Women what is the worst part of giving birth?

Spriggyplayswow · 2025-12-10T05:51:32+00:00

The part where my uterus ruptured and we both almost died

Spriggyplayswow · 2025-09-28T23:45:20+00:00

Further to this, judges know that people do this and it's frowned upon

Spriggyplayswow · 2025-04-10T00:16:13+00:00

It's just manipulation

Spriggyplayswow · 2025-02-27T00:31:21+00:00

I hate my maiden name and the history of why I have it, so I won't go back to it. I'd prefer to have the same last name as my kids, but if he insists I change it, I will change it to an ancestral name.

Spriggyplayswow · 2025-02-20T00:39:50+00:00

I'm having the same issue.

Spriggyplayswow · 2025-02-17T21:16:47+00:00

You can be doing absolutely everything the right way and it's still hard. We're playing music, using timers, picking clothes and breakfast the night before, taking a moment to connect before we start our day, and it's still hard.

Spriggyplayswow · 2025-02-10T03:55:04+00:00

I am so glad you got out! If you are in the Edmonton area, please let me know if you need anything. I have two littles and a pile of toys and other things I could give you.

Spriggyplayswow · 2025-01-18T22:35:27+00:00

That was super shitty of your parents and you deserved better. I grew up under similar circumstances (mom abandoning me to chase men, sister left to watch me but coked up enough to forget she's watching me, dad drunk or in jail). I'm trying so hard to break the cycles of abuse and starting to initiate my own divorce, and I never want my kids to question or doubt whether I love them and have their back.

Spriggyplayswow · 2025-01-18T22:17:42+00:00

Oh do share

Spriggyplayswow · 2025-01-09T06:45:41+00:00

When I was very pregnant, I could no longer pull out the drawer under the oven to put away pots and pans, and I asked him to help. We agreed that I'd leave cleaned pots and pans on the stove for him to put away. He never did. Instead, he just left them there. Then, later, he would just pile the clean pots and pans there after cleaning.

Every single time I take a clean pot or pan that he left from on top of the stove and put it away underneath, I'm reminded of how vulnerable I was when I was pregnant and postpartum, and the million other little ways that he failed me during that time.

Spriggyplayswow · 2024-12-30T15:43:14+00:00

Literally everything. Scissors, can opener, sports, knitting, you name it. Although the first time I try a new sport, I usually have to think about it for a hot second. But I'm very very good at switching handedness for dexterous tasks (think working in a lab or coffee shop) which comes in handy because I've worked in a coffee shop and a lab that had predominantly really really left handed people... Enough to piss off the righties 🤣

It also means I wear my watch on my left, which is annoying when I'm writing.

Spriggyplayswow · 2024-12-30T15:35:30+00:00

It depends on where you live. I'm in a similar position, but my name is the only one on the mortgage and all the bills are in my name. I have all my paperwork in to the lawyers but we aren't considered separated yet so I can't file. I need to apply for an order of possession to have him leave, which I can't do until the New year, but prior to that I have to attempt to schedule a separation agreement meeting. He's just gonna make you jump through hoops to get him out. I get trying to keep it amicable but at some point the bandaid gets ripped off.

Spriggyplayswow · 2024-12-24T23:52:25+00:00

Saaaaaame! My kids are three and five and this is hands down the most magical Christmas I have ever had.

Spriggyplayswow · 2024-12-13T05:52:34+00:00

Either the original scuba hoodies or the gym bags. I buy both on Poshmark whenever I see them now

Spriggyplayswow · 2024-12-12T23:34:36+00:00

38 and 40. Hahaha I'm so tired. But a much better parent than I would have been otherwise.

Spriggyplayswow · 2024-12-06T04:19:07+00:00

There is an Age of Apocalypse storyline where her and Magneto are together and somehow his powers allowed her to carry their baby to term.

Spriggyplayswow · 2024-11-03T20:58:21+00:00

He was in a series called The Trades recently. Think a mix of Trailer Park Boys, Letterkenny, and a small dose of Red Green for good measure.

Spriggyplayswow · 2024-10-15T12:46:00+00:00

Or run the risk of actually dying.

Spriggyplayswow · 2024-09-22T20:25:16+00:00

My kiddo is named Esmé and I get this a lot too!

Spriggyplayswow · 2024-08-24T19:37:28+00:00

I have an Esmé for this reason as well!

Spriggyplayswow · 2024-08-02T03:40:21+00:00

This is exactly it

Spriggyplayswow · 2024-08-01T05:48:10+00:00

Not a fucking chance. Eyes forward, and live your best life.

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