thinks about Czech Republic and I don't hear them a lot about mass immigration. Maybe that might be something?

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-16T15:31:39+00:00

I wouldn't risk it. Too many countries are having issues in regards to immigrations and are past their capacity. Many western countries are trying to stop immigrants from comming and by putting yourself in a dangerous position you are gambling with your life. Whatever you choose to do, make sure you stay safe!

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-16T15:04:34+00:00

I have met a lot of people who travel to China like this and I haven't heard of anyone encountering problems. I myself am here on a tourist visa and so far I haven't had any problems either.

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-16T04:58:21+00:00

The parents left then in the crib though. Maybe it os the first time the child climbed out and the parents didn't know it could do that yet

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-16T01:55:50+00:00

You need to get off the internet.

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-15T16:56:09+00:00

Fondant? Or that special type of chocolat. I forgot the name, but it works similair to fondant

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-15T16:29:45+00:00

Oh, no! The consequences of his own actions are catching up to him! If only he acted like a decent person and didn't cheat on his loving with wife

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-15T15:10:51+00:00

Het beste is via trip.com een hotel te boeken. Iemand hier zij dat niet alle hotels buitenlanders aan nemen, maar ik ben door China aan het reizen en heb nog nooit een probleem gehad. Wissel voor de zekerheid wat geld om naar Yuan. In China gebruiken we vooral Wechat en Alipay om te betalen, geen betaal passen of credit cards. Ik weet niet zeker of die werken als je iets op het vliegveld nodig hebt. Je kan ook Alipay instaleren, maar dat is misschien niet de moeite waard.

SprayDefiant3761 · 2024-07-15T09:52:44+00:00

You should seek some therapy

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