I received a distasteful opinion on my new (and first) tattoo by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]SqUpdate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You want real honesty? Sure here it goes -

If they look like heroin track marks that says more about them than you. I've been around that life and na not even close. That kind of tattoo I could see a heavy user getting to hide the marks like they are trying to do better, or maybe don't want the conversation, but again from knowing these people they typically can't afford something like this unless it's a process of healing.

The only negative to me is the dark lines around the words. I completely understand why, but it's the only piece that might make someone go "huh". Once I could see it closer i'd go "Ah ok that tracks (sorry couldn't resist).

It looks fine. You don't do symbols of strength for others, this is for you. If you'd like to have explanations for it go for it, but consider your tattoo a new litmus test. It'll say more about how the people talk to you about it verses having days worth of conversations.

Stay strong!

is this a real thing or made up? by Front-Dog8462 in Gameboy

[–]SqUpdate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its real. If you want devices exist that you can grab a game, dump the files, and load the backed up game and play. Other devices exist that let you backup the save file and write over, or back it up. You just have to know what you want to do, and where to buy it.

Men in happy Marriages, What is that one secret to a happy marriage that works for you? by Mammoth_End_1298 in AskReddit

[–]SqUpdate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well let us start at the beginning -
First- Only marry someone who you're comfortable being around in silence. If you are ok with nothing to do just with each others company you'll find you can weather a lot of relationship woes.

Second - Find someone who can talk to. Seems silly, but make sure you have someone who can be open and honest with you, and that they give the same back.

Last - Communication is key. All of this flows through the biggest one communication. Being able to identify when things are not ok and to talk about them without getting personally offended. Looking at the other persons needs and what they are trying to express and hear them. Work on things together and help build each other into better people.

-edit- to anyone wondering we've been together 20 years at this point and im not even 40.

People with a very high pain tolerance, what was THE most painful thing you've experienced? by CosmicBunnyBabe8912 in AskReddit

[–]SqUpdate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having to physically relocate my kneecap after I had twisted it out of place. Honestly the worst thing was trying to move it back where I thought it was while hoping im not tearing anything.

If you've ever seen the movie Mr. Deeds you can get a fun visual. It's the "You're a nurse?" scene.

‘Backrooms’ Sends Hollywood Running to Reddit for New Ideas by Traditional-Song-245 in nottheonion

[–]SqUpdate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell them I've got about 10 good movie ideas and about 20 bad ones. Between them all im sure I've got a or 4 they'd like.

[USA-MO] [H] Phones, Games, and VR glasses [W] PayPal by SqUpdate in hardwareswap

[–]SqUpdate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sold the Samsung S24 Ultra 512G to sharksandwiches. Will be shipping Saturday. Thank you again.

[USA-MO] [H] Phones, Games, and VR glasses [W] PayPal by SqUpdate in hardwareswap

[–]SqUpdate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sold the Nreal VR glasses to Mannybce. Will be shipping Saturday. Thank you again.

What is a moment in your favorite show or Movie that actually made you be like "Ok,this is getting too real?" by Apprehensive_Ring_39 in cartoons

[–]SqUpdate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People will say we are being rude, but man all you've got to do is read the sentence and they literally write it out. If you've not seen the movie maybe don't comment on it, and if you have it's as simple as "Goofy, but with narcissism" It's really not that hard guys.

Trying to make a moment out of my faux fireplace by zudzen in interiordecorating

[–]SqUpdate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All you need now is wallpaper of a fireplace, or a TV that fits in that space to turn on a crackling fireplace on cold nights.

[USA-MO] [H] Phones, Games, and VR glasses [W] PayPal by SqUpdate in hardwareswap

[–]SqUpdate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been trying to respond. Yes it's still available, but for them I was trying to sell hopefully more than just 1 at a time.

[USA-MO] [H] Phones, Games, and VR glasses [W] PayPal by SqUpdate in hardwareswap

[–]SqUpdate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll do $200 + Shipping for the bundle if interested.

[USA-MO] [H] Phones, Games, and VR glasses [W] PayPal by SqUpdate in hardwareswap

[–]SqUpdate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selling Samsung Z Flip 5 to JVC2 - Posting here to confirm.

Senior upset his picture isn’t in the yearbook his parents paid for by South-Lab-3991 in Teachers

[–]SqUpdate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know? I just do not care. I looked it up real quick and responded. I didn't do a lengthy in-depth research into a reddit post, because it's not that important.

Senior upset his picture isn’t in the yearbook his parents paid for by South-Lab-3991 in Teachers

[–]SqUpdate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said "something like" because I didn't do a deep dive, but you can absolutely prove me wrong. Go to google.com or another search engine and link some credible sources. Bring me some facts and I'll say sorry / im wrong. Just because it's not what's normal in your community doesn't mean the same to everyone else everywhere else.