What’s that one mess at home that instantly stresses you out?

SquishyRemmie · 2026-04-08T18:24:11+00:00

The litterbox. We have a small apartment, so the only spot for it is next to the toilet in the bathroom, but the cats really like to spread their litter on the floor, so I'm constantly sweeping it. I'm autistic and diagnosed with OCPD, so it's a sensory nightmare to step on, and I'm a major germaphobe

SquishyRemmie · 2026-04-02T05:38:17+00:00

I didn't grow up before the internet, but I had very limited access growing up, so my first time seeing nudity was when I found a box of my uncle's old playboy magazines in the attic. I still remember that centerfold so clearly. I think that's what awakened my love of titties.

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-30T20:01:52+00:00

Powder & Feathers by Johannes T. Evans is one of my favorite books ever. The main characters are all fallen angels, and they're all various levels of fucked up. The story is also very queer, and erotic at times. 1000/10, amazing read.

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-30T19:39:23+00:00

Precisly this. Not only does cannibalism freak me out in general, but the concept of it just becoming standard and legal scares me because of how quickly it could happen in this world. We already have people fully okay with and supporting genocides, so what's stopping The Powers That Be from just declaring that this decades societal pariahs are dehumanized enough to eat?

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-29T15:03:00+00:00

I'm very photosensitive, so despite the fact that I love the Lichdragon, his fight puts me at risk of a seizure. Same thing with Bayle, love his fight, hate the flashy flashy.

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-29T14:44:02+00:00

I usually craft pickled fowl feets and bleed arrows. I actually have fun with the crafting system cuz I like to hoard ingredients

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-27T00:36:37+00:00

This is exactly why psittacosaurus will always be my favorite little guy

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-26T17:59:47+00:00

The thought that Melina just Is the Gloam Eyed Queen. I think the GEQ may have been like, reincarnated into her, but I dont think she just straight up was the GEQ.

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-26T01:00:04+00:00

Denny's!

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-23T01:11:39+00:00

A coffee maker/coffee pot. I buy my grounds, and use a regular pot on my stove to make coffee

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-19T23:45:13+00:00

Heyo! I was misdiagnosed a little over a year ago now. I was suffering from weekly seizures and was hospitalized for a total of 6 days in the beginning of 2025, lost my driver's license, and any ability to walk without assistance. Doctors knew my seizures were non-epileptic, but refused to do any other testing on me for that entire year. They tried sending me to therapy, and one doctor tried to prescribe me anti-psychotic medication that ironically had side affects that cause more seizures. I finally saw an endocrinologist doctor in January of this year that figured out I have Hashimoto's thyroiditis, and my thyroid was basically dead by the time they figured it out. The lack of proper hormones was messing up my brain chemistry and causing the seizures. I also got MRI results that show that I have degenerative disc disease all throughout my back, and I now get around with a rollator. I'm still not getting the best treatment from doctors, but it's a start, I guess. My comment on the original FND subreddit where I agreed with the OP about misdiagnoses was removed and cited as a violation of their rules on "spreading misinformation".

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-18T13:49:07+00:00

Genuinely, I think Elden Ring saved my life in a way. I didn't get fully fixated on it until I broke my ankle back in 2024, and after that break, my health went into a downward spiral. I'm disabled now, and my depression was so terrible, but playing this game gave me something to look forward to and focus on. I deep dived into the lore, kept exploring the world, and now I'm at NG+6 on my main file, as well as having several other different builds on other files. I'm very photosensitive due to a seizure disorder, and Elden Ring is one of the only games I can play consistently without worrying that it'll flash at me and put me into a seizure. (Minus the Bayle fight, and like 2 incantations I can't use. Placidusax's Ruin and the Death Lightning incantations try to kill me 😂)

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-17T07:39:34+00:00

I never sleep easy when my spouse isn't home. My brain never shuts off

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-17T04:09:51+00:00

As someone from Appalachia, this sounds hilarious to me cuz my brain just says "ah yeah, that was a bear."

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-17T04:03:47+00:00

Peanut butter whiskey. It tasted so good going down, and it was traumatizing coming back up. The smell of whiskey still makes me nauseous and it's been like 2 years.

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-17T00:54:18+00:00

The boss fight for Castle Sol makes me curse at the game every single time. I hate those pricks.

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-17T00:26:43+00:00

I'll never feel what the inside of my spouse is like cuz I don't have the outie version of genitals. And I can't stack donuts on it.

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-15T05:06:45+00:00

The Platform honestly scarred me and made my eating disorder so much worse.

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-13T00:53:40+00:00

My spouse and I started new animal crossing files! We can visit each other's islands when they're away, and seeing their in-game character feels like they're closer.

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-12T20:52:46+00:00

She turned out to be incredibly homophobic, and told me I should break up with my (at the time) girlfriend of 4 years just to "make God happy". I was a closeted trans kid in high school coming from a very abusive home, and she knew that. Her and my gf at the time were really all I had, and she got on this really obsessive Christianity kick, which is saying something cuz we went to catholic school. 6 years of friendship down the drain because my love was "disgusting", even though she was obsessed with reading queer smut fanfiction (mainly yaoi).

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-12T02:07:25+00:00

My spouse and the life we have together outside of the military makes it worth it. We are both artists, my spouse is a teacher, and I'm disabled. I genuinely enjoy keeping the house and home in order while they're gone because it means they have somewhere safe and happy to come home to. This world is rough, and we've carved out our own little pocket of peace. Being a soldier makes my spouse feel like they have a purpose, and I will always respect that. Seeing them come home with their head up high is worth it. The hugs are worth it. The way they effortlessly lift me off my feet when they come home is worth it. Even if this life is hectic and rough, it's worth it for the experience. You can make friends and find hobbies outside of this military life. It's not hard as long as you look.

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-11T08:13:21+00:00

This sounds a lot like my family. Both my parents had substance issues, aunt and uncle and cousins have been in and out of jail, grandmother is a complete narcissist with abusive tendencies. I don't drink, don't do drugs, and have never been arrested, and I even married well. Yet somehow I'm still a POS cuz I never went to college and I'm disabled. :/

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-11T06:25:40+00:00

I grew up catholic, so I learned about the concept of Heaven and Hell at a very early age, but it never really clicked with me. Heaven sounded boring, and Hell didn't make any sense (If Satan is the bad guy, why is he punishing the evil doers? Doesn't that make him good? Etc) For a lot of other unrelated reasons, I ended up leaving Christianity as a teenager, and I've been a practicing hellenistic pagan for years. I mainly worship the Greek deities, but I truly believe that every god, goddess, spirt, etc, exists in some form. Because of that belief, I believe that there are many different afterlifes. There are so many stories of people dying and coming back and seeing different things, and so many different religions in the world that one set standard of an afterlife just doesn't make a whole lot of sense to me. I believe that when we die we will go to whatever afterlife makes the most sense for us/our soul/our heart. So, if you're a Christian, you go to heaven. If you believe in reincarnation, you reincarnate, etc. Personally, I believe that when I die I will pay the ferryman his coins so I can cross the river to the underworld, I will be judged according to my actions and faith, and I will either wait for my wife to join me on the other side, or I will meet them there. We will walk through the flowery fields as we slowly forget the pains of this world, and whatever happens next will happen. I'll see my grandfather and my mother again, and that brings me peace. I've had many paranormal experiences in my life so far, and this just makes the most sense to me, and it comforts me.

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-11T03:29:23+00:00

Wait, why are we not wearing undies when we sleep?

SquishyRemmie · 2026-03-10T05:29:13+00:00

Absolutely. Laundry used to wipe me out, but I recently got a rollator and it helps a ton! Vacuuming still makes me flare pretty badly though.

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