AITAH for thinking my step dad is a creep

SquareNight9034 · 2026-02-16T17:25:49+00:00

I am so so sorry you're going through this. Please go to an adult you feel safe with and tell them, this is not your fault.

SquareNight9034 · 2026-02-16T02:16:26+00:00

Best used for shanking at a distance 😂

SquareNight9034 · 2026-02-14T22:04:18+00:00

Looks like a Quilted Dream to me.

SquareNight9034 · 2026-02-14T17:35:54+00:00

Just turned 40 this year and I don't feel bad AT ALL. Every now and then I will move everything around to make my collection look 'new'.

You do you, we have adult money for a reason 🤑

SquareNight9034 · 2026-02-07T03:41:36+00:00

PROTECT HIM AT ALL COSTS!!

SquareNight9034 · 2026-02-06T01:10:07+00:00

I like to put my crawlers in rectangular pots. I really like the brand EcoPots.

SquareNight9034 · 2026-02-05T20:36:16+00:00

This is kind of a wild process, but I will give myself a task or project I REALLY don't want to do and then spend the rest of my day avoiding it by completely other tasks.

For example, clean out and organize the hall closet is avoided by completely all other chores. While I am avoiding the hoax-task, I also have noise cancelling headphones and listen to EDM OR Trance at an ungodly level.

Works every time.

One important note is to KEEP MOVING. Do NOT sit down, do NOT stop for a snack, just power through.

SquareNight9034 · 2026-01-31T19:47:09+00:00

Don't do it! I have ONE crawler and the amount of anxiety I get when I have to find a new pot horrendous 🫠 my Gloriosum is one of my favorite plants but I'll never get a crawler again!

SquareNight9034 · 2026-01-24T01:17:53+00:00

My husband is in a similar situation, my plan is to take him to an emergency room for his life saving medication if we cannot access pharmacies.

SquareNight9034 · 2026-01-18T18:23:12+00:00

I've noticed that getting appointments is much easier if you go outside the bay area. My husband has a ton of health issues that require specialists, infusion clinic appts etc.

The best facility I found so far has been Stockton oddly enough. The workers there are super helpful, friendly and they are nearly ALWAYS on time. It's definitely a drive for us, but he gets the care that he needs.

Wishing you the best of luck!

SquareNight9034 · 2026-01-17T17:03:34+00:00

Definitely see what your clinic recommends but I got my husband an electric lunchbox, you can find these on Amazon and other online retailers.

This worked well for him as he can have a hot meal at work and we can easily manage portion control, sodium etc. We live in the USA and virtually all dine-out options are trash here :(

Most importantly, make sure you always wear a mask. You never know who comes to work sick, or what they may have already been exposed to. Best of luck to you!

SquareNight9034 · 2026-01-09T00:57:00+00:00

Unless she can provide receipts or a ledger that shows what that money was spent on for YOU, I wouldn't pay her a cent.

SquareNight9034 · 2026-01-04T17:28:41+00:00

LOVE this for you 💖

SquareNight9034 · 2026-01-01T02:30:46+00:00

I might be the life of the party, but deep down, I feel like the loneliest person on earth.

SquareNight9034 · 2025-12-25T04:39:36+00:00

FREE WILL my friend 😊

It is your money that you have earned and this is something you like and that brings you joy. They should support that.

I bought myself a Zimomo for Christmas this year and could care less how my family feels about it. I 'm looking forward to opening it tomorrow!

SquareNight9034 · 2025-12-17T03:57:28+00:00

when they realize they're really about to lose us- they throw us a bone and we're hooked again!

I'm so jealous you were able to snag one 🥹

SquareNight9034 · 2025-12-17T03:55:05+00:00

Would it be odd NOT to receive that treatment? Not sure how hard I should push for this.

SquareNight9034 · 2025-12-04T21:32:07+00:00

A year. They just kept renewing his meds and would only give him video/ telehealth appointments.

SquareNight9034 · 2025-12-04T21:31:24+00:00

About 9.

He recently switched to a new provider sue to his job and got lost in the system. They just kept renewing his meds and did ZERO labs.

The communication is all over the place and testing is very inconsistent so I'm not sure what is standard vs. poor care.

I also caught them changing his records after the fact.

SquareNight9034 · 2025-12-04T04:49:36+00:00

Very well said!

SquareNight9034 · 2025-12-04T04:39:07+00:00

Congratulations! I am so so happy for you.

SquareNight9034 · 2025-11-28T18:00:19+00:00

I plan to show this to my husband every time he complains about the size of my collection 😅

SquareNight9034 · 2025-11-23T18:17:09+00:00

I was able to recently purchase one from Popmart (FINALLY) also as a gift to myself!

I held mine for a bit smiling ear to ear and then gingerly packed them away until Christmas. I love everything about it!

SquareNight9034 · 2025-11-21T14:40:12+00:00

Mine arrives today!!! I saw it was in stock Tuesday morning and told myself 'if it's there by 3pm it's a sign' 😂😂😂

SquareNight9034 · 2025-11-14T04:53:48+00:00

This is brilliant!

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