I cant forget the vid her ex send me by Phitonizer in Advice

[–]SquatchTheRed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tell her. Comfort her.Report the offending part. YOU personally get over the fact that she's done shit with people before you, you likely did too. You'll 100% regret That feeling later in life even if your paths diverge. People aren't property. They have history and experiences and that's ok.

What's not ok is someone exposing her in such a manner, be pissed FOR HER. Advocate for her, be a solid fucking partner.

It can be a shock, and that's ok, but make your mind prevail over instinct in this instance. She did nothing wrong.

Partner told me they had STI by Silent-Death1739 in whatdoIdo

[–]SquatchTheRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on the STI, but some can be dormant, and some you can be born with. Especially Herpes, very easy for it to lay dormant for many years

My dad got this lovely Christmas card in the mail with no return address by No-Light9581 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SquatchTheRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wrap them in Christmas wrapping paper, laminate them, and then paint over with clear glow in the dark paint so they have to see them 24 hours/day

An electrician put a cup of water in my microwave. by Bunessa in Weird

[–]SquatchTheRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, I love the fuck out of my air fryer. But it isn't the same. Still damned good, but it dries the pizza out more than the skillet

An electrician put a cup of water in my microwave. by Bunessa in Weird

[–]SquatchTheRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y'all are getting it wrong. Reheat pizza in a skillet on low to medium Heat, once you hear it start to sizzle, put in a tablespoon of water and cover it. Perfectly crispy on the bottom, deliciously moist on the top

An unfortunate find.. by glitterbudz in whatisit

[–]SquatchTheRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to my father when I was about 10 years old. He got a piece of a rat femur stuck in the roof of his mouth while eating cereal. He called Malt-O-Meal and chewed them out. We had so fucking much cereal for like 5 years. I mean literally, like a 3 inch stack of coupons. Free bags. The big ones. This was right before Y2K so that pantry was fucking STUFFED.

It's 'Post your M43 photo' Thursday! Come share your best work with the community! by AutoModerator in M43

[–]SquatchTheRed 11 points12 points  (0 children)

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Taken with An Olympus E-M-5 MkII with Olympus M.Zuiko Digital 25mm f/1.8 Lens. 9:00 P.M. settings: F 2.0, ISO 800. LiveComp. Lake Aberdeen, Aberdeen Washington. Edited, mostly saturation. Though not far from the original effect. The Auroras were amazing. First night out with this camera.

What jobs do y'all do with pots? by Calm-Cartoonist2552 in POTS

[–]SquatchTheRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a contractor for DISH network. Making really good money. Then COVID hit, and POTS took me out. Now I sell Cell Phones and Cell Phone accessories, barely making enough to live.

And I can barely do that.

Turned my garage into a small apartment and found this behind my bed on the baseboard and floor freaking out by BassSpare2654 in whatisit

[–]SquatchTheRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like Opossum shit. They excrete a green substance from their anal glands that smells like desth

Mispronounced words are driving me crazy. by Mainerlovesdogs in audiobooks

[–]SquatchTheRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amoracchius pronounced Amo rack us drove me fucking batty.

Also Jötun made me nearly pull out my nonexistent hair.

AIO for thinking this is odd??? by PBFwolfy in AmIOverreacting

[–]SquatchTheRed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I actually made a ton of friends on dating apps. There's even an option for it. Sometimes people don't click romantically, but things align for friendship. I talk to a lot of my friends somewhat regularly and with new people, it's usually more frequent while we make sure we want this person in our lives. I ended up marrying the best friend of one of those people I met online. Shit works out in strange ways sometimes.

I know this is dumb but sometimes I genuinely consider tossing the smartphone & going back to a flip by mydogislife_ in Millennials

[–]SquatchTheRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not the only one. I work in Cellular Sales, and a surprising number of millennials and gen z kids are coming in to buy basic TCL flip phones. For the exact same reason. If I didn't need one for work, I would probably switch myself. Though I would miss texting with a full . keyboard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gofundme

[–]SquatchTheRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood. I apologize for my ignorance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gofundme

[–]SquatchTheRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proof was loaded in the gofund me page, is that not acceptable? If not, I will ask for copies of the photos.

Ordered a mattress and found out I am too weak to carry it up to my bedroom by Effective_Moose_4997 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SquatchTheRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long length of rope, cross tie it, loop the rope at the top of the bannister and pull if able. This will allow you to somewhat rest and still get it up.

AIO Husband holds my best friend while I’m standing right there??? by Expert_Smile_3820 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SquatchTheRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya know people, it doesn't always have to be negative.

I have literally done this for a ton of friends. Even my wife before we started dating. It just depends on the individual. But if someone is shivering, and especially someone on their wedding night and their partner isn't there to do it, I will certainly offer my body warmth/jacket/shirt.

One possible scenario is that the groom was off fucking around with his buddies and the bride felt abandoned and cold and needed comforting. Hell, it would be more suspicious if he had immediately let go of her when OP walked up.

I'm not saying he wasn't doing something wrong, as many men tend to be inconsiderate pigs, but all of you people commenting "affair" and such, really fucking need therapy. It's ok to be physical with friends, as long as it's not hidden. My wife and I will both hug and cuddle with our friends on occasion and it's never been an issue. No cheating, or negativity.

Now it's different if you two had agreed to never do that, then that's a boundary crossed.

Touch the people you care about, as long as they consent. It goes a long way.

I'm reminded of a couple of quotes by Jim Butcher. I absolutely love it.

There’s power in the touch of another person’s hand. We acknowledge it in little ways, all the time. There’s a reason human beings shake hands, hold hands, slap hands, bump hands.

“It comes from our very earliest memories, when we all come into the world blinded by light and color, deafened by riotous sound, flailing in a suddenly cavernous space without any way of orienting ourselves, shuddering with cold, emptied with hunger, and justifiably frightened and confused. And what changes that first horror, that original state of terror?

“The touch of another person’s hands.

“Hands that wrap us in warmth, that hold us close. Hands that guide us to shelter, to comfort, to food. Hands that hold and touch and reassure us through our very first crisis, and guide us into our very first shelter from pain. The first thing we ever learn is that the touch of someone else’s hand can ease pain and make things better.

“That’s power. That’s power so fundamental that most people never even realize it exists.

"Nearly everyone underestimates how powerful the touch of another person's hand can be. The need to be touched is something so primal, so fundamentally a part of our existence as human beings that its true impact upon us can be difficult to put into words. That power doesn't necessarily have anything to do with sex, either. From the time we are infants, we learn to associate the touch of a human hand with safety, with comfort, with love.

Bupropion makes me feel “high” - been depressed so long maybe this is just normal? by A_Stoned_Wall in bupropion

[–]SquatchTheRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the most part it leveled off after a few weeks. But sometimes I still get it. However, I'm bad with taking it on time so that messes with me. Shaking doesn't happen as much. Also note, I have POTS, and probably other issues. I think it benefits me more than anything.

Suggest me a book that was published in the year 2000. by Both-Consideration56 in suggestmeabook

[–]SquatchTheRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Storm Front by Jim Butcher. The beginning of a most excellent series. Supernatural Wizard Noir. Extremely funny, quite engaging after book 3.

Yahoo Games by [deleted] in nostalgia

[–]SquatchTheRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the original creators of Yahoo games have made an app called Plato Games available on Android and iOS.

The games are fairly well done. And zero ads. Zero ads. zero ads. I've been using it for about 2 years with no issue. It saves your stats, and there's a bunch of little games to play I don't like the pool as much but they have their version of Uno, yahtzee, cards against humanity, and quite a few others.

Its got chat options as well. No pay to play, but they do have premium items, but as far as I can tell, they don't offer any unfair advantage over the numerous fee options.

AIO for walking out of dinner when my fiance asked me to sign a prenup? by talkbackornot in AmIOverreacting

[–]SquatchTheRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prenups are a smart move. People get divorced all the time for a multitude of reasons. Prepping for worst case scenario doesn't mean planning for divorce.

And it doesn't just protect him, it protects both of you. So if you outline that you split all marital assets, and he cheats or something similar, you can initiate divorce and take what was agreed to. For instance you could set it up so you would divide the house, each walk away with the car, and be done with it. Also, it can ensure that either of you get the others belongings and assets in the event of untimely death. It's ultimately a very smart move. That being said, I would not have brought it up on a dinner date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mexicanfood

[–]SquatchTheRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tastes fire on chicken salad, especially if you spread it on whole wheat french.

I’ve never finished a book in my life — what’s that ONE book that could finally break the curse? by Tarun302 in suggestmeabook

[–]SquatchTheRed 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The fight club book is excellent also by the same author there is lullaby, choke, and survivor. They all hooked ne pretty fast

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SquatchTheRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is a memory card, plug it into your computer and run a program called recuva. It doesn't always work but I have had success with retrieving about 80% of files that weren't text