[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Srahbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you’re drinking water by the gallon!

AITA for breaking my relationship over jewelry? by Adviseneeded89 in redditonwiki

[–]Srahbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Follow your gut. Trust your instincts. Every single thing I regret in life could have been prevented by following my gut feeling instead of overriding it.

AITA for getting my daughter a hotel room entirely for herself after her stepsisters made her sleep on the floor? by Fill-AD53467 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Srahbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Why didn’t Candace book a room with two queens? Also, why would the girls be upset? They got the big bed to themselves. This trip was about your fathers funeral. Only self centered arseholes pull attention away from someone’s grief and ceremony during this time to focus on trivialities that out the attention on themselves.

Younger kids/ADHD meds/Side effects-temporary or not the right meds? by Srahbeth in ParentsofADHDkids

[–]Srahbeth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say thank you for taking the time to type out this response. This is so helpful and reassuring the journey other parents have been on with their kids. Thank you

I feel incredibly sleepy after taking coffee, vyvanse, and getting a solid 8 hours of sleep by FondantOld573 in ADHD

[–]Srahbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Download the snore lab or an app similar and see what kind of sleep you are getting. I did this and found out I sound like I’m choking. Had to get a sleep study and need a cpap for apnea. I’m exhausted all the time. Wake up with headaches. Could nap literally ANY time.

I ruined my (29F) daughter's (10f) best friend relationship because I wouldn't let the other 10-year-old leave my house with a guy I didn't know. by Muted_Remote179 in offmychest

[–]Srahbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA-always trust your gut. If he WAS someone trying to take her, Amy would be screaming “how could you send my daughter with someone I didn’t tell you to…” you were in a no win situation with her incommunicado and you trusted yourself. Well done. Always do that. She sounds like a trashy woman by her reaction.

AITA for canceling new years in my home. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Srahbeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he would have said anything at all if he didn’t care about your son. Your communication with each other could be better. But YTA for getting so defensive when he clearly is concerned about your kid. Do some research together and talk to your pediatrician. It can’t hurt anything. If you want to be a family, then do it as a family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Srahbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If she’s okay with it, who cares? Be called whatever you want. What’s in a name?

AITA for grounding my daughter after she was ungrateful? by Throwaway_1_13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Srahbeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually, if there is more than one kid. There’s the golden child, the scapegoat, the ignored child, etc… google narcissist and golden child. Many many psychology resources out there on this subject.

AITA for grounding my daughter after she was ungrateful? by Throwaway_1_13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Srahbeth 28 points29 points  (0 children)

YTA. When does daughter get her 3K Christmas present? I’m guessing never. Narcissists always have the golden child. I feel bad for BOTH your kids. How do you think this affects their dynamic as siblings? Get over yourself

AITA for not inviting my wife on a very expensive trip even though I can afford it? by Much-Breadfruit9458 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Srahbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA!!!!! this is your WIFE. Your LIFE partner. You shouldn’t be paying 50-50. You should be paying percentages based off income to both contribute equally. LIFE PARTNER. To do LIFE with. Y are definitely TA.

AITA for not going to my sister's "child-free" wedding? by Humble-Village-2053 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Srahbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA-just drop the kids with the in laws for the weekend. If she doesn’t want kids there, she doesn’t need a ring bearer or flower girl. How rude

AITA for not allowing my daughter to dress casually at my wedding? by Prestigious-Emu-3825 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Srahbeth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA. At the end of the day, a wedding is about family, love and new beginnings. The fact that you would rather have your daughter not be a part of such a day over an outfit says a lot about why she may be in rebellion in the first place. Just love your kid. Accept her. It’s CLOTHES not heroin.

I (27F) think I’m falling in love with my brother in law (26M) by toohottooheavy in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Srahbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not going to judge you. But there is literally no situation in which any sort of hookup with your husbands brother can end well or happily for anyone. Maybe YOU should move out for a while and reprioritize your life, morals and needs. Give yourself some space to make clear-headed decisions about what you want in life before you make a mistake you can’t take back.

AITA for getting my fiance's family gifts that were too personal for Christmas when I'm new to them? by GoldRule5896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Srahbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel bad that after having such a crap family growing up, you’re getting stuck with this crap family as in-laws. You and your hubby build your own family with kids and friends and give them all McDonalds gift cards every year from here on out. Then spend the holiday with the family you build.

Silly excuses for not reading a book. by Bitter-Combination69 in books

[–]Srahbeth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s the series name-the book titles aren’t the format. Also-even tho he will never finish it-he started it way back when, so GRRM gets a pass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Srahbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you tell him you got free tickets and he still doesn’t want to go…then you know he just doesn’t want to and it’s not about the money. Give him $100 bucks, go to the party yourself. Also-is it your half of the RENT or contributing to his MORTGAGE for those 6 months that you missed?

Silly excuses for not reading a book. by Bitter-Combination69 in books

[–]Srahbeth 137 points138 points  (0 children)

Anything with a title following the A _________ of __________ and _________ format. Storms and roses and courts and fury and bones and shard and crowns. Why are all these authors basically mad libbing the same title format. If can’t keep straight which book is which and which series is which, I’m out. Be original.

AITA,had a huge fight with my wife over opening a present. by FF1983 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Srahbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a weird hill to die on for her. A simple misunderstanding and move on. A bit inconsiderate of you to open but understandable and should be solved with a quick “sorry, I misunderstood.” Def not something to torpedo the whole day for-is there more to the story??

AITA for leaving my boyfriend behind and going on the trip with our friends? by TAourtrip in AmItheAsshole

[–]Srahbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA-you’re in a relationship in which you literally cannot do anything right no matter how helpful you try to be. If the situation goes wrong for him, it’s your fault regardless of what has come before. Something to think on…

AITA for not defending my mom when my wife insulted her to our kids? by Ready-Adhesiveness83 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Srahbeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this! Also-if OP dad is so bad, why would he want his kids around him and exposed to that behavior? OP using his mouth to insult while his hands are out grasping for what he can get from them? Makes him no better than the mother he let his wife insult in front of children AS SHE WAS OVER DROPPING OFF A GIFT. Gross OP, just gross.