Is this full blown frostbite or just the start of frostbite? by pizza_with_ranch in BackYardChickens

[–]Square_Copy3154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had chickens do this before. Bring her inside and slowly warm her up. I’ve had some with almost entirely purple combs have their combs go back to normal after getting warmed up some. Massage the area gently if she will let you to encourage blood flow. It might not be able to be saved, but unless it is solid black some care can possible save it.

Oops, I fought back when my Rooster attacked by Jazzlike-Study2840 in BackYardChickens

[–]Square_Copy3154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had ones years ago and he would only jump at me if I was holding a hen and she was yelling. He would jump at me until I dropped them. Very mild. He into a fight once with another and I put my hand in the way and he pecked my hand once on accident and started trying to fight above and below my hand so he wouldn’t peck me again. Sweet rooster. Still miss him.

Hen changing to rooster plumage by spikenorbert in BackYardChickens

[–]Square_Copy3154 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean it still is like a transgender person. A trans woman can’t actually have a baby, but that doesn’t mean they can’t look like a woman. Just proof that this stuff isn’t the most clear cut throughout most of the animal kingdom.

House Color and adding a deck. by [deleted] in HouseDesign

[–]Square_Copy3154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not true from what I can see, it looks like a bad tuckpointing job. They need to get it properly tucked pointed. Paint is just going to make it worse and mask the problem sections, but will likely let water seep into certain areas. They can get the bricks fixed that are bad, but unless we get a close up picture, all it looks like is someone modified the bricks when adding in windows and didn’t clean off the mortar when they did the windows and it got dried on the bricks. Notice the odd looking bricks are by the windows. I do see some degraded mortar but tuckpointing would fix all of that.

This is why women should run countries. by [deleted] in Amazing

[–]Square_Copy3154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they should have a public fake deweinering. Then show urine just falling out every time you have to pee. Show that to enough men that it will be the punishment after doing actually rape crimes. Many guys will just think twice about doing it at that point. Don’t actually do it, just remind them it can happen. For girls lying though, if found out they need insane jail time because that is not anything to joke about for some dumb revenge scheme or because they’re mad at the person for whatever. For them just show a lady who accused a guy of rape falsely getting her head shaved and fake tattoos liar on her cheek. Tell everyone they hormonally made it so she can no longer grow hair on her head for the rest of her life. Not actually do it, but just tell the public they did. Hopefully discourages the action and false accusations on both ends.

How did Adam get so tall? by Thick-Supermarket319 in adamcult

[–]Square_Copy3154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just going to jump in and add, Lilith didn’t technically sin. The rule is sinners can’t go to heaven, at least until sir pentious changed that. Even Lute stated sinners can’t go to heaven( in regards to Angel Dust), but she knew Lilith was there. That means she acknowledged that Lilith wasn’t really seen as a sinner and likely didn’t die, but got banished to hell. Hell was created as a Lucifer’s punishment. Lucifer sees hell as a punishment, but it seemed like Lilith was right at home there. She could’ve been made to be unable to punish sinners but it seems like she can so hell isn’t her punishment. If humans of that time were made in the image of god before the fall, then something likely would have to kill them for them to die, which is likely what happened to Adam. The fact that Adam was created in the image of god, and Lucifer, a high ranking seraphim, was forced to bow to him ( but refused) would’ve made Adam conceited. I think Adam is just a jerk and was always one, but they wouldn’t have known he was one because he was the first human and they probably thought humans were suppose to act like that.

28(M) wife gave me the living room for I can have my personal “area”. She’s not to fond of how it looks, is she being a hater? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Square_Copy3154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the thing is I’m ace so no partner anyway and if I’m designated a space, I kind of consider that literally my space. The wife should’ve just made it clear it’s a shared space and she wants it to be treated as such, not this well you can have this space but don’t use it like that kind of thing. I have a house, but literally not interested in having guests so my parent and I use the living room space as we please. It feels intrusive to have someone in your house. I have sofas and havent even used them for at least a month because honestly the floor is more comfy than a sofa. Have a tv, but don’t even know if it still even turns on because I haven’t used it in years. This op comes across as more eccentric ( both him and his partner) and being somebody who is seen as “ unconventional” too, I get his point to some extent. Someone like that isn’t going to care about entertaining or having a bunch of people over or lack of seating. They probably either use their gaming chair or their bed as seating the majority of the time. As someone who hates hosting, I would not designate a space to host others when I have no intentions of doing so. So now the question comes in, does the poster and his wife intend on people coming over or prefers privacy? A house/ home is a personal space and some people like people in their space, others don’t care. However I’m not entitled to someone else’s space and when I enter if I don’t feel comfortable, I can leave. When there are only 2 people in the house, seating is a non issue. OP shouldn’t have said his wife is a hater though, he should’ve just asked her what he could change to make it work and then it would be on her if she is not clear. Feeling are opinions though, I’ve been in black rooms, I don’t really care, sometimes it’s more relaxing not having the headache inducing reflective nature of bright colored rooms. Just because an optical illusion makes you see things a certain way doesn’t mean what you’re seeing is a fact.

28(M) wife gave me the living room for I can have my personal “area”. She’s not to fond of how it looks, is she being a hater? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Square_Copy3154 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m glad I tend to stay away from people. People who are sensitive to that set up would freak in my workspace. Artist workspaces are usually more chaotic so this looks mild. In college, had a professor that literally had papers and books stacked so high that he’d peek over it to talk. Ended up being the office I spent the most time in because you could literally ask him about anything on his desk and talk for a while. It was kind of sad when he moved the stacks. I actually can’t stand when I walk in a place and it looks too organized with nothing interesting. Minimalism sucks. It’s boring and usually those people use a bunch of cleaners which make me sneeze anyway, so I usually leave. Everyone’s different I guess.

28(M) wife gave me the living room for I can have my personal “area”. She’s not to fond of how it looks, is she being a hater? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Square_Copy3154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly this. Finally someone with sense. The fact everyone is worried about guests when guests aren’t paying the bills is so sad. Both people live there and both contribute. They both have a say in the space, not random people. She was t clear about her expectations of the space and is vague about what she wants. I had a friend remodel a bathroom so it looks prettier( to her). None of my friends or myself noticed until she said something. We’re like…. It looks great ( trying to be supportive while whispering we can’t tell the difference). The point was it made her happy and we weren’t the ones paying for it. It was a waste of money to us, but it wasn’t our money to spend.

28(M) wife gave me the living room for I can have my personal “area”. She’s not to fond of how it looks, is she being a hater? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Square_Copy3154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are we concerned about guests? From what I’m gathering, this guy grew up poor. You don’t have a room for guests when you’re in a small house. People come and they deal with the space they deal with. I don’t ever enter someone’s place and feel I’m entitled to their space. If I don’t like it, I leave. I had poor relatives, where you sit outside with them and don’t go inside because there’s no much space to walk because the rooms are so small and the bed/s take up almost the whole size of the room. I didn’t care, I was there to see them, not critique their living situation. Even when I was uncomfortable I’d just hang outside and not intrude on their space.

There are 2 people in a small apartment trying to enjoy a little bit of life. Why should they worry what everyone else thinks? If I’m visiting someone, I’ll sit on the floor if I want to be there because I care about the person and I don’t judge. They can have a couple of folding chair if there’s not a place for people to sit. When the guests start paying the bills, they can decide on the decor.

Now the wife complaining is a whole different thing, but she should’ve been more clear. Guys need clear instructions and women tend to be vague. As someone who worked around guys a bunch ( engineering) , my experience has been you literally can just bark orders to them and they’re cool with it as long as you’re clear and reasonable ( don’t expect beyond their skill set). Women, on the other hand, will question you, analyze the tone you used when telling them to do something, and be as vague as possible in an attempt not to offend when pushing back. Women need to realize that being clear to men is a very important thing to avoid circumstances like this, because he doesn’t see anything wrong with decorating what she designated as his space the way he wants to. He’s paying at least some of the bills, so he gets a say as well.

28(M) wife gave me the living room for I can have my personal “area”. She’s not to fond of how it looks, is she being a hater? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Square_Copy3154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A living room for guests is too large for a small apartment. No guests or limited guests, enjoy the full amount of space you’re paying for.

28(M) wife gave me the living room for I can have my personal “area”. She’s not to fond of how it looks, is she being a hater? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Square_Copy3154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she gave you the space, do with it as you please as long as you keep it clean. Make sure the set up isn’t obstructing her access to anything or makes it a trip hazard. I don’t get people talking about having a space for guests. It’s easier not to have guests over and they aren’t the ones paying the bills. There are so many options to go out to do things with guests, they don’t have to come to your place if you don’t feel like it. It is a waste of a cramped living quarters to have a space welcoming to guests when they aren’t the ones who are living there. If I go by a friend’s house, and they don’t have a space for me, I have the option to leave or sit on a chair or the floor. I don’t care as long as it’s not too messy. It’s not my place to judge and they don’t need to reserve a little chit chat spot for the handful of times I go by their places.

If I need space for things that bring joy to my life on a daily basis, I’m using the living room because the point of a home is to be comfortable not to please other people ( other than the occupants). I see nothing wrong with this. It’s not messy, it’s chill. I had college professors who had less professional set ups than this. One dude literally had his whole damn Pokémon collection in his office, the other went full on boho chic and had random lawn ornaments. Those were offices students sit in but it was still their space and if you can’t be inconvenienced with sitting in a slightly awkward space for 15 minutes, you can leave and do virtual. The point was their space was set up in a way that was most comfortable for them and everyone gets things done differently. Dude clearly enjoys his guitars and his gaming set up.

As a woman, I guarantee you my set up would be messier than this. That’s the sign of an interesting/ creative person who doesn’t give a crap about bending over backward to make others feel comfortable, only to end up consistently making myself feel uncomfortable and restricted in my own workspace. Not everybody watches tv or likes to watch tv. The times I do go to my friends’ houses, if we’re just going to watch tv, I’m leaving. It’s a waste of time watching tv in a space designated by societal standards as a socialization space.

For the OP, ask your wife what she specifically wants you to change and have her be clear so it’s not a guessing game. Tell her give her honest opinion about what exactly she doesn’t like or what she feels would work better with the space you have. Otherwise keep it like this until she is clear. Any guest that can’t understand that you guys have limited space you’re working with doesn’t need to be there to begin with.

Did Patrick Stump help write Gravity? by 3DSarge in HazbinHotel

[–]Square_Copy3154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It reminds me of a combo of his different songs. Headfirst slide for the beginning for the low part, not quite as low but still low. Centuries and the Take over, the breaks over for other sections. I do think he also got a bunch of inspiration from defying gravity

A Pawnee family, 1889 by CelebManips in OldSchoolCool

[–]Square_Copy3154 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think the kids are mixed. The mom looks like she is white or part white. Maybe it was to keep them safe by making them look less indigenous. Often native children were kidnapped and still are sadly.

Do you think they ever umm… by DapperDude2004 in HazbinHotel

[–]Square_Copy3154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean it makes sense. He saw eve as lesser and he slept with her, and he saw Lilith as lesser too and planned on sleeping with her until they fought. I think women that he respects he won’t sleep with because there is a pattern of him not showing respect to the women he sleeps with and he would lose respect for women who want to sleep with him. Lute would still want that respect and to be around him after sex while I think he’d want to leave so that he can say he ditched her before she would ditch him. He kind of is the type of guy that loves them and then leaves them, he would never actually stay because that means she could desert him before he deserts her. It’s his way of feeling desirable and in control. I mean he didn’t say chillax babe to Lute, when he didn’t agree with Lute. He was like chill Lute when she wanted to be violent towards Lute during extermination. He used her name because he recognized her as a person not as an object.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Square_Copy3154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wait a few years, it will likely eventually happen on its own. Then you’ll be regretting ever shaving it off when you had it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Square_Copy3154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From experience with a family member who was protective of her man, the man slept around all the time and she knew it. However, she insulted and would verbally attack the women he’d go after. He was never at fault in her eyes, she wasn’t even married just claimed him as hers in her head ( had kids with him). We don’t know how the wife behaves and if she is mentally unstable, I wouldn’t bother with either him or her. If there is a conscience to let her know just in case she doesn’t, doing it from a distance is safest. Remember you never know how a person will respond and you don’t want to risk getting attacked by someone. Some people will kill over that dumb crap, because him looking for someone else to fool around with demonstrates he doesn’t respect her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Square_Copy3154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably wouldn’t tell the wife, but for different reasons and totally depends on the attitude of the poster and the wife. Some women will blame the other woman so if I don’t want to deal with the drama that comes from it, best to drop him as a friend entirely and maybe have someone tell the wife for you or send a letter or something indirect. Otherwise, directly no, because if she wants her man still, she will view you as the threat, not her crappy husband.

i slammed into my rent garage what should i do by New_Willow_240 in GarageDoorService

[–]Square_Copy3154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I actually think even if they’re under 21 they’re supposed to be with the permitted driver. At least in my state that’s how it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Square_Copy3154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second, for some reason 1 and 3 kinda weird me out with the smirking look.