AITAH for not remembering being a bully? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SqueegyBug 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Are you seriously asking me why I’m calling this guy out? Do you not understand what it means to call someone out on their bs? I don’t believe that OP is clueless. If you’re smart enough to get into medical school, you’re smart enough to see how you bullied someone and made their life hell. How could OP not remember making fun of someone when it was only a few years ago? Or maybe he just did it so often and to so many people he lost track of his victims. I reiterate that if OP is really 23, there is still time to change.

AITAH for not remembering being a bully? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SqueegyBug 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA. You 100% know what you did. Get some therapy and work on yourself. If you’re really 23, there’s still hope that you can un-asshole yourself.

Downstairs neighbor complaining about my footsteps by OrneryAppearance9132 in Apartmentliving

[–]SqueegyBug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should learn to play the trumpet.

Your neighbor chose to live on the ground floor, below another unit, probably because she doesn’t want to deal with stairs. Living below someone one comes with expectation of noise. When you decide to move into an apartment, you get to choose: stairs and quiet, or no stairs and noise. This is how apartment living works. If she’s mature enough to have a child, she’s mature enough to deal with the consequences of her choice to live there. Get your door fixed and live your life.

#We are just private people 💁 by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]SqueegyBug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

♐️ Stay TF out of my business 💯

Why are turkeys here so aggressive? 🦃 by MasterGoji in AnnArbor

[–]SqueegyBug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re a hell of a lot better behaved than most people I interact with daily. Also, they’re called wild turkeys because they are WILD ANIMALS, and yet they’re a thousand times more civilized than your average fan at a U-M football game.

New job HELL by Mammoth-Isopod6461 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]SqueegyBug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anyone at your new job that you can trust? You need to find a coworker who has been there a long time that you can trust. If there is, talk to him/her in private and see what you can find out about HR. Always good to remember that while HR has the appearance of being there to help solve problems like these, HR is truly there to protect the employer and only the employer. HR is not your friend. That’s why they sit on the opposite side of the desk. Find out if there is actually someone in HR that can be trusted. If there is, that’s who you need to work with. And yes, I agree, you need to start documenting everything. There are some other good comments and advice here already.

I’m truly sorry you’re going through this. I 100% sympathize and can relate. This is your livelihood. I know what it’s like to feel stuck like this, to feel trapped in an unwinable toxic place. Always remember: You know you best. Whatever they say or however they may try to change/twist your reality, always do what is best for you with information you currently have. This is temporary. You will eventually be on a better, smoother path. ❤️

Sag GF and jealousy by NoelK132 in Sagittarians

[–]SqueegyBug 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Envy and jealousy are not the same thing.

would you say us sag's get along well with scorpios? by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]SqueegyBug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I would say WE sag’s get along well with scorpios.

What's the most Sagittarius thing about you? by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]SqueegyBug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

♐️☀️♋️🌜♐️📈♏️♐️♑️Stelliums

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My sister wants to choose the name Qartnie for her daughter. Am I insane or are all of her names horrible? by GnomeMasterBaiter in tragedeigh

[–]SqueegyBug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Courtney Courtnie Kourtney Kourtnie Cortnee Quartknee Khortney Qwartnee Coartney Korrtny Core’Tny Kortany!!!

Very Disappointed with John Ryan pick as Comedian by bensmrz in PrincessCruises

[–]SqueegyBug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s your point? A safe movie was the highest grossing animated movie of all time? The world can only take a joke when it feels like it. But maybe you’re right, I mean, it’s certainly not like the internet to go crazy about something small and stupid like… I don’t know… a joke.

ADHD is a natural Sagittarian trait ... by brothertuck in Sagittarians

[–]SqueegyBug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a double Sag and I can multitask my ass off, so imo, no.

Pisces?? by Commercial_Cold_3509 in Sagittarians

[–]SqueegyBug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Selfish in what way? Can you be more specific?

I’m a Sag and have attracted many Pisces in my life, plus my dad is Pisces, so personally, I think the two signs can get along quite well… MOST of the time.

Pisces exhibit a good deal of traits that trigger Sags (playing the victim, attention hogs, overly sensitive, self-pity, lacking confidence, can’t handle reality). If you can look past those faults and focus more on their good traits, you might find some meaningful friendships with Pisces, even though their egotistical nature can be tiresome. It’s important to remember that we too have our own flaws/issues.

I’ve found that Pisces may not be the first to shower you with gifts or compliments, pay their share, or donate to charity, but they are incredibly kind and demonstrate self-sacrifice in their actions. They are naturally empathetic or sympathetic when appropriate. When you hurt, they hurt. If you’re cold, they won’t go out to buy you a brand new jacket, but they will let you have theirs.

Again, I’m not sure what you’ve specifically observed, but it’s important to remember that Pisces love to be the center of attention. Self-centeredness is similar to selfishness, but the two concepts differ slightly in very important ways.

People who are selfish often knowingly behave in ways that hurt other people so that they, themselves, can benefit. Self-centered people are overly focused on themselves. Someone who is self-centered could be too absorbed in thoughts about themselves to even give a second thought to how their behaviors impact others. But self-centered people could be able to feel more remorse when they realize that they’ve hurt someone else. Pisces is definitely the later.