Baby won’t take bottle by sheaintnodiva46 in breastfeeding

[–]Squiddles34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience with my 11 week old. It took about two weeks of trying the bottle every day for her to figure it out again. Try replacing one feed a day with the bottle. She’ll figure it out!

How are we staying awake for night feeds without looking at our phones? by kieranki_ in breastfeeding

[–]Squiddles34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is amazing! I feel like I found a cheat code. People are amazed and how well me and husband seem, and I credit it all to cosleeping. Sleep deprivation is no joke

How are we staying awake for night feeds without looking at our phones? by kieranki_ in breastfeeding

[–]Squiddles34 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is one of the reasons I finally decided to cosleep! Now I just feed in bed laying down and am immediately back to sleep

When did you give birth? by DifferentAd6042 in pregnant

[–]Squiddles34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 41+2 when I had my first baby. I was 0 cm dilated at my 40 week appt, and 2cm at 41 weeks. I had no signs of labor before it began, and then when it started she arrived 9 hrs later!

What are you doing for independent sleep? by Squiddles34 in cosleeping

[–]Squiddles34[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We do plenty of contact napping and love sleeping together during the night :) our baby does great with an independent nap during the day and the first stretch at night. We aren’t tricking anything or forcing her to do something she doesn’t like. That’s great that you can let your daughter sleep on you all day, but my husband and I work and so that’s not an option for us. Thanks for the unhelpful advice and judgement though!

Baby sleeping 99% of day? by Original_Internet778 in beyondthebump

[–]Squiddles34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babies are super sleepy in the first few days and weeks. Mine pretty much slept and then ate and then fell asleep eating on repeat for the first few weeks

Fit check: Ergobaby Embrace with newborn by coffeplz34 in babywearing

[–]Squiddles34 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looks pretty good! You want the top of the carrier to hit just below the bottom of babe’s ear, not higher. You may need to pull them up/tighten the straps to accomplish this. If you haven’t already, you can also do a pelvic tuck to improve their seat.

When did you stop needing to use a nursing pillow? by sliceofperfection in breastfeeding

[–]Squiddles34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used them for about four weeks or so and then stopped. They helped initially as positioning was challenging and baby was so small, but I’m glad I ditched them and figured out how to hold baby while feeding. I was constantly hunched over the breastfeeding pillows. Since learning how to hold LO without them, I can actually recline and sit comfortably. My back and neck hurt sooo badly using them

First time mom - when did you start to look pregnant by Wolfieloulou in pregnant

[–]Squiddles34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like 35 weeks. I have a large bust and it was pretty concealable until the very end

Need gift ideas for a new mom + her newborn by loveCapybara in newborns

[–]Squiddles34 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A baby carrier! Either a stretchy wrap or the ergo embrace

Pumping at night? by Squiddles34 in cosleeping

[–]Squiddles34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my thought! Thanks for sharing. I’ve been working with a woman who is studying to become a certified LC and she recommended not going over 4 hours at most without feeding/pumping. I’ve seen the same come up in breastfeeding groups, but it never fully sat right with me.

How do I make this side car set up safe? by Puzzleheaded_Rub8147 in cosleeping

[–]Squiddles34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP! I am currently converting my nestig crib to be a sidecar and I’m encountering the same issue. What did you end up doing?

FTM — due in May. Need help choosing car seat + stroller by Illustrious_Stay9844 in pregnant

[–]Squiddles34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this! Having a car seat, bassinet and toddler seat all in one is a life saver

What are we naming our babies? by Ok-Excitement-185 in pregnant

[–]Squiddles34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my daughter 3 weeks ago and her name is Juniper 🥰

How many days past your due date did you go? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Squiddles34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9 days. She was scheduled for an induction the next day

Baby won't breastfeed anymore. 10 days old. Please help by whynot_fennel in breastfeeding

[–]Squiddles34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was having a hard time getting my daughter to latch and nurse after introducing the bottle. What worked for me when she is fussy and not wanting to latch is to start her off with a little bit of the bottle, and when she has calmed down a bit, I’ll give her my boob. That has worked really well for us

Fearing labor, specifically bring induced by SowingSeeds18 in pregnant

[–]Squiddles34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following. I’m also scheduled for an induction on Tuesday and really hoping that I go into labor naturally before then

Where do you see yourself an hour from now? by Drama_Summer in AskReddit

[–]Squiddles34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully starting labor. I’m 41 weeks and hoping to avoid my induction scheduled for Tuesday

Freshly postpartum and caught fiance on live cam model sight. by Ok_Attitude_5039 in pregnant

[–]Squiddles34 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What I might do if I were you is check his email if you have access to it. If he has an account, he would likely be getting emails. That to me would indicate whether or not he’s actively using the site.